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What happened to "NEXT!"

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Problem is, I want my cake and eat it too as the metaphor goes. AND, I have been having this for the past 6 years. I think I have SADD, "Sexual Attention Defecit Disorder" I get bored easily. Truth is, even when i'm in CR with this chica i've seen for 2 years, I have another chica I have seen for 3 years and spend alot of my off time with her. These 2 girls are very different but each of them has qualities I enjoy and then there's the "next" girl who I make time for too. So maybe it isn't love, maybe it's just a very strong like. I am most attracted to the "good" in this particular girl ie; giving money she doesn't have to the street begging K*ds or making me breakfast after spending the night at her apartment or making sure i'm tucked away on a night that I get really ph*cked up in SL. There's a trust with her that I don't have with the others but ultimately I return to my "real life" and routine. Did I mention she wont take money from me now when I visit telling me she doesn't want me to think it's about the "plata"? Is this just a step in the "making him trust me more" stairway? Who knows, I'm still following my own advice, avoid contact for a while and taking another trip to a different destination, Sosua DR. So we shall see what happens. One thing for sure, no way i'm leaving my wife, everyone has a "life partner" and no amount of sexual compatibility can make up for all the other intangibles in my opinion. So write on my brothers, I enjoy the read and the advice.

Well, now you have explained everything. You're a horn dog. Keep the wife, go elsewhere, play and have fun. Then come back to CR and have fun, again. This one girl isn't going to complete anything for you.

Oh, it is not about the plata. It is about the cement, the bucket, your shoes, the lake and the boat she will throw you off when it all comes together for her.

Go to DR and if they try to get close, tell them you have a novia in CR.

Dean

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my first wingman sent me this, how true

" most of the girls down here, lie as a self defense mechanism and to not have to face the truth, thinking most men couldn't accept them knowing the whole truth. Simpler, they may just want men to think they are as perfect as they want to appear to them, trying to hide what they consider to be the ugly truth about themselves. And I may be reading more into it than is there, but I do believe they consider the basis of the lies to be justified."

I agree. With the information that he just provided I will said. Enjoy the ride and the chicas.

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Hit them fast, Hit them hard and NEXT!
A good chica is like a good carpenter - No wood gets wasted!!!

Good one, someone once posted- "Men have two basic needs: pu*sy and new pu*sy"

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Living well is the best revenge
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MwUtj_YnNoY

From one who knows, hooking up with a chica, working or non, is not a joy ride and is not for everyone. There will be drama. She will assume that you want to phuck everything with a slit, including girls that you wouldn't phuck for free on a desert island. You will constantly deal with her insecurity, jealousy and a list of cultural issues that you never considered.

Do it right and she will give you challenges everyday and she will do her level best to kill you with that mouth, ass and poosie every phuckin' night.

Yes, trying to hook up with a different chica every night who will do you the way you want to be done can be a challenge, is often frustrating and the anxiety of trying to make the right choice can harsh your buzz. Trying to find one or two who are know quantities and who you can actually have a conversation with can be a very good thing. However, you may not want her undivided attention. (JMHO.)

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"Your love gives me such a thrill
but your love don't pay my bills,
I NEED THE MONEY!" - John Lee Hooker

Disclaimer: The above is merely the opinion of the author unless specific scientific data is included.
Your mileage may vary. https://costaricaticas.com/phpBB2/viewto ... 978#206978

whats the point of good sarcasm if no one gets it. sort or like a tree falling in the forest when no ones around.

How right you are Dean. When I stay at her place, I tend to sleep with one eye open. On my last trip, once we made up, I asked her about an e-mail she sent me which said, "I can only hope that I die before you return so I don't have to see you". He response was, "well I was really angry with you". We agreed that before she took her friends' word for what I had supposedly done, she would talk to me first. I figure if she could get that upset because she heard I was seeing someone else, she might really want to do me harm! LMAO I'll try to avoid the cement, the bucket and the boat and lake.

Pac55, there in lies the problem. I want new but I want it like I like it when it's really great! The catch is that when it's new, we don't know if it's going to be great. When I find great I kind of want to bottle it and hold on to it until I find something better. Truth is, I am a dog. I like to get the chicas to fall in love, lust or serious like. Once I do, I like to keep them there for when I want them. What measures their interest in me? Money or the lack of my giving it to them. Then I like to go out and find others who will fufill the challenge of the chase. However, I really do have a sense of love, lust or serious like for these chicas in return. It is not my intention to disrespect or hurt them, on the contrary, I want to show them a good time in an unbusiness like relationship so that they don't feel like all men are DOGS!
Anyway, thanks for all the advice. Since i've posted and have read different responses, i'm already feeling better, not thinking about her all the time and have made my next trip to Sosua by buying the flight and booking the hotel. ON MY WAY TO RECOVERY, 1 STEP AT A TIME!

you just never can predict what will happen in life or how you will feel about it...

I fell in love with a Colombiana my 3rd trip down back in 05. It lasted 3 days. She had but one single flaw. Here's how it went...

Me: You want to go to dinner tomorrow night ( after 3 sessions on 3 consecutive days @ cein...before I knew better).

Colombiana: "dinner is MONEY?"

There was no dinner... she never put another single dollar in her purse on my behalf. The gulch is a fantasy... the sooner you realize the land you're in is all make-believe the sooner you'll enjoy the ride.

Oh... and wake up and smell the coffee!

Berk....

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FRUITCAKE... and you thought it was something you eat! Not on CRT!

Hombre... you are not on your way to recovery. You're one your way to repeating the same behavior... in a different country. Don't fool yourself.

Berk....

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FRUITCAKE... and you thought it was something you eat! Not on CRT!

I’ve said it before; Costa Rica is fun if you take the mongering scene for what it is. The mongering scene is an illusion. Don’t buy into the program or you will be kicking yourself. And “yes” your novia is just like the rest of them working girls/whores and not different for crying out loud.

Berk,

how long did it take you to recover from the breakup of that relationship? I bet you’re glad you didn’t start a family.

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Well, I didn't know she listens to friends. Now, you might want to be careful of the rope, bat, hood, trunk, watch you shovel a ditch to throw you in. Some like the water, others prefer land. I didn't realize we were talking about a land lover. My mistake.

Be good buddy and always have fun, which I think you do!

Dean

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my first wingman sent me this, how true

" most of the girls down here, lie as a self defense mechanism and to not have to face the truth, thinking most men couldn't accept them knowing the whole truth. Simpler, they may just want men to think they are as perfect as they want to appear to them, trying to hide what they consider to be the ugly truth about themselves. And I may be reading more into it than is there, but I do believe they consider the basis of the lies to be justified."

Recovery... maybe all of 30 minutes until the NEXT one came along! I was .06mm away from stupidity, but never crossed the line cause I used by BIG head!

DRAMA (and 18 years of bambino support) is NOT my idea of FANTASY, although it maybe for some! There are ALL kinds of fetishes (e.g. living in hell) out there!

Berk....

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FRUITCAKE... and you thought it was something you eat! Not on CRT!