Kickstand wrote:
If I knew somebody in this type of situation, I'd consider it an obligation to tell them.
Wouldn't helping a few guys open their eyes and get out of a messed up situation or even avoid it all-together be worth it?
- Sure if you KNEW somebody, but Josie doesn't know the guy and niether do you.
- He probably met her in the gulch P4P anyway so how clueless do you think he really is? (And of course he's not unemployed he's just telling her that to keep her from begging for so much money since he doesn't have the balls to say NO.)
- I knew a guy that continued to do stupid stuff no matter what we told him, bought chicas jewelry, cars, sent shitloads of money... some guys will never listen to logic anyway when it comes to this.
I do agree that if a friend was acting stupid or a chica was pulling a big con job then he should be warned, but wouldn't a friend of any member here already know the scoop? The guys that don't know have access to 1000 websites besides this one warning about sending money to "girlfriends" in other countries, especially countries with large P4P scenes so they could figure it out on their own pretty easily if they try. May not sound very "bros before ho's" but too much of that "us against chicas" mentality preached on here anyway IMO. Having gotten close to a few favoritas in the past and seeing how they work and live I've no sympathy for the guy that sends money or pays 300.00+/TLN. I've had several regulars that were off the market being paid not to work and every one came to my hotel when I called, one had papi sending 500/week, she was so happy not having to work at the HDR every night and I was happy for her. Hell they met at the HDR so what is there to warn him about? That she was screwing me when she's supposed to be saving herself for him between trips?

Sorry but it's all part of the game and knowing how the game works on both sides is what it's about. One trip an amigo's Colombiana claimed to have 4 guys sending money at once, good for her and shame on them but it is part of the business and I see no reason to condemn chicas for trying to get maximum dollar or asking some guy to send money, nobody's forcing them to send it. I also don't see how it negatively affects us that don't and won't send money- we still get fair prices and they respect us for not being suckers. Also the chicas that do land a whale occasionally brag to their amigas which lures more fish to the pond.