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Question Gentleman:
Are these comments from the voices of experience, years of distrust, regret and insecurity in yourselves or were you born born that way Just asking

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I know that my daddy taught me how to be a man. So when a chica wants to play RFM’s games I can have enough cojones to say, Phuck OFF.

Now the question goes back to the guy who wrote “Only 30% or less of these have been honored and the amount was always less than requested”. What is his excuse?

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Anybody dumb enough to honor the RFM{s deserves to be picked absolutely clean.

I haven't had my RFM cherry busted yet but I gather it happens more then I would think.

I would encourage guys not to give off the impression an RFM is ok. If you and a girl are cool enough to exchange emails and chat, make it so that she knows better. I would like to think a chica would feel embarrassed to RFM me. These girls are still human, even though RFM's "seem" common lets not make it so common that a girl shouldn't feel shame if she does it.

Be as generous as a guy that you want, I'm not saying be a penny pinching type guy. Its not about being frugal, its about respect. To me recieving an RFM would be disrespectful and a complete turn off. I'm under the impression the chicas I keep in contact feel the same way. To me that's normal...

P.s. Its not about the money to me, its the request itself...

Cujo

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"Pain is the fuel that fans the flames of my pyre. A battle plan is only as good as the general carrying it out on the field. This is my war son, and I have the biggest bombs and the smallest conscience"...

We all sure spend a lot of time thinking about and debating this topic... what's up with that?

If you accede to RFMs, nothing another monger posts will stop you -- you'll just keep quiet about it. You're like a drug addict -- only you can heal yourself.

If you don't respond to RFMs or don't even get them, then you don't have an issue, right?

mh

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I agree MH. When the dust settles its not going to matter what the masses say, every guy will do what he wants.

Just don't lose your head , (along with your money) if your going to honor these requests fellas...

Cujo

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"Pain is the fuel that fans the flames of my pyre. A battle plan is only as good as the general carrying it out on the field. This is my war son, and I have the biggest bombs and the smallest conscience"...

But if you have read the board for more than 15 minutes, why in the hell would you honor one... And if so, why would you come out and say "I sent an RFM". Sorry, I know some of the sensitive souls are gonna get mad but I just don't get it.

I will say that is too late already. Once you have fill out a RFM’s is too late. Your head and cojones are gone. You got no bargaining power. You are paying a chica for not working and subsidizing her novio/husband for free pu*sy.

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Hit them fast, Hit them hard and NEXT!
A good chica is like a good carpenter - No wood gets wasted!!!

Well said Josie.. And if you even get an RFM, you might consider changing something about your mongering. Not 100% of the time, but most, the chicas smell weakness and know you they should and who they should not ask.

Are you guys talking about chicas or lions?

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mh

Most girls will ask for money sooner or later once there is the slightest level of "friendship." From my experience, most chicks will NOT stop talking to you if you refuse their RFM. And the ones that do stop talking to you if you refuse, why would you want any kind of relationship with them?

My father, uncles and grandfathers taught me:
If you have the finances available to you and it will not cause you financial distress, that you should be generous and provide support monetarily and/or emotionally to any one who asks for it. It does not make you less of a man but speaks volumes about who you are.
I expanded this philosophy to my ex novia, who was my novia at the time and she is the ONLY chica I have ever honored an RFM from.

I live this philosophy with other friends, female AND male who fall on hard times. I have no regrets about doing so. IF it is within my capabilities to do so I will, if not I will not.

I am currently having hard times but MY PRIDE will not allow me to ask for assistance.

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I can understand that Patrot but there's a clear difference between helping others and friends in your hometown and honoring an RFM from a chica in another country....Agreed?

Cujo

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"Pain is the fuel that fans the flames of my pyre. A battle plan is only as good as the general carrying it out on the field. This is my war son, and I have the biggest bombs and the smallest conscience"...

I agree Cujo.

I caved into a RFM from a working girl once. $150. The girl claimed she was sick. But this chick lived in my hometown. When I dropped off the money, it was clear she was ill. So it didn't bother me.

But RFM for cell phone bill, rent, or other BS. Naww..I pass.

Agreed

But also understand that there was the emotional attachment, at the time, which proved to be false. So yes I was scammed AND WILL NOT BE SCAMMED AGAIN
( Yeah right )
I said it so no one else had to.

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