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The honorable response: You want to play around in the scene and keep these girls in the queue. Tell them the the truth. If these girls are with you bcs they want to be with you (no money), then you will just be lying to them. Just remember, keep digging the hole and the walls will cave in one day!

On the lighter side, I am still trying to figure out how it is TWO girls. What is it, do you look and sing like Ricky Martin? John Holmes a first cousin? Is your username "Mysnoatb" cryptic for Snoop Dog?

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my first wingman sent me this, how true

" most of the girls down here, lie as a self defense mechanism and to not have to face the truth, thinking most men couldn't accept them knowing the whole truth. Simpler, they may just want men to think they are as perfect as they want to appear to them, trying to hide what they consider to be the ugly truth about themselves. And I may be reading more into it than is there, but I do believe they consider the basis of the lies to be justified."

Now there's a novel approach! The man is just brilliant! LOL I'd go with Pac on this one. The last thing you need is more complications in your life. Having to remember what you told one and not the other. Hoping you don't run into one when you are with the other. It just seems to me to be too much like work. They can either take it or they can't. If they can't... oh well. You've just solved part of the problem. If they can, can you say...... three way? LOL

KenLee

Thanks for all the thoughts... I'm guessing I'll just say that while I want to see them, I will be with friends also... so we'll plan a few definite times to go out but the other times will be for me to do as I please with my buddies.

As far as who these girls are (not names, but people...) they are part timers who love to go out and have fun. If you're a fun gringo who can do any of the following three items: Speak Spanish, Dance Salsa, show a girl a thing or two in the bedroom - you can always find a part timer to go have a "date" with. Does it cost me money? Yes - I mean, I pay for dinner or drinks or club cover charges, but when you find the right girls, they like to party, and if you treat them well, they'll treat you well.

Oh, and if you DO speak Spanish, you also have to know what to talk about - like Latin music, local sites, the more provincial items.

I agree wholeheartedly.

We always pay, one way or another. Right now, I feel like the little fish swimming around the gills of the larger fish. I believe they call it a symbiotic relationship. . I'd rather propose to the lady the differences and then we become indifferent to the differences and find out we are no different, at all! Sounds different, but, just two people swimming around in this ocean called life. Have fun, just be honorable. It is a quality not a characteristic.

Dean

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my first wingman sent me this, how true

" most of the girls down here, lie as a self defense mechanism and to not have to face the truth, thinking most men couldn't accept them knowing the whole truth. Simpler, they may just want men to think they are as perfect as they want to appear to them, trying to hide what they consider to be the ugly truth about themselves. And I may be reading more into it than is there, but I do believe they consider the basis of the lies to be justified."

I understand the situation but fail to see the problem.

You know the Spanish phrase, "quedar bien"? That's what you seem to be trying to do here -- avoiding a confrontation/scene while continuing to partake of the two ladies' "favors". Having your cake and eating it too... right?

Sooner or later this is going to blow up in your face in a way you won't like much. As others have pointed out, much better to control the situation and tell both ladies how it's going to go down.

If they don't like it... NEXT! If they accept it, you come out the winner.

GL

mh

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mh

Have you thought of getting them together? Maybe they would hit it off and you could reap the benefits.

...Or to take Brother Doggydog's thoughts one step further, they hit it off with each other, find out you are very secondary, leaving you free to find and plow new fields. No, forget what I just said--that was mean.

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"A man accustomed to hear only the echo of his own sentiments, soon bars all the common avenues of delight, and has no part in the general gratification of mankind"--Dr. Johnson
"Amen, brother"-ED

Absolutely the best possible advice here. Lying successfully is too much damn work and has far worse potential consequences than simply being honest.

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Pura Vulva! Wandering through the dark, I am El Ciego.

[quote="El Ciego"][quote="Pacifica55"]My advice is to be honest with them. Tell each that you are not exclusive and you will be seeing other people. They won't explode although they may make some interesting noises on their way to either accepting that fact gracefully or moving on. You win either way. [/quote] Absolutely the best possible advice here. Lying successfully is too much damn work and has far worse potential consequences than simply being honest. [/quote]

This was undoubtedly the best advice, thanks folks. However, after further conversations with them both, one is turning out to be a bit unstable. If I wanted that, I'd have a GF. SO... looks like its just the other one and I saved myself some drama without ever having to get into it with her.

Yee haw!