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PostPosted: Sat May 30, 2009 4:42 am 
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Hey Guys,

I have a gal that has been totally honestly with me for sure. She's about to marry another man and she made no bones about that. She's not a working girl and that's for sure. She's gonna marry a gringo and that's ok. I'm ok with that. She's total honest with me and maybe I'm just the last fling, I don't know.

However she wants me to contact her when I get back to CR. I am not willing to get in the middle of a relationship and I have already told her so. My issue is that this woman is a total lover. I mean she is a perfect lover for me. She for some reason fit's like a glove however I'm not willing to get into the middle of a relationship but she see's no problem with it.

Advice please...

Thanks in advance. (I know many of you said this might happen and I'm no sucker).

hehehe no Babi*s for me... :)

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PostPosted: Sat May 30, 2009 4:50 am 
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ignore this advice and you will most likely regret it. CR is a big pond, the chica smells


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PostPosted: Sat May 30, 2009 7:20 am 
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If she wants to have a fling with you behind her fiancés back then she isn’t a “totally honest person”, don’t do it. :shock:

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you don't want to get in the middle of it? :lol:
if thats true then your question is rhetorical.


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PostPosted: Sat May 30, 2009 11:37 am 
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HR_Juan wrote:
Hey Guys,

I have a gal that has been totally honestly with me for sure. She's about to marry another man and she made no bones about that. She's not a working girl and that's for sure. She's gonna marry a gringo and that's ok. I'm ok with that. She's total honest with me and maybe I'm just the last fling, I don't know.

However she wants me to contact her when I get back to CR. I am not willing to get in the middle of a relationship and I have already told her so. My issue is that this woman is a total lover. I mean she is a perfect lover for me. She for some reason fit's like a glove however I'm not willing to get into the middle of a relationship but she see's no problem with it.

Advice please...

Thanks in advance. (I know many of you said this might happen and I'm no sucker).

hehehe no Babi*s for me... :)


I just love it when guys talk about a chica being TOTALLY HONEST with them while he is writing about her lying or cheating on some one else :roll: :? :idea:

Sorry my friend but REREAD YOUR OWN POST AND THEN EXPLAIN HOW SHE IS A TOTALLY HONEST PERSON. Why would she be more honest with you than with the guy she is supposedly going to marry :?: :?: :idea: :idea: :roll: :? Bueno suerte :!:

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PostPosted: Sat May 30, 2009 12:08 pm 
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LaDiablo wrote:
you don't want to get in the middle of it? :lol:
if thats true then your question is rhetorical.


Totally hilarious reply!

Thanks...

Oh yes, I do realize that she's not been honest with him so why would she be with me. :evil:

Thanks for the advice and the smile. LOL...

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PostPosted: Sat May 30, 2009 5:33 pm 
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Yo Juan-

I certainly think you've answered your own question not to mention since you feel so highly of her it might be a good idea to stay away before you develop any sort of feelings for a married woman.

But if she wants to meet you at your hotel for free sex, then I couldn't fault you for that either 8)

Be careful amigo :wink:

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PostPosted: Sat May 30, 2009 5:34 pm 
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A possibility:

Guy asked girl to marry him. Not wishing to get married and not wishing to lose a source of income girl comes up with story about getting married to someone else. Tells guy he's so special she will continue to do him of course money is involved. Probability she's been married all along. Just one of my little theories.

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PostPosted: Sat May 30, 2009 10:32 pm 
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I hate to be cynical, but most likely, 90% of the girls you think are single here, aren't. So chances are, you've probably already been in between a relationship.

If it were me, I wouldn't know if she was telling the truth or not, so frankly I don't care...


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PostPosted: Sun May 31, 2009 12:12 am 
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you should find the poor fool and tell him! help out your fellows americans from being eatin by the black widows in CR. then you dont have to worry cuz she will be single again! :lol:

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PostPosted: Sun May 31, 2009 1:03 am 
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90% not single seems a bit high. I would guess single no, but attached.. yes. Regardless it's easy for me to look at someone else's situation and know the right course of action. But I could SO see myself doing the same thing. Sometimes you just get caught up, and I'm the type of guy who cares to know alot about a chica. Not sure why. :?

Anyways., I say walk away dude. Tell her you don't want to be another actor in her telenovela.

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PostPosted: Sun May 31, 2009 1:09 am 
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Cujo'S wrote:
since you feel so highly of her it might be a good idea to stay away before you develop any sort of feelings for a married woman.


Agreed!

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Anyways., I say walk away dude. Tell her you don't want to be another actor in her telenovela.


Agreed!

Thanks for the advice and criticism all. I do plan to just walk away from this f-ed situation.

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PostPosted: Sun May 31, 2009 7:40 am 
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HR_Juan wrote:

My issue is that this woman is a total lover. I mean she is a perfect lover for me. She for some reason fit's like a glove


This is going to be the problem. I would wish her the best and cease all contact. HR, a good lover can be a big problem for any guy. We can become very stupid. I would be the first to raise my hand that I have lost one of these battles as I am sure many others have. Be strong especially the time you see her again (even by accident, which possibly would not really be an accident).

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" most of the girls down here, lie as a self defense mechanism and to not have to face the truth, thinking most men couldn't accept them knowing the whole truth. Simpler, they may just want men to think they are as perfect as they want to appear to them, trying to hide what they consider to be the ugly truth about themselves. And I may be reading more into it than is there, but I do believe they consider the basis of the lies to be justified."


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PostPosted: Sat Jun 06, 2009 6:21 pm 
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Enzo5 wrote:
9Tell her you don't want to be another actor in her telenovela.

:lol: :lol: Good one, Enzo, can I use it ? :lol:

Hit once more as a goodbye phuck, enjoy, then "hit it and quit it." La mar es muy grande, mi amigo :!:


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