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I have to disagree with this part. I would say that there are at least as many clueless mongers as there are heartless providers. I believe one may cause the other but who knows which came first.
That is true IN GENERAL, however if you look at the context in which I was speaking you'll see I was really mainly referring to the posters IN THIS THREAD. If you look back, you'll see El C was responding to OldQDog and OldQDog was responding mostly to DexterRICH who indeed IS very mixed up in the head and may in fact be representative of a large number of those clueless mongers that you're speaking of, just NOT representative, IMHO, of the many sensible and respectful mongers who have contributed thus far to this thread.

One is far more likely to hear stories like the one above about a monger handing a chica some money expecting NOTHING in return...than one is to hear about a chica providing a monger with a genuine freebie... So who is really dehumanizing and using the other more here?

The factor you pretty obviously overlooked is that mongers are quick to post when they have done a good thing for a chica and never post when a chica does something good for them. I know of many instances of girls throwing in a true freebie or doing other things just because it was the right thing to do. Guys don't post about getting it for free because of the instant derision they can expect in large helpings from those many who can't believe that such a thing is possible. Why would a guy who is catching the occasional freebie post about it here? To do so, one must have a wide masochistic streak!
I'm not so sure at all that is true. Guys LOVE to boast about the freebies (or heavily discounted sessions) that they have gotten (or think they have gotten). and the fact that some guys may not believe them is not going to stop them from seeking the admiration or jealousy of those that do. Just look back a few posts in this thread to the story Dean posted about a chica who essentially gave him a freebie (for which he freely chose to give her $50) in gratitude for him giving her $20 NSA. I readily believe that story. Actually, that is an example of it going both ways.

The key difference is, if you scratch below the service it is truly rare for a chica to give a monger a genuine freebie in the manner you suggest. And that is perfectly understandable and to be expected since we generally have more to give.

For example, I seriously doubt that there are many if any chicas that would give a freebie to some monger she just met just because she was feeling a little sorry for him (the way Dean gave that $20 to the chica without expecting anything in return). Maybe she'd do a session for a little less but she wouldn't just give him a free BJ and walk away. She'd still be getting something out of it that she wouldn't have gotten otherwise.

And throwing in a free session to make up for a session that somehow got messed up may be the "right thing to do" but it is not really a "freebie" BECAUSE it was the right thing to do and she really owed it to that monger. That is just an example of a chica exercising good business sense. Maybe she hopes that by doing the fair thing, more business will come back to her. It is giving something away when there is really no call for it that makes it a genuine freebie.

Finally, you "M-men/Novios" who get "freebies" seem to forget all the money you spent leading up to those freebies, extra propinas, gifts, rent & grocery money, etc. If they perform some extra service for you without formally charging, is it really a "freebie" or is it really more like a "tenth sandwich for free" promotion that you get with some fast food lunch businesses? The typical newbie who comes down to CR irregularly or infrequently will rarely if ever get the sorts of freebies that regular visitors to CR sometimes get with their favoritas.

The "reasonableness" is determined by the customer. If she finds some nimrod who pays the asking price then it was "reasonable". Some are paying what they are asking or they would ask less. Simple really.
This is absolutely true. The question is how often and how less often. There will always be some nimrods. In the past, there have been LOTS of nimrods paying ridiculous amounts. I'm not so sure how many of the chicas, other than the most aggressive Colombianas were often getting those amounts. It has long been speculated that for most chicas holding out for cien usually meant forgoing SEVERAL opportunities to work for less and come and go from the bar SEVERAL times in the time they held out for that big score. Often times for many girls that meant going home at the end of the night without having acheived any sessions at all. And that may have been just fine. Maybe they valued their self-esteem enough that they were just not willing to settle for less even if it meant sometimes going home with an empty pocket. As long as they made the score a few times a month, they made enough to make it worthwhile. The question I am raising is whether those elephant kills are becoming a lot less easy particularly for some of these 2nd or 3rd tier girls who still incredibly enough seem to stick more steadfastly than ever to that cien price.


Ahhhh, true feelings revealed. Painting with the wide roller brush I see...
When I said "I doubt most of us would put up with their vacuous uneducated conversation and telenovela style emotional drama if we weren't getting a "slice of their pie", I was referring to some of the common downsides of most of these chicas for most of us. I guess for you and a few others that loca chica emotional roller coaster thing is a real positive (particularly judging from what I've heard about your esposa), however for most of us its a real negative. That doesn't mean I don't think chicas also have other more admirable qualities even beyond their sexual appeal. But lets be honest, if you weren't being sexually satisfied by your chica, you wouldn't be with her and if you put a lock on your wallet and stopped paying her rent and other expenses, she wouldn't be with you. Does anyone here have a chica that they hang out with regularly, that they're just friends with (no sexo)? And that doesn't count the novias of their mongering buddies who they may hang out with as part of a group.

Nothing is more flexible than a girl's asking price. I speak from a unique vantage point in that I am with the same girl everyday and all her friends are actively working. I get to hear the chica's side when they are deciding who to "try" with and what they will ask. One of the "regulars" tried for $200 with a guy the other day. She usually asks $80-$100 but this was a young guy in the medical field on a first trip. She thought the odds were good that he would pay more because he had the money, was young and inexperienced and was obviously in party mode. He was well briefed and cracked the code in no time, getting her for a "reasonable" amount.
Yes, chicas asking prices are usually very flexible. You gave an example of a chica NOT being able to acheive the ridiculous amount she was looking for, which actually supports my contention that chicas are less able to get those high amounts now. It is also an example of a chica asking an amount during a bad economic time that would have been virtually unheard of just a year ago when times were much better, which further supports the points I've been making. The question being raised in this thread, or at least by me, is not about the traditional flexibility of chica pricing but the COMPARATIVE STIFFNESS in that pricing relative to times past. As flexible as it once was, one would expect it to be EVEN MORE flexible today given the current market. INSTEAD, while still open to some discounting, with many (though certainly not all) chicas there seems to be greater resistance to going down in price, not less.

You are using the "large world" view. They are using the "small pecker" view. She isn't interested in the CR economy or the US economy, she is interested in how much money she can get out of the pocket right next to this small pecker and the world market or the price of rice in china really have nothing to do with it.
Again, absolutely correct. Thirdworld said basically the same thing. What we're doing here is having a discussion between intelligent well-educated gringos who DO understand these market forces. I thought it went without saying but perhaps I should make it more clear. These ideas are all common sense to most of us, but I understand that chicas don't think so clearly. Without casting any aspersions on their basic intelligence, they don't have the advantage of the schooling we've all had and her main concern is the price she'll have to pay for rice at the market tomorrow (ie very short-term thinking)

Again, and with all due respect, you aren't getting it. The "asking price" is just that. It is in her best interest to make as much money per service as possible. If she says $80 and we jump on it then she feels that she left money on the table that she can never recover. If she asks $200 and you end up settling for $100 then she made $20 she wouldn't have had if she started at $100 and worked down. Guys who walk on the asking price are just too soft for the job, in her opinion. They can't negocio so they run.
Again, and with all due respect, YOU aren't getting it. I'm not a moron or a newbie. Of course, I understand that the "asking price" is just that. Of course, I understand that they're there to make as much money per service as possible. And, of course, I don't just "walk on the asking price" UNLESS she insults me with some way over the top amount (like the $150 offer made to Vegas Bob).

We've all come to expect "Cien" and normally can bargain that down. However, when they start at WAY over that, as happens more often these days, I don't even want to bother, not because I'm "just too soft for the job" but because I'd rather not even waste my time when there are still so many OTHER chicas that will START at a more reasonable (though still too high) amount. Let her try that with the dumb high roller newbies with more money than sense and good luck to her with that, but when they blindly try to pull that stunt with guys like Bob and others, you have to wonder what is becoming of the place.

And that's the point. By all means, go ahead and make a high offer, particular if its a monger they have a special reason to think they may go for it, just don't make it so far out of reason that they insult our intelligence. Its exactly the flip-side of what would happen if we went up to some chica and offered her $10 or $20. She'd walk in a heartbeat, which is exactly why I'll usually make that exact counter offer to blow them off if they start at OVER cien. By shooting for the moon, they can drive away potential business and then not only will they leave that $20 on the table, but the other $80 as well. And I bet that happens far more often to the "Over Cien" girls than do they actually succeed with their elephant hunting.

Again, the point I've been trying to make is that the ASKING price has been creeping up in many cases from even the standard CIEN amount that has dominated for so long AND at a time when the economy is in decline, there is less gringo money out there and more chicas competing over it. PLUS, while the asking price can still certainly be bargained down, there is much more resistance to getting it down to a more semi-reasonable amount. And its not just me. I'm as skilled or unskilled as I ever was at bargaining down, or probably MORE skilled than I was by virtue of experience, and yet I find it is taking more work to get the HDR chicas down to the $60-80 range than it was just a year ago (and forget about the $40-60 deals that other, I suppose more skilled or smooth negotiators claim to be able to get). Usually, I can still do it (at least to $70-80 if not $60), but a little less frequently than before. I'm sure being local or a more regular visitor with regular chicas that I see would help but my point is, all other things being equal (namely myself with my given negotiating ability), price flexibility is NOT as great as it once was.

They aren't selling a volume commodity. They aren't interested in three lays for $150. They would rather do one for $100. Why? Because they are selling a piece of themselves in every deal and the less they take the less their self worth unless there is something else in it for them (like they like the guy and he doesn't make them feel like a piece of meat just like every other piece of meat).

Hope I have solved this riddle for you.

No riddle solved since that is all an old song and dance that we've all heard many times before. How is ANY of that argument MORE true now than it ever was? Selling oneself for money is a compromise of principle at any time, BUT in times of economic desperation, such as we're having now, one would expect chicas to put a somewhat lower price on their principles. Maybe that guy they like and maybe that other guy they also like but not quite as much should be able to negotiate a lower rate than they might have before because the chica has less business and is in even greater need to put meat on her table. This thread is about sticky or even rising prices DURING a time of an extraordinarily competitive market. The issue we're discussing is why is this MORE SO NOW than it was BEFORE when every single strand of GRINGO common sense would suggest there should be some WEAKENING of chica price resolve rather than the opposite which is what we've been witnessing.


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The del rey is capitalism at its best. an open market, no middlemen, fluid conditions with no quotas to buy or sale anything any party doesnt want . as a cutie who I have been low balling (but not balling) said "you can get a chica for $60 but if want a beautiful one its a hundred"
Spmeone was saying earlier that we were trying to convince chicas (the sellers) that what was in our interest was really also in theirs. This quote her sounds like a chica doing the reverse - trying to convince what we should think is in our best interest. And its great marketing. The only catch is it really true that the only way to get a beautiful chica is to pay $100? This chica would certainly want you to think so, but there are many guys on this board that have testified that it is still possible to get a VERY good session for less IF you know how to play your cards right by treating them right, etc.


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My two cents:

The reason many working girls raise their prices when things are slower is simple, and it has a sort of twisted logic to it.

They're getting less customers, so they try to get more money out of the customers they do manage to attract. And sometimes it actually works!

They complain business is slow because it takes them longer and more effort to make the same amount of money they used to make when things were better.

Economic theory means nothing to most of them, so don't expect them to act according to the tenets of supply and demand.
Twisted logic is right. Sometimes it does actually work, but I'm guessing more often it works against them. The tenets of supply and demand may mean nothing to most of them but that doesn't mean they still don't apply. As I stated earlier, I understand this is all so much poppycock to most chicas and I'm not saying I expect them to act rationally. This is just a discussion between educated guys who DO understand these principles, even if we have some minor disagreements about their applicability to all facets of the situation.

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,... I think you guys are leaving out a lot of intangibles which can vary from minute to minute as well ( do they enjoy your company, are you more or less attractive, what time is it, how close to the end of the month is it, how tired are they, are they in a good mood or bad mood, are they drinkers, how long have they been working, etc etc, ad nauseum) all of which can affect the negotiation at any given time.

I tend to think that it's more situational economics than it is really trying to understand the overall economic implications. Chicas make stupid on the spot pricing decisions which cost them business. Mongers make stupid on the spot purchasing decisions that cost them money. The degree of experience you have limits the degree of loss you have on either side, and within those confines the prices stay pretty stable and reasonable (reasonable being a relative term).
All those things you mentioned above can vary minute to minute or week to week, but have they changed overall from year to year. There is certainly some variability between what different mongers can get, what different chicas will do, and variations from moment to moment. What we're talking about here, however, are GENERAL TRENDS. OVERALL (it has been argued), asking prices have gone up significantly among some chicas and downward price flexibility has been stiffened by many others. This is not for all chicas or for all mongers but in GENERAL TERMS. At the same time this has occurred there have not been any other environmental factors that could account for that GENERAL TREND other than the change in the overall economy (both in CR and back in the US). Chicas may (and apparently do) react and figure it differently, but it would seem more logical to most gringo mongers that the worsening economies should lead to some relaxation of prices instead of the reverse that has seemed to have occurred.

I think your second statement raises sort of a good point. There has been a lot of commentary on the logic (or lack thereof) of chicas, but there are MANY gringos who act equally illogically. And its not because they don't have any understanding of economics or business but because any understanding they do have goes out the window when they start to think with their little head. In that sense and at those times, many gringos are probably MUCH more stupid than any chica. The possible catch is, no matter how stupid some gringos might be, they can't spend what they don't have (or can they? :roll:). Speaking again in GENERAL TERMS, there still may be the occasional gringo that will pay $200 no questions asked, but they must be at least a little fewer and farther between. And they may leave for home penniless a few days earlier. OVERALL, and ignoring the extreme individual exceptions, the total dollars being spent at the HDR has to have dropped at least a little in this economy. At the same time the money that is being spent is being divided among more competing chicas. Individually there are still big (and foolish) spenders thinking with their little head and having the money in their wallets to do something about it. And individually speaking there are probably still some chicas for whom this high asking price and stick to it strategy is paying off. But speaking globally (or "DelReylary"), I find it hard to believe its working that well for them on average.


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First, of all let me say that my comments are responses to what I read. They are more reflective of what I see as the thinking underlying what I am reading. I apologize if I appear to know anyone here, much less to judge their motives or who they are as people.

Second, even Mongeral said:
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I am a little sorry I started this thread which evolved into, with a few notable exceptions like Pacifica55’s posts, a lot of condemnation of the chicas and general characterization of them as lazy rip-off artists..


Third, it is about values. Theirs and ours. Some of us seem to be addicted to our way of life and do not seem to get why others in the world are not enamored by our way of doing business. For example,
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I think that we are forgetting the education level of most of the chicas. Unless they are watching cartoons or novelas, they do not have any macro economic awareness other than the rent is due. ….They do not grasp the concept of a business plan unless it is on their backs. Seeing this, I do not think the chicas will understand economic concepts unless the most basic one of lying on their backs. BTW, both chicas finished school, were previous business owners but unless is something that they fall into it, they will never understand the economic dynamics surrounding them.


Fourth, yes no one here invented capitalism. Capitalism has always sought leverage when economic desparity exists and power dynamics are unbalanced. It is a morale issue to me. And the reason our society is in this mess.

And finally,
It seems like there is a shift of quality to SL. Though I have been there, I do not know it well. The talent has always been sparse to me. Do you have to session there? Prices seem to be more negotiable for the same quality - or from what I am reading maybe even better than HDR?

Would someone school me on the SL please.

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Prolijo, I would argue against your "general terms" categorization. I don't really think it applies. For one, the situation in the DR isn't a general situation, but a very specific, targeted local economy of its own. I would even venture to say that the DR is separate in its mechanisms even from other local venues, and is an individual and specific entity apart from the rest of the CR venues.

Secondly, I think there's a fallacy in your application towards the monger. It is certainly true that there are less mongers going there, but the ones that are going are still going with money they expect to spend on chicas, and are prepared to pay the price for it. Instead of a general downturn you get a micro version of big business management in an economic cycle. A kind of Del Rey Darwinism. The popular chicas are still going to be able to command their regular prices. What will happen is that the weaker and less desirable chicas will fall by the wayside, because they won't be able to sustain their business. The ones at the bottom will have to cut prices to try to get by on volume, which feeds the cycle of unhappiness, etc. The most desirable ones will still be the primary targets of the guys who brought their cash and are prepared to spend it. So, instead of saying in general terms I would say that it hits a specific portion of the DR economy at the low end. The top end chicas will continue to ask for and get their top prices, but perhaps less often, as the bargain hunters turn away from the high priced ones to grab the cheaper chicas, assuming the price gap becomes substantial enough. it could create a two class system that promotes cheap at the expense of service, or having to pay a premium for the good experience with a high class chica, much like what happens in the north american sex trade.

of course, that's only if it continues for an extended period of time, which may or may not happen, depending on whose crystal ball you peer into.


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ALL of the chicas are quoting CIEN, even the hogs.

thanks to all the old guys who want to impress the chica with their money for artificially driving up the price.

what's worse is that if you negotiate down the chica her performance will most likely suck. So you can thank all the rich old dudes who throw money around like they are in vegas for keeping the prices nice and high.

MDE here I come! no more 'cien' for me.


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ALL of the chicas are quoting CIEN, even the hogs.

thanks to all the old guys who want to impress the chica with their money for artificially driving up the price.

what's worse is that if you negotiate down the chica her performance will most likely suck. So you can thank all the rich old dudes who throw money around like they are in vegas for keeping the prices nice and high.

MDE here I come! no more 'cien' for me.


Dude you are way out of line here. I have seen many more young newbies throwing $100 at the chicas than any old timer. Old timers know better. Young ones come down the elevator to get that last woody before their trip home and they are dishing out $300-$500 for a phucking hour. The have neither patience nor experience to deal with mongering. It takes time to get this to a science. You sir are just another idiot pointing fingers instead of finding a solution. In other words, Phuck off.

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From what I have read here, I believe there are 3 types of ladies at the DR.

1) the professional - typically knows the value of p**sy (PV) and will stick to her cien price. For her it is a business. Supply and demand does not apply. In her eyes, what she supplies is a rare commodity so economic theory is out the window. Also, there are some that are willing to pay so why not wait. When I was there in Apr, I came across one. We were talking over a drink and I ask about the price and services. She said 100 minimum, sometimes 200 :shock: , or 300 :shock: :shock: , depending on the guy. Now I am not ashamed to admit that I settled on 100 (this does not include the $50 bar bill). For me, she looked like Sophia Loren with big titties/nipples. She wasn't that great in the sack. But, I did get some value from the exchange. Sucker, stupid, idiot maybe. I will survive. I really don't look too deeply into P4P. I just P&P and move on.

2) the semi - has an understanding of her PV but is also not 100% committed to the profession. I believe a lot of the girls I met at SL fit into this category and some of the Dr girls. I don't believe these girls really envisioned this scenerio when they were young, but they accept it to make ends meet. I believe they are open to negotiation. Sometimes game works, talking spanish, whatever it is, enjoy the advantage but also respect the lady.

3) the non-pro - Usually end-of-the month bill payer, student or just the infrequent visitor needing some money. I think they do not negotiate well and do not really understand the PV. They do not want to be with you, they have no chioce at that moment. When I was there in Nov (1st trip), I was out drinking with a guy who didn't speak any spanish. This girl comes up, student, to talk (she even had her books) . Within the conversation, she told me she only wanted to get enough money to pay for tuition. I was 2 MP and 1 SL depleted so I was not capable of helping. The young guy with me was a nice guy (I had talked with him for a few days). I told her that he was good with $50 but I assured her that she was not dealing with a@@hole. The next day I saw him at late breakfast. She stayed for 4 hours (I was a bit jealous) but I asked him how it was. He said she was a non-pro but it was nice.

All in all, I believe it is a matter of chance. I am far from a CR expert, but I do not think much has changed. Also, some have mentioned that these girls do not at all understand economics. I agree to a point. If they were at all smart, they wouldn't have had the K*ds to begin with. But they do understand that their p**sy does have some value so they utilize it. We can not understand it and never will. That is why we are different.

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OldQDog,
First, let me take a stab at your last question first. Do you have to session at the SL? No more so than you have to session at the Hotel Del Rey with the chicas you pull out of the BM bar. All of the chicas who work at either bar are independent contractors and you can take them anywhere you like (as long as they're willing to go with you).

Prices seem to be more negotiable for the same quality to me too. Is quality maybe even better than the HDR? Perhaps, but I think the bigger difference is in the area of price negotiability. Maybe its because of the different types of mongers that stay at each place rather than any real difference in the chicas. The HDR has more newbies that don't know any better to pay the high amounts the chicas ask for there. The SL has more seasoned veterans who know score or newbies who have at least read up on the score. Because of that the chicas at the SL don't try to push the same prices those same chicas might try getting away with at the HDR. Anyway, thats my theory.

Is there a shift of quality over to the SL or is the talent "sparse"? I'm not sure what you consider sparse. Compared to the crowds of chicas one usually finds at primetime at the BM, the SL has always been relatively sparse, but IMHO sometimes the BM is just too much and its nice to go to a "sparser" environment. OTOH, it seems to me that the sheer volume (if not also quality) of the chicas that can be found at the SL has gone up every trip for me since it first opened. Now with the local economy being what it is and so many chicas crowding into the BM, it would seem only logical to expect that there would be even more spillover with chicas moving over to the SL to even out the level of competition.

Ultimately, I wouldn't limit myself to one or the other place if I were you. If the chicas aren't moving on price at the HDR, then head over to the SL to see if you have better luck there. If there aren't enough chicas or ones you like at the SL, then move back to the HDR. Between both of those places (and others), you're bound to find what you're looking for at one place or the other. Just keep in mind that the SL closes at midnight (and the KL doesn't really get going until 10).

4) If you think that rich 1st world capitalists are taking unfair advantage of the leverage resulting from "economic disparity" and "unbalanced power dynamics" and it is a moral issue for you, then you better take off all those clothes you're wearing that were made in China, Malaysia or Bengladesh and stop eating the food that was grown in Mexico. If you think that will do anything to redress those income inequalities other than to put Mexican farmers and Asian factory workers out of work, then you don't understand how the economic concept of comparative advantage raises the living standards for ALL sides. And if you don't believe all that and it still makes you feel so morally uncomfortable, then you really shouldn't be mongering in a 3rd world country like CR to begin with. Yes we didn't invent capitalism, but we didn't invent income inequality either. All we can do as individuals is pay others a "living wage" for whatever we buy from them. We more than do that with chicas even when we don't pay their $100/hr requests. The same can't be said for the clothes we wear, the food we eat, or the cheap manufactured goods we buy made from sweatshop labor. Where is the REAL moral issue?

3) I agree that it is about differing values, and many people don't have much tolerance or understanding for others with values different from their own. BTW, that works both ways too, us towards them and them towards us. That concept is what is known in sociology as ethnocentrism. Ironically, based on your choice of words, you don't seem to be so enamored with our way of doing business either. The point is NOT about who is right and who is wrong or which way is better than the other. We just see some things differently and lets leave it at that. I will say that JOsie's repeated use of the phrase "on their backs" seems to reflect a disparaging attitudes towards chicas.

OTOH, I also understand where a lot of that attitude comes from. These chicas CLEARLY don't have the advantage of education that most of us take for granted. Not ever having exercised their minds academically or intellectually to the degree that many of us have, their basic capacity to grasp some of these advanced concepts seems very limited. If you don't believe that, just try explaining some things to them some time. A lot of these P4P chicas DO seem to have a fascination for cartoons and/or telenovelas and, call me sociologically judgmental, but that does not reflect to me a particularly intellectually and emotionally mature personality.

Lastly, perhaps gringos are overly industrious or work too hard, but compared to our standards of effort a lot of ticos, and particularly P4P chicas, DO seem to be pretty damn lazy. Even regular ticos seem pretty "lazy" by gringo standards. Chicas make a lot more than those regular ticos and do it by sitting around most of the time (having guys buy them drinks) holding out for the big score. If they were to get $100/hr they could make as much in 5 hours of real labor as regular ticos make in over 200. And even that is not good enough for them. Rather than lower their price when the market gets tight, or god forbid going out and looking for a regular job like other ticos, they send out RFM's in the middle of the month asking for handouts from gringos they are hoping will be soft and gullible. I think that would qualify as "lazy" by any sociological standard.

2) Mongeral said that because like you and Pac55, he seems to have a soft spot for these ticas. Reading back on his initial post about receiving 4 seperate RFM's from 4 different chicas in the space of 10 days and how one girl even said that "about noon, there must have been around 200 chicas and not a single hombre with money at the Del Rey bar.", I have to agree with others that these chicas were playing on his soft side rather than doing what it would take (coming off of cien) to earn the money for themselves. Things are bad down there but 200 chicas in the HDR at noon and not ONE single hombre with money? And 4 chicas suddenly coming up at the same time with the "Business is bad and I need money for rent" RFM even though it was in the middle of the month. We all know these gals share strategies and when it comes to RFM's they send requests to multiple gringos. Meanwhile guys are reporting that instead of lowering the rates they charge and maybe having to turn a few extra tricks to earn the money they need, the chicas are sticking harder and faster to the Cien amount EVEN many of the 5-6 rated chicas. Why should we sacrifice the dough we've worked hard for (and in many cases have less of to spare than we did a year ago) to chicas who aren't willing to make any sacrifices themselves. Is it so surprising that those 4 chicas chose an overly sympathetic softy like Mongeral to make their requests to. Is it so surprising that so many other mongers would consider the actions taken by those chicas and others to reflect laziness and a willingness to con us out of our money (or at least play on our sympathies rather than really trying to do anything about it themselves)?

1) I apologize to you, I didn't really review the whole thread going back over 13 pages and 2 months when I said most of the responders were respectful. A bunch of them, besides just DexterRICH, were a bit over the top (though none quite so badly as him). OTOH, as I explained above, I can understand where a lot of them are coming from in their flabbergasted reactions to whining chicas complaining about hard times while refusing to make the adjustments to their business model that would seem so obvious to all of us. I understand their frustration even though I might have toned down some of the comments some of them made. That said, having spoken with many CRTers about chicas over time, I still feel that most guys have proper compassion and affection for the chicas. That doesn't mean that we have to respect every little thing about them. And it doesn't mean we extend towards them our unlimited trust.


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JOsie,
He may have been out of line in blaming price inflation on experienced old farts as opposed to young newbies, but he is right about his initial comment that ALL the chicas are quoting (and sticking stubbornly to) CIEN, even the HOGS. And he is also right that if you do manage to negotiate them down, as often as not their attitude suffers because in their minds they're not being paid enough for the session. And that is EXACTLY what is driving guys like him and so many others to other places like Medellin. These girls may not realize it, but if they keep it up they may wind up killing the golden goose.

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Prolijo, I would argue against your "general terms" categorization. I don't really think it applies. For one, the situation in the DR isn't a general situation, but a very specific, targeted local economy of its own. I would even venture to say that the DR is separate in its mechanisms even from other local venues, and is an individual and specific entity apart from the rest of the CR venues.

Secondly, I think there's a fallacy in your application towards the monger. It is certainly true that there are less mongers going there, but the ones that are going are still going with money they expect to spend on chicas, and are prepared to pay the price for it. Instead of a general downturn you get a micro version of big business management in an economic cycle. A kind of Del Rey Darwinism. The popular chicas are still going to be able to command their regular prices. What will happen is that the weaker and less desirable chicas will fall by the wayside, because they won't be able to sustain their business. The ones at the bottom will have to cut prices to try to get by on volume, which feeds the cycle of unhappiness, etc. The most desirable ones will still be the primary targets of the guys who brought their cash and are prepared to spend it. So, instead of saying in general terms I would say that it hits a specific portion of the DR economy at the low end. The top end chicas will continue to ask for and get their top prices, but perhaps less often, as the bargain hunters turn away from the high priced ones to grab the cheaper chicas, assuming the price gap becomes substantial enough. it could create a two class system that promotes cheap at the expense of service, or having to pay a premium for the good experience with a high class chica, much like what happens in the north american sex trade.

of course, that's only if it continues for an extended period of time, which may or may not happen, depending on whose crystal ball you peer into.
Shadowman,
First, forget the other local venues, which do indeed follow different (and actually more normal) pricing behavior. What we've been talking about here already basically IS the Del Rey, where Cien (or higher) is king (or queen). So when I said in general terms, I was already speaking about general terms for the Del Rey.

Secondly, I'm glad you agree fewer mongers are going to the Del Rey. I agree that those who are going are still going with money they expect to spend on chicas and are prepared to pay the price for it even if that price has not come down. Where I disagree is that because money back home is tighter, they don't come down as often, stay as long or session as much. Instead of quickly grabbing a chica for a few hours and then returning to the bar to grab another one or two, they're nursing their drinks longer and shopping around harder. Just as one indicator, the activity at the check-in stand near the elevator on the BM side is waayy down. Maybe the popular chicas will be able to command their regular prices, although I suspect even their volume must be done even if the prices they're able to get have not. But, if you read back in my post you will see that I already allowed that the old pricing model still might be working for SOME. That is exactly why I spoke in GENERAL TERMS. These weaker and less desirable chicas (which is most of them) AREN'T falling by the wayside. They're not even lowering their prices. Instead they are sticking harder to their cien asking price too, while the popular chicas you were talking about are raising their asking prices ABOVE cien. So GENERALLY SPEAKING, they're ALL asking more than the market suggests they should be.

Lastly, I dispute your 2 tier pricing model. First, because there never was or ever will be such a clear distinction between chicas but more of a spread of chicas at various price points ranging from cheap to expensive and everything in between. Secondly, chicas don't stick to one price. They charge whatever they can get (or think they can get) or at times are willing to go for. Sometimes a particular chica will charge cien or more when she can get it and sometimes she'll charge half that much or less if it is with a regular or a guy she really likes. And sometimes even what most of us would consider an ugly chica gets lucky. Thirdly, even if each chica stuck to one particular price, I don't buy the idea that price always correlates with session quality. Some of my best sessions were also the cheapest and not just because they were cheap but because the chica really got into it and the chemistry was there. In contrast, some of us often get sessions like Dean had with that really hot looking $100 Sofia Loren who was only lackluster in the sack. What you might get if anything is a two-tier pricing structure based solely on looks, in which case I'll stick to the cheaper more moderately attractive chicas rather than the expensive super hotties (the piglets can still fend for themselves).


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Prolijo, you missed an important point in my post, which was to suggest that such things as two tier pricing and such would happen over time, provided such an environment lasted. It has nothing to do with today's situation, where I would agree that not much would have changed at moment. i was discussing a possible eventuality.

Secondly, as I indicated, I was talking about the Del Rey as a specific venue, exclusive of other venues. I had already "forgotten" the other venues, as you were mentioning should be done.

third, I do agree that mongers would be sessioning less often. In fact, I mentioned in my previous post that even the good girls would be sessioning less, but this has little to do with pricing, since we mentioned that the high end girls are not about volume. So, perhaps the good ones all go once or twice, but the lower end ones are left out in the cold as the good ones go. The drop in volume at the check in would seem to confirm this, since it's only logical to assume that the hot ones would go before the lesser ones, especially if the price differential isn't yet that great.

fourth, yes, the chicas aren't fixed on a price, but they do have ranges that they are willing to work within. The hotter ones will have a hiogher range than the uglier ones, but there could very well be an overlap in the middle depending on whether the girl is working the high/low, lucky, unlucky range. The exact price they might charge at any given time (given the situation) isn't really a relevant measure. The discrepancies in the ranges that they are willing to work within is the relevant gauge.

Lastly, I agree that the price doesn't always equate to the experience. I would even champion this point. What I did say, once again, was that over a long enough time, given the right conditions, that the aforementioned two tier system would create an environment whereby the preponderance of providers might very well fall into one category or another. Again, those conditions do not currently exist, and might never. That is purely speculative on my part.


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The fact that this thread continues on with intelligent debate only emphasizes the fact the sex is not that intelligent. It is quite simple. Unfortunately, they have what what we want. But, they have a certain understanding of their market value and some of us do and do not. As long as the market remains open, I will be happy. :D It will be up to me as an individual and in this specific case, consumer, to decide what is right or wrong for me. I would never look at nor judge any guy differently whether he paid $60 or $100 at the DR ($60 bravo, $100 welcome to the club, was she hot for you). But, I still have an unanswered question. Has it really changed over the years? Even at other venues? I am not talking specifically about the dollar amount.

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A 14-page disquisiton on the price of pu*sy in a popular 3rd World country. Somebody's missing a bet if this doesn't appear slightly re-written as a case study at HBS or a Master's Thesis at Wharton. No joke. I mean, all the research and anecdotal material is right here. A little on-the-ground gathering of statistical samples, and there you go.

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You're right brother Jazz. they could call it The Economics of pu*sy at the Hotel Del Rey. I'm just waiting for Greengo to weight in on this topic.


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