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BB57 and wad of cash oximoron
The point is the less you make it about the cash the better things can be
And then you get more bang for the buck and save a few bucks as well.
Even when I do the point and screw I always try and charm them for extras

CLN20, I devoted an entire paragraph to guys who think like you do. Maybe you missed it:


You are correct, you must have been crazy.

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CLN20, maybe you should know the man before you make your assumptions. I have met him and see his interactions with the chicas. I agree with Pac.

I wondered what BB57's secret was, that ol' one eyed coot has more novias than that romeo Jadculo.
CLN20 no offense but your post comes across as totally clueless in this situation. BB57 has tons of amigas all over town and he lives in a fixed income and has no "wads of cash" to throw around so that's not it at all. Why can't you "It's ALL about the money" guys ever admit that just maybe other factors can come into play between men and working ladies beyond the cash for sex transaction?

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You guys are right, I dont know him, from everything I've heard BB is a stand up guy. But this isnt about him specifically, its about the reason he's getting laid. Ultimately, it does come down to money.

I dont doubt that BB, or any other guy who lives in CR, has a ton of novias or chicas he sees on a regular basis. I firmly believe that attitude, kindness, etc, will definitely get you treated better and as your reputation improves, you might even get a freebie here and there.

My contention is that if we take all of BB's novias, and he tells them straight up that he is not paying them anymore, or offering any sort of financial incentive, I dont think he's gonna be getting laid that much anymore. BB, or any guy on this forum, is not just gonna walk into an MP and get it for free. Thats what I'm saying.

I think sometimes its lost on this forum that these are working girls. Can you honestly say that a smoking hot 18 yr latina, working in CR, is gonna go with any 50 year old gringo, knowing that there is absolutely nothing in it for her? No money, no rent, no whatever. Hell no. If you guys think otherwise you're dreaming. I'll be down again in April, if any one of you guys can pull that off in the DR and SL with a girl you havent met before, I'll buy all your drinks for the weekend.

Sign me up for the challenge ... I'm drinking Patron these days

CLN20 - If you are a guy who truly believes that the money is all that matters and that the same girl will give the same performance regardless of who is between her legs based on the fact that he paid her price then, please, don't read my posts. I write about ways that average guys can improve their experiences. If you think that your experiences cannot be improved, you paid the price and got your piece. Please, don't waste your time on my crap.

Here is another quote from my earlier post:

My post was directed at mongers who pay for sex. That does not change the fact that these girls are phucking somebody for free. That means that there is something that differentiates between those who get it for free and those who pay top price. Not exactly rocket science.

I am not advocating that guys come to Costa Rica and try to do the girls for free. I am saying that there is a great middle-ground between paying top price because she really does not want to go with you and paying bottom price for more time and better service because she likes to spend time with you. Why is that concept so hard to understand???

It just screams something to me when a guy has to stand up and holler, "it's all about the money". What it says to me is that the individual sees no possibility of anyone going with him for any reason other than the money. That would be really sad if it were true. Fortunately, there is no reason that we cannot dramatically improve the quality of our experiences just by emulating BangBang's positive attitude and warm character.

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Maybe we should read CLN20s posts again.He agrees with you gamers on many things.He just does not think that a 20 something chica goes to the SL/DR etc to seek out companionship with a 30-70+ male when no compensation is involved.We go vacation/live in CR and hang out in p4p venues(SL/DR) and say its not about the money for these girls. Thats funny-real funny.

I think you guys agree more than you know. Maybe.... I see both sides.... Guys wouldn't be bedding any of these young hotties without the money... That is reality.. There may be the odd exception, but I would say that is the rule. On the other hand, other factors can greatly enhance the experience, get better service, longer time, some break in price, etc. Being a pleasant person goes a long way with any service worker... When I was a bartender, I totally preferred the nice regulars who left 15% tips to the loud assholes who tipped bigger.... And always gave a better pour to nice people.

Thank you! Someone who understands.

Pac, read my posts again. I said from the start that attitude and your reputation 100% can enhance your experience. All I'm saying is no girl is venturing in the DR on a Saturday night and saying "Ok, tonights the night, I'm gonna find me a 50 year old guy, rock his world, and go home to the K*ds". That's just not happening.

I know deep down, myself included, we all want to think that these girls want to be with us, and if they were in our hometown, and not in CR, they'd go with us for free. Even I know thats not the case. These girls expect compensation in some way.

If that wasnt the case, this forum wouldnt exist, and there wouldnt be countless threads on how to save money, who does the best GFE, etc.

So, ultimately, it still is about the almighty dollar. As much as we'd like to convince ourselves it isnt, it is and will stay that way. Remember we are talking about 'working' girls.

I don't know where the "they wouldn't do it but for the money" even comes from. It is a given. I have always said that. Why restate the obvious? It's like talking about gas mileage and someone constantly breaking in to say "but you still have to put gas in the car". No shit.



Exactly. And that compensation is going to be, in part, money. They can also be compensated with a good time, some ego strokes, no drama, a good dinner, a nice place to hang, respect and acceptance.

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I agree, Pac...of course it's about the money, but it's comparable to our jobs. If we're treated well in our jobs, we're happier & do better. Why would it be different for chicas?

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Regarding everyone's favorite topic "When Paying For Sex, Is It Really ALL About the Money?", I'd like to posit a scenario...

Let's say it's a typical night in the Del Rey, and Hooker A has a choice of going with Monger A or Monger B. Monger A is a longtime repeat customer with whom Hooker A enjoys a good rapport. He generally pays her anywhere from $60-$80 per session, depending on how long she hangs around. Monger B is a Del Rey newbie who doesn't seem objectionable in any specific way, and has agreed to pay Hooker A $200 for a standard session with no specific performance deliverables (i.e., BBBJ, kissing, DATY, etc.).

Now, some may say it also depends on how badly Hooker A needs the money at that time. Personally, I would maintain that whatever Hooker A's present financial condition, 99% of the time she would choose Monger B and take the $200 session.

So in that sense, 99% of the time, it really is all about the money.

Anyone who's been around for very long I think would agree with me that the above scenario is not in any way far-fetched or even uncommon. Moreover, in the event Monger B was only paying $100 rather than $200, I would maintain that Hooker A's tendency to take that deal would over the nicer guaranteed - but less lucrative - experience, would only decrease slightly.

Any arguments to the contrary?

GR Said:

If that were the scenario, you may be right, GR. But that is not how the scenario plays out. She doesn't get two at a time with varying payment plans, she gets one, maybe. The either/or choice is not an option.

As I have also mentioned many times, the best deals with the most popular girls (the ones GR must be referring to) are had on the slow nights. Don't sqander your ego trying to get a "10" to give you a good deal on a Saturday night. Meet and compliment her Saturday and let her know you will still be around when the weekend high-rollers are gone.

Again, it is very rarely a competition between mongers for her time. It is what you offer against nothing or the hope of something in the future.

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I NEED THE MONEY!" - John Lee Hooker

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