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Pro - Your hypothesis assumes that the girl's goal is to make as much money as possible. An incorrect assumption, in my opinion. Often, they want to make as much as they can while working as little as possible. They only need one girl in their group to score and they can all sit around BSing with a nose full of marching powder.

Why should she do three guys at $60 when she only needs $100 to get everybody happy for the night? Just stick with $100 and one of the girls will get a bite eventually. Then it is upstairs-downstairs as quick as a bunny and off to the nose candy man! Everybody gets happy and they are all broke until tomorrow night, rinse, repeat.

This is not the scenario they start out chasing. Instead, it is the reality that they end up living. Many of the horror stories we hear of mechanical performance, rushed service, demands for propinas, theft, etc., are the direct result of the white demon, in my opinion based on more than a little experience with these girls.

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Pro - Your hypothesis assumes that the girl's goal is to make as much money as possible. An incorrect assumption, in my opinion. Often, they want to make as much as they can while working as little as possible. They only need one girl in their group to score and they can all sit around BSing with a nose full of marching powder.

Why should she do three guys at $60 when she only needs $100 to get everybody happy for the night? Just stick with $100 and one of the girls will get a bite eventually. Then it is upstairs-downstairs as quick as a bunny and off to the nose candy man! Everybody gets happy and they are all broke until tomorrow night, rinse, repeat.

This is not the scenario they start out chasing. Instead, it is the reality that they end up living. Many of the horror stories we hear of mechanical performance, rushed service, demands for propinas, theft, etc., are the direct result of the white demon, in my opinion based on more than a little experience with these girls.


Very good points. If the CR chicas have similar proclivities and problems as strippers in the U.S. then you are probably correct for a large portion of the CR working chicas. I can't say because I've only been to CR a handful of times.

However I've read a lot of the other threads on how much money the chicas make either in the MPs or as Indys in the DR/KL/SL etc plus RFMs along with the actual costs of living for them and for their extended families. I never could figure out how the pretty and obviously busy chicas could spend all of this money and always be broke.

Your explanation is likely true in many (not all) cases and is very sad because once the chicas are finished with the business, their lives are going to be in worse shape than before they started. And ironically the more money they can burn thru while working (from RFMs, etc) the worse shape they'll likely be in at the end. This should be a cautionary note to those who want to send money...

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Bilko,
I didn't mean to suggest that you were trying to prove a new economic theory. What you were doing was providing a really good layman's explanation about a concept that you were able to understand intuitively. My point was that a) I don't think the specific relationship between price and quantity in the HDR/BM marketplace is as inelastic as you think it is and b) these chicas probably don't even think as intellectually as you or I do on the subject and their pricing decisions are not based on some carefully thought out understanding of economics.

As for your new numbers, I see the same problem as before. Of course they add up in your theoretical example, but would they fall out that way in practice? You keep presenting this as choice for them of either 1 for $100 vs 3 for $40 or now 2 for $100 vs 3 for $70. Naturally, they're not going to want to do all that extra work for so little extra money. However, what makes you think in your 1st example that they have to lower their rates to $40 to be able to get 3 customers. My assumption was they could either get 1 for $100 vs 3 for $70. With that choice, which I believe is more likely, they have to work a little harder but they're looking at making $110 more instead of just $20, which should be enough to overcome a lot of laziness (or disgust). Similarly, I find your second example equally problematic. In a tighter market not only is it much less likely that they'll find 2 customers who will pay $100, they may not even be able to find 1. Maybe they wouldn't be able to find 3 for $70 either. Maybe they'd only be able to find 2 or maybe they'd have to go down to $60 to get 3. However $180 is more than $100 and $140 is more than possibly nothing. We could play around all day with theoretical numbers, but if truth be told none of us really knows how these numbers really play out, least of all the chicas who refuse to lower their rates to find out.

Your last point about how price wars cause all suppliers to lose is an interesting one, as is your strike analogy. Using your own analogy, just look at the airlines industry. Like BM chicas, pilots are highly compensated workers. They can try and hold together to keep their wages high but they also need to recognize the market in which they operate. In the case of pilots, the companies they are working for are losing tons of money. Many have already gone completely out of business putting all those pilots out of work. Some have taken early retirement or changed careers and some have found work on one of the remaining airlines. But those remaining airlines continue to lose a ton of money and have wound up getting wage concessions from all the pilots anyway. Chicas can band together for top dollar all they want but eventually they'll be forced to recognize the reality of the current market anyway. There is only so much money to go around. The big difference between the pilots' situation and the chicas' is that there are natural barriers to entry in the airline field but any chica who wants to can continue to try to market herself at the BM. In fact, as the overall CR economy worsens there are more and more chicas entering the market than before. In the face of a horrendous economy and a complete lack of any organized union, what makes you think the chicas can hold the line on declining wages any more than the pilots unions have? But the airline analogy can be carried even further. Look at the airlines themselves. They probably understand better than ANYBODY the effects of price wars (and the "kinked demand curve") and yet they can not keep from trying to undercut each other. If they can't do that with their published fares, what makes you think the chicas, who set their rates privately with each client, will do any better?

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Pro - Your hypothesis assumes that the girl's goal is to make as much money as possible. An incorrect assumption, in my opinion.
Not at all. We were discussing 3 not mutually exclusive explanations for why chicas don't lower their prices. That part of the discussion only covered the very last explanation. You failed to note that I actually agreed with Bilko 100% on his first 2 pyscho-social explanations which do not at all assume revenue-maximization as the chica's goal (particularly #2). As for the 3rd economic part of Bilko's thesis, well you'll need to talk to him since he was the one who originally put it forward. My discussion of it was NOT about whether chica's act rationally or have perfect knowledge and understanding or have revenue-maximization as their primary goal. My discussion of it was, to the extent they are trying to make as much as they can, whether lowering prices would increase total revenue or not. Whether the demand curve is really inelastic as Bilko claimed or elastic as I believe it is.

The problem with looking at these explanations individually is that individually they oversimplify the situation. If truth be told I think there are a variety of motivations going on here and sometimes they ARE mutually exclusive. One of those motivations IS revenue maximization. Maybe the chicas have a $100 target each night, but I don't believe if some guy offered them $120 for an hour instead of $100 that they'd turn it down. Another motivation they have is to work as little as possible and that is where a conflict the profit motivation comes in. In their view, it may not be worth the extra $20 if they have to work 2 hours to make it rather than just 1. The problem is that the real choice may be standing around for 6-8 hours holding out for the $100 that never comes rather than accepting $60-70 a couple of times over those 6-8 hours. Even if they only get 1 gringo to go with them for $70 and they don't make their $100 mark for the night, one would think that would still be better than going home emptyhanded. But that is where yet another motivation comes in, the one that Bilko listed first, PRIDE (as in "pride goest before the fall")

Finally, there are other important assumptions in these economic theories besides revenue-maximization. For example, economic theories assume that all participants behave rationally and that they have perfect knowledge.

The rationality assumption is that an individual has the cognitive ability and time to weigh every choice against every other choice. Its not hard for anyone to see how RAISING prices can lead to increased revenue. It is less intuitively obvious how lowering prices can also sometimes lead to increased total revenue. Without getting into whether that latter situation applies in this case of the BM marketplace, any educated gringo at least knows that it sometimes holds true in other situations. It is less clear whether most chicas with very limited education fully grasp this concept.

Perfect information is a term used in game theory. A game is said to have perfect information if all players know all moves that have taken place. Tic tac toe is an example of a simple game with perfect information where both players can see all the possible moves of the other player and predict the outcome. However, what we do at the BM is more like a game of poker where players have imperfect information and don't know the cards the other player is holding. In terms of economics, perfect information would practically mean that all consumers (or suppliers) know all things, about all products, at all times, and therefore always make the best decision regarding purchase (or sale). In terms of the BM, the chicas don't know ahead of time that by holding out for $100 the probability that they'll wind up making nothing. If they did they probably would lower their prices (or find a different way to spend their evenings). Or maybe they'd lower their price most of the time but occasionally still swing for the bleachers or try drawing for that inside straight.

Again these last 2 concepts apply only to the economic part of our argument and the other purely non-economic factors of laziness, pride, self-worth, etc. also factor into their decision in a complex way that I don't think any of us can fully understand and which varies from chica to chica.


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After reading thru all these technical answers about why a girl would or wouldnt take less than $100, I've come to the conclusion that you guys have way too much time on your hands.


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It also many times boils down to the simplest of thoughts which is that to the chicas any north american middle aged man must be rich enough to pay cien if he can afford to pay airfare from the USA or Canada, pay for a hotel, meas, drinks, etc. They are smart enough to know that those on vacation pay almost cien just for their hotel and thirty dollars or more for meals per day. So obviously those who think they are good looking want at least as much as we pay for a hotel room. i really believe that it is that simple


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It also many times boils down to the simplest of thoughts which is that to the chicas any north american middle aged man must be rich enough to pay cien if he can afford to pay airfare from the USA or Canada, pay for a hotel, meas, drinks, etc. They are smart enough to know that those on vacation pay almost cien just for their hotel and thirty dollars or more for meals per day. So obviously those who think they are good looking want at least as much as we pay for a hotel room. i really believe that it is that simple
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I agree. When I was there earlier this month, two different chicas asked me for money AFTER I had told them I wasn't interested in company. The amounts weren't large, but when I told them I wasn't prepared to do that, one of them said "Why? [that amount] is nothing to you."

I don't give money to beggars in the streets, I'm not going to give money to beggars in the DR.

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Pro,

I think next time you're in town we can talk this over, as it seems to interest us both.

One thing, though. My original topic and post was addressing the perception on the part of the clients that the girls are not lowering their prices though they complain that clients are few. I wasn't advocating what I thought they should do, just trying to give possible reasons why they MIGHT not lower prices when customers are scarce. Perhaps my whole premise is wrong, perhaps girls ARE lowering their prices. Perhaps there ARE NOT fewer customers. I am pretty sure there are fewer customers. I am less sure that prices are 'sticky' but I AM sure I hear guys complaining that they are. So there you go.

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I think next time you're in town we can talk this over, as it seems to interest us both.

One thing, though. My original topic and post was addressing the perception on the part of the clients that the girls are not lowering their prices though they complain that clients are few. I wasn't advocating what I thought they should do, just trying to give possible reasons why they MIGHT not lower prices when customers are scarce. Perhaps my whole premise is wrong, perhaps girls ARE lowering their prices. Perhaps there ARE NOT fewer customers. I am pretty sure there are fewer customers. I am less sure that prices are 'sticky' but I AM sure I hear guys complaining that they are. So there you go.


Bilko, I still take the position that each chica will charge each guy what she feels she could get. All this talk about the economy, what they should or shouldn't know, is irrelevant I think.
When the dust settles a chica knows what you're willing to pay for her.

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I say that we put together a panel of 3 randomly selected chicas and explain to them the various points of view on this topic and see what their responses are.

My guess is as follows:

Chica 1 (SL): "¿Como?"

Chica 2 (HLH): "Tengo hambre."

Chica 3 (DR): "If you want to know about sticky demand, it's going to cost you cien."

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And of course there's the few chicas/strippers -- at least here in Miami -- who do realize chica/stripper supply is a commodity and its demand is elastic.

Hence they decide to charge less than the others, resulting in 5-10 champagne room sessions a day while the other chicas give her dirty looks and call her names.

Go figure.


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Bilko, I still take the position that each chica will charge each guy what she feels she could get. All this talk about the economy, what they should or shouldn't know, is irrelevant I think.
When the dust settles a chica knows what you're willing to pay for her.

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Respectfully, Jadcujo, I disagree. I agree that chicas want to get as much as they think they can get. However, I am not convinced they know what a potential customer is willing to pay. They misjudge all the time. They also know when competition is fierce and they know that their only hope may be a cheap SOB like me. Once they have a fish on the line, they will try to get as much as they think they can, but what they think they can get is likely to fall when there is a lot of competition. Bad economy = fewer tourist dollars = higher chica to monger ratio = more competition.

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Bilko wrote:
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Bilko, I still take the position that each chica will charge each guy what she feels she could get. All this talk about the economy, what they should or shouldn't know, is irrelevant I think.
When the dust settles a chica knows what you're willing to pay for her.

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Respectfully, Jadcujo, I disagree. I agree that chicas want to get as much as they think they can get. However, I am not convinced they know what a potential customer is willing to pay. They misjudge all the time. They also know when competition is fierce and they know that their only hope may be a cheap SOB like me. Once they have a fish on the line, they will try to get as much as they think they can, but what they think they can get is likely to fall when there is a lot of competition. Bad economy = fewer tourist dollars = higher chica to monger ratio = more competition.


I believe that this whole pricing is as varied as the number of chicas in the game at that time.

First..they know almost immediately if your a tourist, frequent visitor or resident. ( HOW? they ask some of the previously mentioned questions) and treat each differently and without much consistency.

Right away they know the visitor or tourist will in most cases be a better mark and work their magic on him to get what the need at that particular time.

no matter what magic they try... they most often will start with the almighty 100 and who knows ...what goes from there.

one moment they could drop to 40 ...depends on a million things (TO MANY TO LIST) when and how


Of course, there is one type of working girl that is exempt almost all the time from this discussion and those are the hard working professional gals that just know who they are and know what they want and are willing to drive themselves to their home with or with a payday and start over the next day


I do know one thing and I believe Bilko will agree, we have had plenty of 100 gals over the years for 30 or 40 dollars and it's not because of our dashing good looks or engaging personalities

trying to noodle out how people think for what they get will forever be a mystery ...once you eliminate stupidity and greed

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I do know one thing and I believe Bilko will agree, we have had plenty of 100 gals over the years for 30 or 40 dollars and it's not because of our dashing good looks or engaging personalities



I am sorry, I can not agree. It is EXACTLY our dashing good looks AND engaging personalities. You even more than moi.

All seriousness aside, I realize that each transaction/negotiation depends on a ton of things, many of which will never be quantified or even identified. I was just trying to identify a few of the possible motives in the situation where there are fewer customers (and/or more working girls) than usual.

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I think you did a great job, Bilko. It is just that there are as many correctly assumed motivations for pricing as there are chicas. We just need to sort them in order to find those that work to our benefit.

We know that the majority that do this work don't like many aspects of it: They are trading their right to chose sex partners for money. It seems logical to me that the closer we are to someone she might chose to have sex with voluntarily the less we will pay to buy her freedom of choice.

While this seems elementary to me, the notion gets a lot of push-back from some mongers. They say that attempting to actually be attractive to these women is pointless: "All they are interested in is the money and how quickly they can get it."

I may be wrong, but it seems to me that the amount of resistance to the notion that attraction can be key is directly proportional to that monger's "attraction factor". In other words, if a monger thinks that all he really has going for him is the money, the more likely he is to insist that money is the only factor.

While I will admit that virtually anyone with money can get laid in Costa Rica, it is the quality of the experience as well as the cost that is effected when the chica sees her monger as attractive.

So I guess that separates mongers into categories: Those who girls find attractive and all the rest of us. Fortunately, that is not the case. For some reason, God made women different than men. Men are very visual creatures who make up their minds for breeding purposes based largely on what they see. Women, not so much.

Yes, dropping some weight would make us all a little better in bed and a little more visually attractive. We would be a lot better off if we were a little younger, a little taller, had a little more hair and a little more muscle and a little less gut. Fortunately, those things don't have to be anything like perfect for us to be attractive to women.

I'm going to pick on BangBang57 for a moment, forgive me BB. BangBang is short, old, a little paunchy and suthern fer Christ's sake, yet the women find him attractive. Why? Because he is attentive, accepting, warm, friendly and charming. He has a good attitude and welcomes them with a smile and a warm greeting. He approaches them with confidence and caring, and they know it. He won't overpay them but won't try to take advantage of them either. His relationships are based on mutual respect and they know it.

I know some of you are sick of the term "game". It is undefined and, for many, a mysterious force that is unattainable and probably mythical. Friends, all "game" is is the ability to analyze what women want, compare it to what you have and make the two come together. BangBang57 does that very well. He makes up for what he lacks physically with emotional security and acceptance, warmth and confidence. What's so difficult?

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Pacifica55 wrote:

I'm going to pick on BangBang57 for a moment, forgive me BB. BangBang is short, old, a little paunchy and suthern fer Christ's sake, yet the women find him attractive. Why? Because he is attentive, accepting, warm, friendly and charming. He has a good attitude and welcomes them with a smile and a warm greeting. He approaches them with confidence and caring, and they know it. He won't overpay them but won't try to take advantage of them either. His relationships are based on mutual respect and they know it.





Really? They find him attractive because of that? I musta been crazy to think it was due to the rolled up wad of cash they're trying to get out of him. No disrespect to BB, as I've never met the man, but we need to stop trying to put this crazy spin on why a 20 yr old latina would bang a 50 yr old gringo.

Money, gentleman. No other reason whatsoever. I'd think a bunch of guys on a hooker forum would understand that.


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