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Dexter-phony blow jobs.Guys dont know when there dick is in a girls mouth? Your post was MTS. MORE THAN STUPID,

I can assure you that the money is no "afterthought" for the Del Rey chicas. Nor is it an afterthought for the monger or else he wouldn`t be hanging around a whorehouse to begin with.

"Worth it" is too subjective. It`s about the agreement. If it`s sexo, chupar, C*m doe veches, and she works until you C*m twice then she is entitled to payment, even if you were disappointed with the performance.

All I can say is "great!" to this. I take it you are a "monger" and do pay for sex at the DR but if refusing to wrap your head around this is part of the fantasy and enhances your experience, I say roll with it. Why not?

Express321, with all due respect, you don't get it. It is about getting the girl out of the working mindset for a little while. Once she is acting and reacting like a real person instead of an actress many good things can happen.

What 'Cuj does is no fantasy but if it makes you feel better to believe that the things we tell you can't be true, we will try to tell you less so that you can more easily digest it. That does not mean that we will party any differently or have less fun or spend more money...just that we won't threaten your sensibilities with tales of the possible.

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I really can't get my head around the stupidity throughout this whole post. Are you for f'n real man? Seriously, phony bj's? You're the epitome of the classless POS Costa Rica visitor, yes, that stands for piece of shit, and as they say, if the shoe fits...

Although I do not posess the linguistic skills of some of my friends.....

This is Exactly RIGHT... just ask any of the guys who attended the cookie fiesta Thursday night, or the BBQ on Friday night over the birthday bash weekend about the girls who were in attendance. Yes they knew they would be "earning" some money later in the evening, but they all had a great time and were not "on the clock". They were invited as FRIENDS.. This has all been reported thoroughly by Archieleach in his trip report, as well as many others.

This is about treating women with a different mindset than "WORKING", treating these girls like a real person can bring dividends. Getting them away from their normal venues (SL, DR, etc.) is an important aspect...

I also consider Cujo a good friend, he understands the game, Having his spanish skills, being able to COMMUNICATE, other than point and shoot that so many are guilty of (myself included the 1st year or so) is a big advantage, so when he says ( preaches ) practice your spanish, learn to communicate other than just sex. LISTEN, he does speak from experience,



I won't even respond to Dexter's remarks as it does not deserve the time or effort. Some just do not and will NEVER get it, no matter how hard you try to explain it to them.

The English language is a deep and beautiful river upon which to float your ideas to market, and rarely have I seen its rippling waves float so many turds, and carry so little merchandise.

Gentlemen, I admire your willingness to expend precious breath on those who clearly won't listen. It gives me hope for humanity after all. Your patience is inspiring.

Linguistic kung fu, per Arch's norm, BUT.... a typo , should it not be "rarely have I "SEEN" rippling waves....



now back to the topic at hand.....

Thanks ID, I edited it .

Brother Archieleach--Nice piece of writing. As a phrasedick (j.g.) to a senior: cogent, concise, elegant. Those who "get it", get it; others are seemingly impervious to the logic and the message. To each, his own.

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"Amen, brother"-ED

AMEN !!!

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You ALWAYS have an option ....... "NEXT" !!!

I do respect the guys who work it with the chicas and have come to appreciate that we all have our own styles, approaches and reasons for what we do... Me, I have always engaged in p4p out of laziness. When I get off my ass I can still get chicas quite a bit younger.... Just me, and it may be cutting off my nose to spite my face, I will never use game in p4p. It goes against my code.. If I'm gonna use game, I won't go to a p4p venue.... Just a perspective from a very lazy hunter...

Thanks El S, and really that is the derivation of my preaching. It's like knowing a secret you want to share but nobody will listen. All those side fiesta's you described above is how I dream all of CR being like. A bunch of great guys having a great time, chicas acting normal, and knowing you will soon do it again.

Honestly, I think the more guys (as in quantity) learn spanish; CR and the whole P4P scene would change. Dramatically? No.
If I couldn't be myself in every capacity while in CR, I would see things differently maybe. Because after all, I'm not myself if I can't speak.

And Express321; at first I wasn't even going to comment but I can understand your comments. I mean, if you can't get me saying I haven't fully embraced the P4p concept. Then how could you possibly ever understand getting freebies in CR?

Part of getting chicas to not look at me as a monger is not sleeping with 42 women in 8 days

In essence, most chicas get the drift that I don't give a shit sleeping a night in CR without getting laid. Most guys on this board almost refuse to do it. Which is also ok especially for guys who come a short time and only once or twice a year. But for me, I'd rather have the mindset that they want to "get me". Having a chica think you're a rare catch is a good thing It seems to be doing ok so far, and is the biggest hurdle in getting a freebie.

You see, if you can't fully be yourself; then you can never come off as nothing else other then a monger. If you could sit and listen for 10 minutes on how some chicas dog out some guys and the jokes they say make my smile muscles hurt.

It might all sound full of shit to you, but I understand


Cujo

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I just want to echo what 'Cuj said in order to add that you don't have to be 'Cuj-like in order for this technique to work for you. Anyone who spends enough time in CR to get over the gotta-phuck-'em-all phase can play.

It boils down to showing them that you are indifferent. They live for the attention of men and withholding the strokes they crave results in them trying harder to get them. It makes them wonder what is different about this hombre and it gives the impression that you are used to being in the presence of beautiful scantily clad women. It is not your first time in the end zone.

This, in turn, allows her to relax because you are not constantly making her self-conscious by drooling on her. She can kick back and be herself, the pressure is off. The dynamic changes from she is the party to she can participate in the party just like a regular girl (her fantasy: to be treated as an equal who deserves to party, too).

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I NEED THE MONEY!" - John Lee Hooker

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