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I'll never look at the 5 o'clock BM degenerates the same again....

Who cares what they think, as long as you don;'t lie. It's agame: you vs. them. Who wins depends on the house,

Paco Loco,

I will reference one of your previous posts on this thread and emphasize keep what you do in Costa Rica to yourself. Unfortunately, I learned this lesson the hard way. After my first few visits to CR, I was somewhat careless in disusions with some of the guys that I work with that I had thought would respect my confidential sharing of vacation stories. I had thought this because I had shared some experiences that I had with gringas, and no one would have given those discussions a second thought.

However, I was wrong and a couple of the guys that I had trusted "let the cat out of the bag" so to speak about my CR visits. This has caused my a little bit of difficulty regarding my reputation. This year I have made several trips, and with the exception of one good friend at the office (and he is not aware of the last trip), I do not share my CR vacations plans with anyone.

I became aware of the gossip through two situations. One a married friend of mine who was aware of my initial trips had invited me to a party at his house. He is married and his wife used to work for the same company. He indicated that he would call me the next day for further info on the party. No Call. I find out that he had told his wife about my previous adventures to CR, and she cosidered me one of the lowest creatures on earth, told some of the other women that she knows at the office obout me, and did not want me in their home.

The second, which I believe is directly related to the first situation is I mentioned to my boss, three trips to CR before, that I was going to CR fishing. Now keep this in mind, this was a "new boss" who happens to be a fast-track executive gringa, in my company, and her comment was "enjoy the fishing, and everything else you do in Costa Rica."

I made a big mistake by trusting some folks that I have trusted before. While this situation has no imact on my employment or career, it has definitely tarnished my reputation with some of the self-rightous people in my office, and I am sure that my monger image will survive after I am gone.

Take my heed, and keep you CR personal life to yourself.

Take Care,

Denver

There is only 1 reason why gringas get so upset about hearing of putas -

It's definately cause they feel so powerless. I love the look on their face when they find out I can get an amazing BBBJ for 6 mil or $13. They hate me cause their husbands must spend thousands on jewelry to keep them happy in order for them to provide that service while I spend almost nothing. They never ever feel sorry for the putas but instead resentful that we can take away their power.

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C.R. Marcos wrote:


Most gringas never think of putas and if they do they loathe them and feel far superior.

I think many here lose sight of the fact that mongering is a small fraternity in relationship to the total male population. Most males are married with k*ds who may ogle a girl on the street, lust for a co-worker or dream of a mistress but they go to work, come home and twice a week take out the garbage.

Gringas are well aware of this, so far from being powerless, they hold enormous power (that little triangle) over the majority of men.

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Alex Levine

99% of the gringas would be shocked to see how young and beautiful most of the girls at Blue Marlin are.

Gringas have an image of 40 year old putas with half their teeth missing etc. There was a news report last year and even the reporter had to admit many of the girls were "stunning".

You bet gringas are scared and this is just the beginning of the internet hobbying revolution. In our lifetimes there will be legal prostitution in Vegas if not the whole country.

I'm also seeing many TV shows about internet foreign bride marriage services, one about russian wives on Discovery Channel was very positive.

"Power to the People" lol!

Really? If that's the case then why do so many women in the US and Western Europe choose to work as high end ******* (not talking about street girls here)?

Just look at websites like TER, Big Doggie, Exotics, and Eros. Not to mention the "whale sites" like Exotica-2000 and Body Miracle.

Simply put these women can make considerably more money selling sex than they can at anything else. A legal Nevada brothel worker in the higher end brothels can net $300,000 a year. She'd be hard pressed to make that kind of cas doing anything else.

Sex for sale will always exist, regardless of the other opportunities society presents women. The reason women, especially American women, have such a negative view of commercial sex is that they don't want men to be able to buy it whenever they want. Sex is a woman's power and readily available commercial sex takes away from this power.

Sorry but I have to disagree. I'm a 20 year Vegas resident and a longtime patron of nevada's legal brothels but we'll never see legal prostitution within Clark County (Vegas) or anywhere else in the US. The casinos are dead set against it here in Nevada. In fact I see the day, and not too far off, when the legal rural brothels are shut down by either their respective county or the state. The escort end of it will continue to thrive, but not as legal prostitution.

Lycaon, I definately agree with you. All one has to do is look at the direction of our political landscape these days. Morality is all you hear about. Recently a High School championship football game was rescheduled because it conflicted with morning prayer at church. So if anyone thinks the US will tolerate legal prostitution they must be living in Canada. Goal....I do applaud your optimism.

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First, thanks to all who’ve weighed in at this point concerning my original post.

I admit to possibly showing poor judgment in being unable to contain my enthusiasm about the CR experience and telling some friends about it. However, while it’s all well and good to have rules concerning the nature of discourse on a web forum, it’s going over the line to suggest someone else should follow a set of “rules” concerning their own personal behavior. You live your life and I’ll live mine, thank you.

That being said, I’m amazed at the range of the responses on this. However, no one at this point has really addressed my key point. That is, we are who we are because of our genes and the way our species has evolved over time. And since society (at least here in the U.S.) has evolved in a way that our basic needs are not well accommodated, we should not in any way feel ashamed about going to a foreign country and engaging in sex-for-pay to see they are met. It’s all consensual, and as long as you treat the girls with courtesy and respect, where is the harm done? So, if I’ve now somehow diminished myself in the eyes of the gringa I discussed this with, that’s her problem to deal with, not mine.

Oh I totally agree that our sexual behavior is all in our genes. Men can theoretically father an unlimited number of offspring while women can at the maximum bear about 20 Ch*ldren, usually far fewer. Women therefore need to be choosier about who their sexual partners are. It's all about biology and reproduction, whether we consciously realize it or not. Countries, religions, and local authorities can enact all the laws, edicts, rules, and mores they like but in the end sexual behavior will ultimately stay the same. A few thousand years of socialization is hardly a match for millions of years of evolution.

Hey I'm not going to disagree with a Vegas Local I thought I read Steve Wynn wanted Strip Clubs onsite at the Casinos, and Mayor Goodman thought legal prostitution was just a small step away from that.

I'll bet if you tell your gringa friend a Bunny Ranch girl can make $200-300G a year you'll see the gringa's gears start turning and wondering if prostitution is so bad after all lol. That kind of money buys a lot of Fendi Handbags....

Getrhythm:
My apologies. My rules for behavior in the real world were meant to be advice not a command. Presented more in fun than anything else. Although I do think it is good advice for anyone who lives a life where they're constantly being judged by others. The thing about advice is that it's free and you do not have to follow it.

If you think this caused a lot of comments? You should bring up the subject of pricing sometimes and see what you get. You will never hear me talking about what I paid.

As for your lady friend who disapproves of what you've done. Just as you have a right to do what makes you happy as long as you're not hurting anyone else she has the right to approve or disapprove. You have to make a decision (when you tell someone about your activities) as to whether you want to risk their approval or disapproval. Men and women are not the same animals they do not follow the same thought process so we cannot expect a woman ( born and raised in the United States especially) to look at this the same way we do. I have spoken to many ladies in Costa Rica who think North American men are absolutely insane for coming all the way down there and paying all that money for what they should be getting at home virtually free. And I'm not even going to get into one of my favorite subjects and that's how unbelievably they go home to North America and continue to send money back.
Lee

ok

Lee,

Appreciate your response - I'll take the previous comments in the spirit intended.

It's funny - I kept hearing "Why you not married" over and over again from the girls I was with in Costa Rica. I could never think of a good response to this, and ended up just shrugging my shoulders. Thinking back now, I wish I had said "Because it could never be as good as this...".