I hate to burst some of your bubbles but Cafe Mundo is DEFINITELY a gay restaurant. That doesn't mean most of its customers aren't straight (most of them are). Nor does it mean that there's anything wrong with the food or atmosphere there (unless you're a complete homophobe). And it certainly doesn't mean that us gringos have to worry about being homosexually assaulted if they use their restroom (that sounds totally absurd) any more than gringas have to worry about unwanted sexual advances by mongers at places where we predominate.
I could be wrong but, as a group that faces the same sort of ostracism and disapproval from the mainstream that we as mongers face, I don't think that most gay tourists to SJ are nearly as judgmental about our hobby as more mainstream tourists. And I think that most mongers take a similar hands-off live-and-let-live view of their lifestyle choices. I know that I personally don't care if the patrons at the table next to mine are 2 men holding hands any more than anyone else should care if its an old gringo and a young chica.
There is actually a huge gay scene in CR and SJ that most of us are only marginally aware of. It goes well beyond the TV streetwalkers or Puchos that we sometimes like to joke about. I first became aware of it several years ago when I was looking at businesses to buy in SJ and saw an ad for a beautiful hotel that was for sale named Colours. Not having the gaydar that some of you seem to have, I didn't understand the significance of that name at first, until I started to look over their website. It was then that I discovered the significant gay tourist subculture in SJ similar to our own monger one. They even have their own
Gay SJ Map similar to our VIP map but featuring gay venues like Puchos, Avispas, Club Oh! and Sauna Paris as well as mutually appreciated business like Cafe Mundo and Tin Jo.
I think we'd much sooner see a gay discount at Cafe Mundo before we'd ever see a CRT one there.
www.gay-costarica.net lists just 2 restaurants in their directory of gay businesses. One is Cafe Mundo (the other is Olio in Barrio Escalante, another good place to eat). The Colours website has this to say about those 2 places: "Cafe Mundo : a beautiful setting in lush gardens where gay men adn (sic) lesbians and their friends can enjoy delicious traditional food. Olio: this sophisticated Italian eatery offers fine food in an elegant gay atmosphere." They also list Tin Jo and Esquina de Buenos Aires as recommended restaurants though they don't actually "out them" as "gay businesses".
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One last comment about Cafe Mundo. I've had a lot of good meals there and would still recommend the place but feel I should let others know that the one and only time I've ever become sick (violently ill as it turned out)from eating at a restaurant in SJ was a couple of visits ago at Cafe Mundo. I think it was probably from the dinner salad though it could have also been from a weakened immune system. My "date" for the evening had the exact same entree and he felt fahbulous afterwards.
