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I agree!!! everyone here has there own puta experience ...good.... bad and really ugly lol............I can see how easy it would be to fall all over a couple of my experiences.....But you live and learn. I now keep things in perspective. I do not live there nor would I like to live there catch my drift!!....And if I did I would never fall for a disfunctional women when there is so many normal working girls down there with good ethics and so forth.....why waste your time with damaged goods???Hmmm since I do not live there take it for what it is cheap available pu*sy....That it is all it is and all it will be.....Am I right or wrong?I already decided I am right in my world...................A lot of these girls have major serious problems that you ,me Dr.PHil and a host of others could never figure out...Why bother?They do not want you to be anything other than a good gringo with lots of money to spend....It is what it is nothing else...Yes i know some seem so different but it just takes more time for there true colors to shine ................It is what it is......................and nothing else...And I still manage to have a good time!!!!!!They do not understand the meaning of what you want to bring to the table....no matter how you come across money,gifts all around good guy etc......They have issues that us Captain Americas will never fully understand....How can we??????Have we walked in there shoes hell no!!!!Maybe some are salvageable most are long gone unfortunately!!!!No matter how hard you try!!!!Do I care of course I do!!! But after seeing the pattern over and over again.I have come to the realism... It is what it is..That is what it is nothing else!!

Psychologically, I find it interesting that some are so passionate about the subject, on both sides... All things P4P are just a very light subject for me. Why do some take this thing so seriously.

TW, I can honestly say this... for 2 decades I have mongered, and felt the EXACT same way as you, until I fell for this tica...

I fell fast and hard for her, so much so that it happened before I even knew it.

I hear ya QBF and even though you started the thread, you are not one I am referring to.. You seem to be telling a story of something that happened. You don't seem to be so passionate about extolling the virtues of "dating" hookers. And then there are others that get so worked up against the dating of hookers.... My point is that I wonder what makes some people so passionate over any of the subjects on the board. I have my opinion but it is not that big of a deal to me..... I think you played the long odds, got burned, learned from it and will probably not do it again... And if you do, I am sure you will limit the downside...

So, you post your opinion and I post mine and now you are all butt-hurt.

You paint all women with the same broad brush then explain how you respectfully continue to phuck other girls in the MPs while supposedly being in a relationship? Pal, feel free to express your opinion but, as advice for someone who would like a real relationship, it is frankly BS in my opinion.

As far as calling me names and threatening me, bring it bitch!

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oh well spoke too soon. another good thread spirals into the abyss. chill pills all around

People are allowed to have different opinions. There is no need for threats, it's not that kind of forum.

yeah, and that's just your lowly little opinion orangeman!

Okay. I would say that I'm only slightly passionate about this. Because in the end, you can do whatever the heck you want. And, on any particular case, I could care less, unless I know you personally and we are friends.

This whole section and its treatment is what has me bothered. Guys on the board seem to think that novia = dating hookers. And, that is pretty much your ONLY option in CR or your BEST option.

I am one of the few here who made the effort to transition into dating civilians. I can say a couple of things about this:

1. It has its own challenges
2. Its waayyyyyy different than dating a puta and has many more rewards

I'm not wragging on P4P and believe it has its own good purpose. This is providing it is kept at that level. I have nothing against these women as women. I choose to think they MAKE SHITTY novias. Horrible in fact!!!! This is not an opinion, but this is a fact and supported by many, many cases.

When P4P girls are less than 1% of the female population in CR, I just can't understand why guys on this board are so narrow-minded and focused on that tiny percentile of women.

So, i guess in the end, a lot would be resolved by changing the title of this Section to "Dating Hookers and Rules of Engagement". Because, that is all we hear about - and - that is the only thing guys on this board seem to understand.

Capiche?

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Caballeros respect the opinions of others.......

IMJ, it has to do with what we have been taught as being a man, more than what this subject, or any other subject is about.

As a man I have been taught, unfortunately usually by my mother in our generation, that the Alpha male is top dog. If others don't agree with me, and my judgments, how can I be the Alpha male. I am then forced to belittle others judgment, and hammer them with mine, until they agree with me. Now I feel that I am top dog. In actuality all I have done is move myself farther away from others, and there has not been any agreement.

In my former mind set I was a pro at this. A shrink (marriage counselor) told me that my M. O. was to "beat people up with words, and you are very good at it". She was right, while others didn't agree with me, they would finally let it go and think what an ass I was. Oh, but did I feel good, and powerful. In reality I was neither.

In the scope of life, what does it matter if anyone on this board, or in my daily life, does not share my judgments? I am not less than for it, nor am I more than when others agree with me. Since I have let go of the "my judgment is right" mentality my life is much better now. Just as this post is not right, nor wrong, just my judgement, so who really cares?

IMHO, state your judgement and let it go. Just because someone does not agree with my judgment actually means nothing, unless I choose to make it so.

Your judgment about this post is welcomed. I can actually learn more from those who disagree with me, than those who are in agreement.

Just my dos colones.

Health & happiness to all......

Steve - Santas Bro

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Dude....

Because this a MONGER SITE! H E L L O !!!!!!!!!

We all very happy I am sure about your success in your ltr with your non-working latina...tenga suerte en tu vida...

However...this is a monger site...and this section is clearly about dealing with the emotional issues that will inevitably arise from intimate relations with working girls. Look through the threads in this section...guys get very sensitive dancing around this subject...its the nature of the beast... QBF's petition to his comrades-in-arms is a valid subject for discussion in this context. If you want to discuss relationships with latinas outside the P4P world..find yourself the appropriate BOARD.

Chi-trekker...you have made your point over and over again in numerous threads about how dating putas is a bad bet for most...WE GET THAT! One more time and I will put your name on the CRT broken record award list...

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Chi, made a point that I would like to take in my own direction. 1% of the women in CR are hookers. Ok, lets say that is correct. Then lets say at 30 they are out of the bussiness. So, 30 to 40. Is another and 40 to 50 another and ect. So, Maybe 5% of women everywhere have been in the bussiness and 1% are working now.

What is it about this 5%? I have wondered for years? Is it that they just like to Phuck like us men do? Is it because their clits are bigger? Is it because they can have multipull orgasams and do? I do not know. But I have wondered about this for along time.

I would say that 10% of women hate men. 20% do not see what the fuss is with sex. They do not even nut. And of course we know that Frued said it is penis envy. And in thinking on this along time I can say most hookers do not have that penis evny thing. Which makes me wonder if my earlyier point about that 5% who love to Phuck is in the gene's.

Just some thoughts from a sick puppy.

On another note. I think it is wrong to offer violince or intimidation on this board. To discuss and have opposing veiws is to be human. And to sum that thought up, just think if all of you thought like me...........

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Red,
I don't know what all that means, but it's deep. Sounds like you need some pu$$y !!!

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