CR Hangover...

Beachbumm2006 · **Joined:** Mon Jun 30, 2008 12:13 am **Posts:** 410

I know I've seen it discussed several times. You go to CR and have quite the experience...then you return. If you did it right, you partied like a rockstar and had a blast. You did things that maybe 1% of the world experienced.

After one of these little vacations, you come back changed. You don't look at American women the same. Not in a bad way, you just look at them differently. Perhaps it's the fascination with women has decreased or maybe you feel more emotionally detached from women or maybe you just don't care about women here as much and can only think about your next trip back.

I used to love going out and drinkin here in the states and now I feel like I just don't care. It was all about going out, having a few drinks and looking for a girl. That same determination isn't there.

Don't get me wrong, I know the women in CR didn't actually like me more than the size of my wallet. And trust me, I wasn't one of those guys that only hung out with one girl for 5 nights. My experience was a fantastic buffet of women every day. But each one was great in there own way and fun to talk to.

Also, the guys were so much more cool. We all knew why we were there, we were all in a good mood, and each guy had a funny story. It was like being in a room full of good wingmen. There aren't any good wingmen left.

The whole experience was phenominal. And now I'm back to reality. My next trip is in May and I made another one in August.

Just a warning newbies. It can be too much fun and the CR hangover is tough...

J0sie · **Posted:** Sun Jan 25, 2009 12:15 am

Bibbers · **Joined:** Wed Dec 24, 2008 9:28 pm **Posts:** 24

yeah man there is no going back really. If anything the "I don't give a Phuck" attitude give you a bit of a advantage in the states if I remember right haha. Girls in US are just annoying and even if you got like 100gs in your back pocket the girls are still annoying .. Phuck it

nyc another story .. def give that a shot but anything else is whack imo

Beachbumm2006 · **Joined:** Mon Jun 30, 2008 12:13 am **Posts:** 410

Thanks guys.

Josie, you're a wealth of knowledge...

Peter-Blastinoff · **Joined:** Sun Nov 16, 2008 7:13 pm **Posts:** 391

Don't get me wronge here, I'm as much a puussy hound as you guys are, but I gotta say. Completly writting off North American women! Shee'it, you are missing out. I'm Monger here in the States, pro and non-pro.

PB

Pacifica55 · **Posted:** Sun Jan 25, 2009 9:19 pm

Gringas come with a "bitch shield" to ward off the jackals. They are used to men groveling for their attention. Don't grovel. Show them fast that they have to show that they are more than a pretty booty in order to hang with you!

Remember that Miss Gringa is comparing her "life" to the fantasy of yours. Make your life look like somewhere she wants to be and the bitch shield drops. Don't be easy, you're busy, remember? Sort through the ones that think they are hotter than they are and find the ones who like to play. It really is almost that easy.

I always had plenty of fairly young poosie in the US until I hit 50. Hard to crack the under 35 crowd unless you are packing the bling (not that you have to spend any of it on them...just have to appear to have it).

Beachbumm2006 · **Joined:** Mon Jun 30, 2008 12:13 am **Posts:** 410

Peter-Blastinoff wrote:

Don't get me wronge here, I'm as much a puussy hound as you guys are, but I gotta say. Completly writting off North American women! Shee'it, you are missing out. I'm Monger here in the States, pro and non-pro.

PB

Whoa, whoa, whoa!!!! I hope I didn't sound completely crazy. I would NEVER write off fun in the states. There's a ton of fun here in the states. Certainly I am always on the hunt. But the game has changed after CR. Some typical signs upon your return are probably things like, "You are now less tolerant of bs from women." "You are not as enamoured by a pretty woman if she doesn't have the personality to back it up." "You want a girl to get freakier in bed."

I'm just a little bit down that I can't take a 30 minute train ride to CR on a Friday and come back on Sunday. And I would say it now takes more for me to be enthusiastic about a woman here in the states.

Trust me, if I'm in the middle of Antartica, I'm looking for women before I'm trying to survive.

Puro Party · **Posted:** Mon Jan 26, 2009 1:49 am

Pacifica55 wrote:

Gringas come with a "bitch shield" to ward off the jackals. They are used to men groveling for their attention. Don't grovel. Show them fast that they have to show that they are more than a pretty booty in order to hang with you!

Remember that Miss Gringa is comparing her "life" to the fantasy of yours. Make your life look like somewhere she wants to be and the bitch shield drops. Don't be easy, you're busy, remember? Sort through the ones that think they are hotter than they are and find the ones who like to play. It really is almost that easy.

I always had plenty of fairly young poosie in the US until I hit 50. Hard to crack the under 35 crowd unless you are packing the bling (not that you have to spend any of it on them...just have to appear to have it).

Man I don't know if I did this the right way but I totally negged a gringa bitch tonight and kinda feelin guilty now but proly just means I did my job and put that bitch in her right place...

Just another generic hot XYZ SOFLA girl (so many here but all really tough to land) in her mid to late 20s who gave me some eye contact and when she came into the bar to order another round and picked spot next to me saw it as an opportunity. Since she wouldn't open up nicely I asked her if her new purse was real or imitation and she got real snotty even pulling out the receipt from Bloomingdales to prove it was real. Whether or not I knew it at the time I made the entirely right call and said it still doesn't look real. Turns out the purse was $195 and may have been real but she then goes on to say her "Sugar Daddy" bought it for her then retracted the statement so I say "A Sugar Daddy ain't gonna buy you a cheap $195 purse" and I could tell she got so livid, collected her drinks and exited outside with friends. I proly over did it a bit but hard to find the sweet spot without a whole lot of practice.

I could tell I really got her when I left a half hour later and her friend asked if my Tide "Loads of Hope" shirt was real for which I proudly procalimed "Of Course and 100% of the profit went to charity. Do you donate to charity?". So god-damn tired of these stuck fuckin up shallow gringas.

Man I ain't gettin laid being nice or passive so time to be a complete dickhead. Time go back down Colombia and nail super hot $20 MP chicas!!!!!!!!

JazzboCR · **Posted:** Mon Jan 26, 2009 3:15 am

As Brother jester's story so amply demonstrates, Gringas seem to know the price of everything...and the value of nothing.
By the way, when was the last time you saw a Gringa look behind herself when walking through a store door? How many times has that door closed right in front of your outstretched hands?

Puro Party · **Posted:** Mon Jan 26, 2009 4:42 pm

Thanks for the pep up Jazz. I was a little depress afterwards but feeling better today.

For me anyways going south isn't all about the great enjoyments any male should have but also about going into these cultures where I feel they truly are interested in you and not just from a cash standpoint. You can still make some friends and be accepted, not scorned here by most Gringa man haters.

Some areas of this planet still have some basic traditional values remaining.

Cujo's · **Posted:** Mon Jan 26, 2009 6:43 pm

Gringas will always have my heart. Not sure why but they just do it for me. I think it depends on what crowd you roll with and what type of gringas you come across.

You can certainly get a gringa to act right just as you can a chica. The gringa bashing doesn't bother me because what has been written can be true. But if it's working for some of you, keep on. Man, a slammin' ass blonde in her 20's gets my attention everytime.

That avatar Pac55 has should be avatar of the year. Although the gringa in my avatar would get dealt with too. :wink:

Cujo

JTF-Bravo · **Joined:** Tue Nov 11, 2008 1:45 pm **Posts:** 814

....that is what I call gringas after a good mongering trip.

After a nice, five course meal at a five-star restaurant, would you walk in the rain to the grocery store for a can of pork-and-beans? Generic pork-and-beans? And then walk to another store to buy a can opener? And then slowly cook them in the oven because your microwave AND your stove top are busted?

After a week or so in a good mongering destination, gringas might as well be invisible to me. They make as small a blip on my sexual radar as a stealth bomber going through the advanced air defenses of Jamaica....or Botswana....or Haiti?

Women will exploit your need for a girlfriend to trick you into income draining scam of dating. When that scam wont work, they want to be your "friend".

I have enough friends. I don't need any "friends" that will expect me to drive them to the airport, help them move, scare away a burglar, and other onerous chores when they can't keep me entertained with decent conversation or even consider reciprocating. I could use some good "f*ck buddies", but the gringa union kinda frowns upon that.

And no true friend would expect me to me to take them out on a date, spend hundreds of dollars entertaining them and never repay the favor. But a gringa will....

Why do gringas mistreat us the way they do? Because we don't have teleport machines that are cheaper than cars and would fit in our basements. If we did, we would spend our weekends in Chang Mai, or Angeles City, or Medellin, or any of a dozen other places.

But....because we don't, and women have half the country's money and all the vaginas, they will do anything they can get away with while they still have the monopoly.

Globalization - through cheap air fares and the internet - have offered so many of us an alternative to their monopoly. Every one of us has unplugged ourselves from "the Matrix" to one extent or another. And they hate it. They hate it on an instinctual level. We are not in the bars buying them drinks, or in the jewelry store bying them rings, or allowing them to live of our wages. They hate it, and the smarter ones are coming up with "human trafficking" and other terms to denigrate it.

Even if you have paid "cien" or wasn't it cheaper (in terms of time, and money, and effort) and easier and more satisfying than most "dates"?

And how many "ciens" do you stand to lose in even your most amicable divorce?

DrForm · **Joined:** Sat Nov 25, 2006 7:03 pm **Posts:** 1651

Iguana Six wrote:

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Globalization - through cheap air fares and the internet - have offered so many of us an alternative to their monopoly. Every one of us has unplugged ourselves from "the Matrix" to one extent or another. And they hate it. They hate it on an instinctual level. We are not in the bars buying them drinks, or in the jewelry store bying them rings, or allowing them to live of our wages. They hate it, and the smarter ones are coming up with "human trafficking" and other terms to denigrate it.

And how many "ciens" do you stand to lose in even your most amicable divorce?

Good points Iguana Six.......

Beachbumm2006 · **Joined:** Mon Jun 30, 2008 12:13 am **Posts:** 410

Iguana Six wrote:

Women will exploit your need for a girlfriend to trick you into income draining scam of dating. When that scam wont work, they want to be your "friend".

I have enough friends. I don't need any "friends" that will expect me to drive them to the airport, help them move, scare away a burglar, and other onerous chores when they can't keep me entertained with decent conversation or even consider reciprocating. I could use some good "f*ck buddies", but the gringa union kinda frowns upon that.

Iguana-

You are like one of those friends that I hate because you're on target. When you say:

"friends" that will expect me to drive them to the airport, help them move, scare away a burglar, and other onerous chores"

I immediately looked at myself and said, "I've done that, that, and that..." Now, I'd like to say that you're a person that's just thinking about themselves and you should always try to help out. But that would be a lie. I used to think of myself as a really nice guy, but I started resenting myself. After taking a serious look at myself, it's because I wasn't getting any reciprocation. I don't need a woman to f me if I take her to the airport, but genuinely showing some appreciation would be acceptable.

That being said, I don't believe all gringas are unappreciative, but a lot are. And let's get something else correct here. When in CR, a snotty Columbiana is much like an annoying gringa here. She thinks her stuff don't stink. But there's always some guy that will put in the effort and put her on a pedastal.

Say what you will philisophically, I just love bangin CR women!!!

BB

Pacifica55 · **Posted:** Tue Jan 27, 2009 7:56 pm

Beachbumm2006 wrote:

Iguana Six wrote:

Women will exploit your need for a girlfriend to trick you into income draining scam of dating. When that scam wont work, they want to be your "friend".

I have enough friends. I don't need any "friends" that will expect me to drive them to the airport, help them move, scare away a burglar, and other onerous chores when they can't keep me entertained with decent conversation or even consider reciprocating. I could use some good "f*ck buddies", but the gringa union kinda frowns upon that.

Iguana-

You are like one of those friends that I hate because you're on target. When you say:

"friends" that will expect me to drive them to the airport, help them move, scare away a burglar, and other onerous chores"

I immediately looked at myself and said, "I've done that, that, and that..." Now, I'd like to say that you're a person that's just thinking about themselves and you should always try to help out. But that would be a lie. I used to think of myself as a really nice guy, but I started resenting myself. After taking a serious look at myself, it's because I wasn't getting any reciprocation. I don't need a woman to f me if I take her to the airport, but genuinely showing some appreciation would be acceptable.

That being said, I don't believe all gringas are unappreciative, but a lot are. And let's get something else correct here. When in CR, a snotty Columbiana is much like an annoying gringa here. She thinks her stuff don't stink. But there's always some guy that will put in the effort and put her on a pedastal.

Say what you will philisophically, I just love bangin CR women!!!

BB

Dewds, that is their agenda for womanly men. Come weak to the game and that is your course. Show early that you are not about to spend money on them (until after they put out...and then not on extravagant items) and she will begin to respect you. Everything is a "shit test". Are you compliant to her demands? You just flunked the shit test, sweetie, here are your panties.

If they even hint at the "friends" crap, drop it like its hot. You have a pair, are in demand because you have a life and you don't need her. You must portray your higher social status and make her aspire to that higher level. As soon as she is trying to qualify for you instead of the other way around, you are in. It's that simple.

And yes, the Colombiana comparison is pretty much dead-on. I have had some fantastic experiences with the Colombianas because I make them play the game by my rules, not the other way around!

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