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You are always looking out for the chicas!!

I think I dodged an RFM last week. My favorite nica chica called me COLLECT ......first time she ever called collect. To me, it was a red flag and I didn't accept the charges.

That qualifies you for the Great Decision of the Day Zebra!! Unless she was calling you to tell you she missed you terribly, couldn't live without you, needed your c*ck immediately if not sooner! Oh wait...that would surely be followed by an RFM. Either way you came out ahead.

Last week I did a 6 day trip in C.R. My 8th trip. I saw my Noiva and took her,and her 2 Babi*s to San Pedro Mall and voluntarily purchased $50.00 worth of toys for them. All were very thankful for the gifts.

Recently I received an E-mail from her thanking me for a wonderful time but she wants to have a serious conversation with me on my return in January about our relationship. What should I expect

That would be called the next level.....RFM ratcheted up a notch..

Where did you meet her?

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Tjaco,, The conversation will be I want to only be with you and quit this job, etc. etc. BUt can not make a living with out help..

OK, be careful.. Been there and done that.... This broad is seldom wrong if it is the real mongers talking and not ass wipes.
99% of the time is will be trouble. Can it work.... Yes,,, is it easy NO.. Expect major drama.. them calling everytime something happens like it a big ordeal.. Even is it is what we would think as nothing..
Are some of them really wanting out of the business, yes I am sure. Does some of them love you instead of there money.. Possible..
The are people like everyone.. They have just lived in a different world than we do.. Takes time to understand this part.
Expect the Latina temper, yes.. the getting mad at nothing.. (what we think is nothing) but to them it is different..
Third world is right expect a increase in RFM and her wanting to be your permenet novia..

Not living in CR full time makes this a long shot to win.. The draw to make money is hard to reject for them.. Remember it was their job to make money from us gringos..
They are just like people everywhere, good ones, bad ones, honest ones, etc. But they have a hardned attitude toward love and sex..

Now for the 1% chance part.. Can it be done,, Yes, been there and done that.. is she not working, No. Is she in real love and want to marry stuff yes,, for today that is..
Was it a tremendious amount of work and heart ache, long distance regular trips to CR, many misuderstandings over what we think is nothing,, over what they think is nothing, and a great deal of refusing to quit. You have no idea how much a latina likes to fight.. They have high drives in every thing.. I will say that when they love they love like a pit bull.
Expect her to be extermely jelious, and to not like it is you act that way any at all..

AGAINST BETTER ADVICE FROM HERE. I went down this road.. The advice from here keep me from making many mistakes.. You have to be in charge,,,, if you roll over and give in to them and let them start making the calls, you are in a for a short run.. They will not respect you.
You will have to stand your ground and tell her it is your way or you know where to find more just like her.. DONT word it that way,, but you get the point.

The important part is:::: is it worth it::: I just can not really tell you.. It has been a real job. and on that takes staying on top of. The best advise I can give, if you like really hard task.. and you CAN CONTROL YOU HEART AND FEELINGS. Then you can tread where most fail just know the pit fails and protect yourself..
Take your time and do not rush in make her come to you.. If you run in , she will see you for just a sucker..

This story would take days to type.. If you want to knwo more in privite,, Im me and we can talk..
Do not make the mistake of telling on her you love her and she is different you will get blasted... Most of the real guys on her and old time hands, and people like third world who live here can give you excellant advise and will do so only to help you..

Thank you gentlemen for your input. I am due back in CR January 20th for another 7 day trip. Will keep you posted on my trials and tribulations.

It is interesting what you say about there tempers, the things that get them mad are amazing. After spending time with her and going to her home there is a completly different side to these women then the bar at the D.R.

Tjaco,


You have went to phase 2 or 3 all ready.. If she takes you to her house and you spend any time there.. You have moved beyond a normal client.. Does not mean that she loves you or anything.. But that she trust you enough to take you to her home..
Think about it... Would you pick up a hooker and take her to your house at home?? Introduce her to your family?? No not really.
You are begining to get on dangerious ground here.. Some can just be friends.. Some may be so new they do not know better than not to attach feeling with the work yet. And some are looking to draw you in hoping for a gringo suger daddy..Navio..
I am not making a judgement on her..But if she is doing this it means at the least she feels comfortable with you and wants you to come to her home and spend time with her outside of the work places..
Dont rush in.... be at little cool and hold back a little.. Let her come to you.. When she does watch and see if you can pick up any wrong feeling or something that does not seem right.. Just watch you self..
She maybe wanting a full time boyfriend from out of you... Just tread lightly and guard you heart...
Not a expert,,,,..... but just tired battle worn experence talking now..

The temper....LOL!!!!!!!!! yes they do and it is over the funnyest things... Or it is to us.. Mine, on the last trip as we was eating breakfast at a out door table, just said that is a really hot girl.. (one had just walked by) And Like a idiot without thinking I turned to look.. She went through the roof... I told her I was just looking at what you said was good looking.. I did not even see her.. They do things like this to see if you are still shopping and then get mad...

Like I said it is a job..

I can relate to that. One night sitting in K.L. with her I am watching two cute chicas dancing together. I remark, "they look good dancing", my novia gets upset and says, "go the Phuck with them"

I say, "no they probably want Cien, you are cheaper". She was furious,all this drama because I looked at 2 girls dancing.

Tjaco..

That was the worst thing you could have said LOL..... But it was funny.. They do not have the same since of humor we do.... Never say anything about money for another tica...
There are 2 things here.. If she is using you,, she was mad and trying to protect her client and they get protective about this....
The other if she is really into you.. They know you was a monger that is how you found her... They think you are still play with other ticas..

When I stay in CR, I stay in a hotel (she has a daughter and sister living in her house.. SO, wild sex is out.. Hotel is better.. She will call sometimes during the night,, like 2am, 4 am, etc.. Just to see if I am there..
Another trick they use is when you go to Sl.Dr etc, their friends see you with her.. They have there friend watch and tell her if you show up without her..

BUT here is a trick you can use.. watch the trip reports and see who has trips coming up... PM them and ask them to keep a look out for them.. You will have to give details and e-mail a pic or two.. But if they see them working,, they will report to you..

Mine says,, I have too many spys in the Dr, etc.. One of her home girls (dr gal) called and wanted her to meet her siad she had a good deal for a lesbein act.. She would not go and told her friend no to many spys that night tell..
Now is it always good info.. most times.. Have her looked for at the out hang outs.. Dont tell her.. See what happens.. Now that is only if she is telling you she is not working... If she tells you she is working regular then you know she is there..
But if she wanted to racthed up this thing with you,, her next step is not to work anymore and you be her full time boy friend..

Thank you for your detailed reply. I must mention that when I go to C.R.
I stay at a hotel. The novia lives with Mom and Dad and her 2 Babi*s. When I went to her house I met Mom and Dad. I am 57, her parents are probably 50. Novia is 28 yrs. old.

I got along with Mom, Dad was a little quiet,but after a few beers we were one big happy tica family.

Novia says mom likes me, she probably hoping that I get her daughter and 2 Babi*s out of there. That is not happening. However, the novia admits that she does get Ch*ld support from Babi*s papa.

Yeah.....I had two Tica mothers that wanted me to marry their daughters. One daughter was 19 years old and one was 24. I was older than the mothers. Had to politely tell them "it wasn't going to happen."

Some parents may want rid of the daughters this way.. But most of them are just parents and it would be hard to be a dad and the little girl bring home a novio older than me...
Mines parents know about me and are ok, but not pushy eihter.. It is like the jury is out still and I dont know what they think.
NOW FOR THE IMPORTANT PART.. Never say never... You need to be very careful.. they can get to your heart before you know it.. BUT if you are ok and know that it is 100% sure she can not get to your heart, then full speed ahead..
But if you are sending money to keep her up and OTM, then you are all ready 3/4 ways to being in love and want to take her out of there..
Only believe what you can see. If she has a cell phone asked her to see it and ask if you can go through the calls and contacts.. If, she raises hell and says no.. then you should watch out..
Good luck.