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I have thought about this more. And I hope some people recognize the help allot of men have gotten from this board. And how some young men have grown up sharing their life on this board. Jmac is the young man I am thinking of. Steven who was a doctor in Florida and married to a bitch, who went to CR and saw what life had to offer. But who loved his Ch*ldren. The many men who have married in CR to women and the advice they have given good and bad. Orange is one who comes to mind. And me who was going thru a divorce and who has Ch*ldren that I love and place before my pleasures. Even though I am not dead and do need my pleasures. The friends I have made and even good money advice from Boudmon. Or, Mucho Gusto and Tomas who have shared their worlds with me. The deaths in family and love. And Circus who I did not know was telling story's until Californacatingdud told me. And Don Gordo. the famous man himself and all the advice he has given to us men before there was a CRT.

What I am saying is CRT is so much more than a porn site. I love the pictures and am in a few myself. But that is not why I keep coming back. Lets tell the world that CRT is a gentlemen’s club. Where women are treated with respect. And men talk about our issues. Our version of Opraph.

Merry Christmas Brothers. RED

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I think you nailed it two posts ago, Red. The women here are people, just like everywhere else. Treat them with respect and they will repay the respect with benefits ten fold.

To me, the problem seems to be a few weak individuals who need to have their ego stroked by posting the pics of their many "conquests" without the girls' permission and another group of very weak individuals who think they will get an "in" by showing the site to chicas.

I can do nothing about the first group except to say that the practice of posting pics without permission is counterproductive because fewer and fewer girls will allow any pictures, knowing that "we" can't be trusted. I hope they get help with the self esteem problem...

As for the weakies who show the site to their chica of the moment: You will gain absolutely nothing for your efforts but disrespect from the girls. By showing them a "secret", the VIP section, you have demonstrated that you are not trustworthy. They also pick up on the fact that you are trying to gain favor with the betrayal. Instead, she disrespects you because she can clearly see that weakness is driving your actions.

Chicas hate "hypocrites": Those who say one thing and do another, like backstabbing their brothers by showing chicas the site. They also have very little use for weak men beyond what they can get from them. You want respect from a chica? Try telling her "no" with a smile.

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And i hope we can get away from the use of the term "monger" or even worse the dreaded "whore monger" name that gets used here sometime. "Single male leisure traveler" is what I consider myself and my CRT friends to be.

Just this afternoon, a chica friend who I have known for a ong time (one of my 'granddaughters') was on the computer in the SL. I asked her if she was a member of "TAGGED" and tried to tell her about it. All she wanted was for me to let her get on CRT. When I refused and told her that guys letting chicas have access to the site was prohibited and a bad thing, her reply was "OK, no problema, tengo un otro amigo que siempre permita me aceso."

I am always hearing guys complaining about the gringas walking all over guys; and those same guys come down here to get away from this , then allow the chicas to do the same thing. Those pu*sy whipped guys just can not stand not being controlled and dominated. They are very quickly turning the chicas here into "gringas"

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I have never given access to this site to a chica for the few that actually knew I was CRT. I still really don't see what the problem is though. A large number of the Asian sites allow access to the girls. Hell, some even have sections for them to advertise. Why do you guys get so wound up about it.

This isn't a flame or a trolling post, I am truly trying to understand what the big deal is.

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Spanky, I’m with you. Really I do not care if a “favorita” reads my TR’s. If she gets all bend out of shape, guess what, NEXT! But I can see the other side too. It is called “noviohood” and many of the members are afflicted by it. BTW, I’m going thru some bad ass “novio” withdrawals right now but I have a sound base to reality here in the USA.

I rather see the board to be kept for members only; but those that get too bend out of shape because “chicas” are looking at the CRT board need to look inside their hearts and question if this sport is for you. CR is a catch and release lake. If you want to find a keeper, there are better places to find them than the HDR.

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Why? Becuase some of us have had favoritas for five years or more than those are some very interesting relationships (small r). Pacifica said it perfectly above. To expand a bit- the less trustworthy we are, the less they trust us. What does trust have to do with it? Women need to feel some level of trust to give themslves to you fully. So, that wonderful GFE you are getting? Have enough guys blow trust, treat the girl poorly, post pictures on the web when the gay said they would not, the more closed off they will be. Closed off=less dfk, less bbbj, less spendng the night cuddled (some of us like that from time to time)..

Perhaps the reasons why CR has been getting a reputation for beling less GFE is just this kind of crap..I have no evidence to support it, but in a few other places the chicas don't even have a consiousness about websites like this (nicaragua, peru, ect).

Purely selfish, but I want the next chica I am with to have had a minimum of shitty enounters...

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Maybe I’m missing something but; what GFE have to do with a “chica” reading the board? I think that you confusing those of us that do not care if a “chica” read the board with some other assholes. I love GFE as much as the next guy but we seem to have quite a bit hung up on these issues of GFE and “chicas” reading the board which IMHO are too different subjects.

We were discussing showing the “chicas” the site and you said “Purely selfish, but I want the next chica I am with to have had a minimum of shitty enounters...” Well, me too. But what does that have to do with a “chica” reading the board?

Am I the only idiot that does not get it? This is rhetorical. No need to answer the last question.

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A good chica is like a good carpenter - No wood gets wasted!!!

I haven't read every single entry on this thread but I simply never bring up CRT with the chicas. Yes, some have brought it up to me and I usually say I've met many good friends through the board and leave it at that.

I'm on the side of not showing the site to chicas simply because I still cannot figure out what good could come from it. How does the acess of chicas help us who are a part of this board? yea, I dunno either.

Because I never know who might show who to what is why I cut out details in my TP's and never mention price, performance etc..


Why do I care? Because things have been pretty sweet for me down there to say the least and obviously I wouldn't want that to change over some drama..

Cujo

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I concur with this. The odds are you meet them in a place known for working girls. Whether the establishment is a MP, the SL, HDR or some place else, odds are you were out mongering. She knows it and you know it. She either likes you or not. I don't see if she wants to read this board, which is free which is available to her by simply signing up is going to make a difference. Lets be really honest and admit that most of the topics in the VIP section aren't ground breaking either so what you get for free is 90% of the site.

As BangBang pointed out already, some already know about it so why bother trying to hide it. For the ones that ask me about it I tell them they can freely look at the site if they want and they aren't getting my login. That alone is the usual deterrent because they are either lazy about taking the few minutes to sign up or their English isn't good enough to stumble through the site. This isn't a knock on a girl, it's reality. When I come across Spanish sites I tend to skip them because while I can read Spanish I'm not great at it so its too much of a hassle.

Just my thoughts. I respect the rules of the board but I do find it interesting that guys are so against a girl reading the site.

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Look at this thread ... CRT Hall of Fame... Well except Cujo and Spanky where are ye my brothers?

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This is the age of social media and nothing put in writing on the internet is private. CRT is a public site open for all to see. This is not a secret brotherhood by any means. The site gives information for all that want to know. It is open to the guys, girls, police, politicians. and the world. It can be a double edged sword. It can help many with information about what is going on in San Jose and it can give information to your enemies or the other side about what is going on. Sometimes sites like this can also hurt what you like doing the most. Too much information is not always a good thing.

so nice of you to include yourself in the HOF

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