Spur1 wrote:
Lee,
It may be a RFM in the making and the suggestion that $3000 needs to be in the account has kinda surfaced...and I am not buying it. But in defense of the Novia, she has a permanent job and three K*ds with every intention of returning. That should be more compelling in any USA visitor visa interview. My contribution, if any , will be a plane ticket with a Spirit airlines deal of some sort.
This chick is very cute, has her act together but having made arrangements for 4 great days over at Manuel Antonio on the last visit , at hte last minute she hit me up for an extra $300 for a babysitter and /with no subsititute Novia in apprenticeship or in the making I succumbed. Fabulous time of course but left a bit of a nasty taste. As did her wish to go shopping...thank goodness I used the assertive NO technique !
Lets see what happens and I will alert if I hear the RFM 'help call' as the interview date nears.
Cheers
I'm sorry man but this wreaks of a scam to get you to deposit money in her account. She "says" she has a full-time job, but where did you meet her? Was it in a P4P bar or over the internet?
The last minute "hit" for $300 babysitter is what clued me in. This was her way of having you indirectly pay for her time. In Costa Rica, a fulltime, live-in nanny/maid costs about $250 per month. There is NO WAY a babysitter costs $300 for 4 days.
Also... have you asked her why she wants to go the US?
I have gone through the visa process down here and failed. It is likely she will fail too and then the money will be "conveniently" in her account. Sorry man... you are new and this one sounds like a seasoned pro.
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