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Met this Tico Chica and asked to go to beach. We went but her brother came as chauffeur. Different rooms of course but I of course paid. Trip cut a day short and she says has to go home and then proceeds to have whole family over for dinner some 20 people including Babi*s which i have to hold. Of course I pay for dinner after being invited some 15000 colones for carne, drinks, ensalada. They are the typical poor here. My question is why for dinner to meet family? She keeps on saying me amore and is touchy/feely with her language, but is not the greatest at sex and doesn't put out that much.. if I go to beach I expect night and day. And now she wants $100 more to pay for some school/loan? Am I being sucked in or?

Sounds like she didnt do too bad. What about you though? How many times have you done her and how much has the whole thing cost you including transportation and food? That is the question to ask yourself. Whether it's worth it or not. As for the love thing, depends how long you've known her but do you really believe any woman that tells you they love you after knowing her for 2 weeks? As for her school loan, ask to see the bill first if you are serious about paying it.

I have known her about a month now off and on. Trip cost car $80 hotel mimo's(ok hotel including con. breaky) $60 other items about $100. Marginal costs included only. Come to think of it the BM is looking very good for the action! I have seem the bill for the school, it does seem legit. She said she only does what she does for her k*d and she aspires to be a cop like her brother and sister and I have seen pictures of them in uniform. I am just for a pretty face and some fun. Thanks for the reply.

It sounds like you are doing ok then. Especially since she give you sex. The way I see it, if it starts to cost you more then $100 a day and you only have sex once a day and do not spend a lot of time with her, that is when it gets too expensive

Run...................................

Davey: You did not tell where you met her, but I assume it is the Del Rey. If she is working the Del Rey, tell her to work more to pay for her school. She can make $100 in a day pretty easily.

I agree with Twarag....walk...no run away from this chica. If the sex is not that great, why are you wasting your time with her. We go down there for awesome sex with hot babes. If you are not getting that you are wasting your money. And trust me, mi amigo. The money demands have only just begun. Move on, while you still have your bank account.

Why did she invite her family to dinner and make you pay? She is a whore like Bill Clinton. He said he screwed Monica "just because I could." That's why she screwed you....and you ended up holding the baby. It wasn't even yours.

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Davey;
Like twarag and Astroglide says RUN LIKE HELL!
Hate to admit it but I speak from experience.
Besides that there are too many out there that will give you exactly what you want without the baggage.
LVSteve

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She IS in love .... with your money! Try telling her no when she asks for money or for you to pay something and see how long she keeps cooing the words of love. Expect pouting and/or anger. Of course the scholl bill's legit... so's her rent bill, her brother's car bills, her mother's medical bills, her papa's alcohol bills. How much are you expected to pay? Pay one and soon the others will follow. Where do you draw the line?...where it costs no more than what you pay for similar action back at the BM? Your total for the beach came to $240 for 2d/1n not to mention the nearly $40 you paid for a home cooked meal and the $100 request beyond that. I don't know how Kotigre does his math but it sounds to me like you already overpaid. You shelled out as much for mediocre sex with someone who doesn't put out much as you could have paid for a much more straightforward girl to have incredibly hot sex several times in the same period...and the BM girl wouldn't come with as much emotional baggage. I hope you really like just hanging out with this girl.

The reason this girl invited you to meet her whole family and spouts words of love despite barely knowing you is because she hopes you will become a long term meal-ticket and not just a short-term vacation romance like you see her as.

Take those god-damned blinders off, boy, before its too late. Wake up and smell the coffee. If someone like Astroglide of ALL members tells you to run away from a novia, then you better listen to him.

This is just a leeetle taste of what is to come.

It appears to me that you are seeking a relationship without any knowledge of this culture or understanding of what is coming your way.
Just the fact that you need to consult this board on what to do causes me concerns here.

Ask Vegas Bob.. he constantly gives advice that very few ever listen too.

Davey,Davey,Davey I am having a little trouble believing what you have written. I have one question to ask of you before adding any advice along with my astute brethren. Did you hurt yourself when you fell off the turnip truck?? Playing with chicas is very much like a game.The problem is that the chicas play it for survival and the Gringos play it for fun. "They are better at the game than we are" They do it fulltime. The way you are being played,you can expect calls from 100 of her closest friends professing their undying devotion to you without ever meeting you.

Sorry double post

It’s fun for us to believe that these young women love us for our looks, charm and innate goodness. That is the fantasy for which we pay good money. The analytical side of my brain knows it is only fantasy. The emotional side of my brain enjoys the experience. If either side dominates the other, I’m in trouble because I’m either not having fun or I’m being take for ride.

With every novia I have had, requests for money increase with time. It’s like they are pushing the envelope to find out just how far they can go. Each time, I must ask myself: “Is what I am receiving worth the payment you are requesting?” There always comes a time when I must say: “No puedo sostenerte. No puedo sostener tu madre. No puedo soportar tus ninos. Tengo que sostener mis padres viejos.” Sometimes they accept this and the game goes on. Other times they begin to withhold favors, and I drop them and find another.

I do not have much disposable income so I may be a tightwad compared to many CRTers, but in IMHO, it looks like you are paying out a lot of money and not receiving much in return. If you lost your bank account and income tomorrow, those people probably would not lift a finger to help you. However, I cannot say whether what you are receiving is worth it to you. If you haven’t been with a lot of different Ticas, you might consider trying another one to see whether you get more bang for the buck.

These novias are just like Ch*ldren. You have to think of them that way and learn not to spoil them. They are like 5 year old's begging daddy for candy. If you just keep giving them candy, they turn into spoiled over weight brats and nobody can stand to be around them.

Make them work for it. Tell her to earn it. If she really needs money for school tell her she can make it in one day working at the Del Rey. Do not give her money when you are not there, unless you think you are supporting her to keep her AWAY from the Del Rey. Only problem with that is that once they start working at the Del Rey, they can't stop. You don't need the Del Rey Spy service to tell you that they are going back. They always do.

So deal with it. Tell them they have a job to do. You will pay her for her services when you are there, but can't support her entire family.

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Davey-you should always pay attention to what Astro advises. I did and now my favorita always comes early,stays late(after breakfast),calls if late,works hard at keeping me that way,always smiles,doesn't ask for more $. The trick is JUST SAY NO.

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Thanks for all the great advice. I just said NO and suddenly, hell hath no fury like....good thing my spanish is limited. But the dinero was still wanted! Go figure. Oh well, it is off for more hunting and it will probably more enriching to my soul.