Orange is right, it is not the guys but what will happen on the return. It may not happen before the wedding or even months after but eventually it will happen, especially if the "guys" want to have a return trip in the future.
Even with the best laid plans and being under the umbrella of just an innocent trip to CR to see the monkeys and sh*t while having one last blowout with the guys, the truth will eventually come out.
Trust me on this - I have lived it firsthand. I have one true friend of over 15 years that is the only one who knows why I take so many trips that just happen to be in monger lands - and even he has slipped in a drunken state and let a former girlfriend (which is why she is a former) know I have frequented a lady of the night. It was not intentional but he lives vicariously through my adventures - his lifestyle is more open with his wife and she knows he has done it in the past and he just assumed I had told my significant other too.
Anyway Jenks if you believe that the whole "group" will keep hush hush about the happenings of the entire trip then IMHO I think you are just in denial. Now for yourself - you stated you are single and it doesn't matter but what about the others in your group? How many of them are also single, how many married, how many with girlfriends? Do they share the same outlook as yourself? Are they going to partake in any activities? As for the groom - have you briefed him on what goes on in CR? Not to say there isn't a host of other activities to do in CR but the monger lifestyle does indeed thrive in CR.
It is probably too late to change any plans now and the wives, girlfriends would without a doubt ask why the plans were being changed but I think you do need to address some issues of what will or will not happen with all members of the group before leaving.
On a personal note - welcome to the board. I don't know if you found it by accident or if you live a monger life in the states. If you are thinking of living this lifestyle then CR is a convienant and good choice from the US with many beautifull latinas at your disposal. But be warned this is a very addictive lifestyle and you won't ever be the same.
Just my 2 cents - take it as you will
CJ
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OK pero dos leches mi amiga

Sex for money doesn’t phuck a guy up, but love for money does.
I can't wait to go back and get phucked up again.