Zebra wrote:
I'm NOT in any LTR with any working girl....but I think it goes without saying that it never varies too much from:
1. Lots of money.
2. Lots of grief.
Zebra
You guys are such dorks! You all think you are so damn smart. I know several successful relationships. Myself included. I am with a former working girl and it does not involve payments and I have very little grief, at least not any more than you would have with any other woman. In fact, she treats me like a king.
The ones that are successful in relationships disappear off your radar screens. The last thing any of them want is jerks like you guys to know where they are and what they are doing when they get their lives turned around.
That said, most that get involved with "professional girlfriends" do get raked over the coals. If you are paying you are a client. If you are sending money you are a client. If she does not french kiss you with her tong down your throat then you are a client. Long distance relationships with these women are a joke. The vast majority of guys involved are getting screwed over.
That said, if you can be strong in the relationship, if you can earn their respect, then you can find happiness. But yo have to be here and you have to be the one running the show or you will most likely get screwed over.
TheMadGerman wrote:
You know, it always surprises me how chica's can't seem to accept "good enough". They could have a very comfortable life with a guy who is willing to buy them things, put them up, etc... but they always Phuck it up for themselves by pushing the envelope, seeing how much more they can get. They're never satisfied with what they've got.
Eventually, they push too far and the gravy train ends. Even the most submissive guy has a breaking point.
I've met a lot of gringas that way too. For that matter, I guess i've met a lot of men that get greedy in various circumstances too. I never understand it.
Thats right bro....... you don't earn their respect, they will walk all over you. If you are getting walked on that is because you are weak in the relationship. Latinas have no respect for "submissive" men. Men are expected to be strong and men are expected to call the shots.
Oh and by the way, if you are going to be with a pro, you better have have a idea of how to get her off in bed.