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From my experience,Latina sexuality is complex. On the surface, social norms do dictate convervative sexual behavior. However, behind closed doors, it is very differernt. We love that Latinas are uninhibited, passionate, a bit out of control at times. The same is true for monogomy- one's Latina will likely threaten to cut your balls off if you cheat, yet they also have a private and quiet recongnition of the true nature of men in general. I was with a girlfreind in Mexico City man years ago (here home town), and she introduced me to a freind of hers (gorgeous girl) and her date. The man had a wedding ring (good looking, older business man type). I asked how long they were married, and she looked at me as if I were nuts. That was her BOYFREIND- his wife was home!! Don't ask don't tell may best charicteraize mongomy in some Latino context, although that is a massive overgeneralization.

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I said hey baby, take a walk on the wild side.
Lou Reed

Well women will always be their hormonal emotional mess at times no matter what the culture. The problems I see most Gringos have are that they tend to hangout & meet the lower class Latinas thru beer goggled eyes no less IMHO. The ones that have little going on, little sophistication & they plan on attaching to their new found Gringo friend like a bad cancer .

In turn some of these Gringos that had marginal success with the opposite sex now have instant success. Hum wonder what happened here???? Some of these Gringos have deep pin up frustrations that I have seen rise to the surface when they drink too much & they are out of control. Then I sometimes hear “they are All Putas”…. Imagine that??? Sad to see a Gringo that has enough going for him to get to these other destinations & then "fumble" it all away when he has so much working for him by default??

I can say I have run with many different crowds in CR. The ones I really had the best time were the College educated Ticas that had a good plan for their life & worked at it. These would never think about being a P4P type since they had plenty of other options plus morally it would never fly with them. I always felt better with this group & they accepted me like all their other friends but I had the added advantage of being an interesting Gringo.

I used this wisely I felt always down playing it to the point of making fun of myself. Boy did that work well! These were really fun people that taught me more than I could have ever imagined.

These people really are not that much different when you can really sit down & get to know them. They do have better family values which can work against you in some ways. The nice thing I always found is don’t be afraid of something that you might think is out of your league looks wise. Many ticas do not think they are that hot in their way of thinking compared to the Gringas. Also don't forget we are different for them which is entertaining too most. Especially if you Speak funny Spanish.

They also have consistently shown me they have much more respect for men regardless of the economic class they come from. Many times the better class ones have more respect than the wild puta types IMHO. It has been instilled early on. Old habits are hard to break unless one gives them a damn good reason to break it .
Boy I can really say this has been my experience also .

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Spunk glazed Chicas are the building blocks of the universe!

Thank you.

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“Good people sleep peaceably in their beds at night only because rough men stand ready to do violence on their behalf.” And we are the guys that keep them in Eggs & Grits

A public note to Witless:

Sorry Witless, I was down in Guatemala having a RGFE, for Real Girl Friend Experience, with my college educated (as opposed to you) beautiful young Guatemalan.

And I am just getting ready to call my RGGF for Real Gringa Girl Friend, but sadly I feel I have to deal with your tired garbage;

Are you trying to say I can’t be in Witless' Club for Losers anymore? Gee how sad!! But again, I will adopt your level of maturity; Who died and made you god?

You’re right, I am angry. I am angry that you and just a very few of your fellow losers just don’t get the fact that you are only useful to the hot young things that you chase as a overweight, stupid and balding walking ATM.

Most of the guys get it; like D, Chi, MG, Josie and the vast majority and I thought you are just thick.

Then it came to me; I am goring your bull, that’s why you are screaming the loudest and the longest.

You do fancy yourself a real ladies man with the hookers and are probably involved right now in a diminishing returns situation with a local Del Rey Debutante. Based on the fact that you have already been through 3 marriages (3 time loser) you are already preconditioned to take a beating without complaint.

Too Bad, So Sad; but in deference to your tired existence, please go play with your would be gf / hooker, send her a Western Union, and nothing more will be said on the subject.

One other thing:


Yeah, no one is looking for advice on this site? Oh, so I guess, we should all keep our opinions to ourselves??? But wait a minute, then there wouldn't be much of a discussion board. Or, Witless, are you saying that you only want to read about opinions that you agree with???

Oh and BTW, The only source of levity is in your palm when you take a leak, you loser.

Damn this is one hot thread!!!!

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“Good people sleep peaceably in their beds at night only because rough men stand ready to do violence on their behalf.” And we are the guys that keep them in Eggs & Grits

Timmy,
I suggest you get counseling as soon as is physically possible. You continue to rant with no clue what you're talking about. You're responding to a post from 2 weeks ago that contained not one insult on my part.

You proport to be somewhat intelligent and enlightened yet you can't even maintain a civil discussion. Apparently either you don't actually read my posts or you can't comprehend them.

You really are going to pop a vein if you don't lighten up on yourself.

But if you want to continue insulting me, have at it. You've never met me and it's obvious you really have no clue about who I am or anything about me. No problem for me but I would hate to be the "cause" of your breakdown.

Hugs,
Wit

Dude, really so sad, same tired stuff, what were u doing checking the computer every minute waiting for my response??? I guess u have computer privileges at the home u r living at?

As far as counseling and breakdowns go, I am pretty sure you could say in all honesty "Been there, done that!!" I think I have a very accurate picture of you. Just think of me as your personal therapist.

Like I said, go send Juanita a Western Union and all will be fine, she won't go out with anyone else I promise.

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“Good people sleep peaceably in their beds at night only because rough men stand ready to do violence on their behalf.” And we are the guys that keep them in Eggs & Grits

TB this had been dead for ten days why resurrect it

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Because we have 37 pages on shaving your balls for crying out loud.

Because I want to post

Just having a few laughs with Witless, so sorry.

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“Good people sleep peaceably in their beds at night only because rough men stand ready to do violence on their behalf.” And we are the guys that keep them in Eggs & Grits

this is a story i like to hear. i was wondering about the guy who speaks fluent spanish ( like myself) or a guy that can barely speak and how the outcome of the relationship was. i hope and feel that if you are able to talk with them about anything and everything that you have a way better shot at the relationship working. Does anyone agree with me on that. i am 39 and am contemplating marrying a 35 chica from medeliin. oh how i love colombianas. she is like that christmas present you always wanted. i am hoping that because we are both in our 30's and i am fluent in spanish ( i lived in ecuador for 2 years and was married for 15). is it possible that this could work or am i just living in a fantasy world?

Like we keep repeating. Good Luck. Is anybodies guess weather it will work or not. Just let us know either way to either repeat or avoid your approach.

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A good chica is like a good carpenter - No wood gets wasted!!!

If I had to put money on it, it would be on the "fantasy thingie", the odds would be in my favor, in like around 100%!

Why do you have to marry her? Can't you just phuck without the commitment? I was married for 21 years and it was so-so. I was very happy before I got married, I'm happier now that I'm on my own again!

If I wanted a permanent woman in my life again (I hope I don't), I would go back to my wife or marry one of my old girlfriends.

We humans, specially men, tend to complicate things. Keep it simple, stay single!

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Beautiful and sexy women come a dime a dozen. Why a men would consider marrying a play toy, is beyond me.

Because each one of them thinks, "mine is different".

You guys are killing me. Here I sit in my POD in Kuwait, not drinking beer, ticking off the days until I go on R & R or I & I (for Intercourse and Intoxication to Thigh-Land Of Course) and Tres Mundos dredges up this old thread about watching Train Wrecks. Got to say, I still got to stop to stare.

Anyone who is going to be in Pattaya in Sept let me know and perhaps we can have a beer. I will be meeting a CRTer who doesn't post, but he is a good dude. So, lets keep the thread alive.

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“Good people sleep peaceably in their beds at night only because rough men stand ready to do violence on their behalf.” And we are the guys that keep them in Eggs & Grits

I would say it helps. I am not fluent, but pretty damn good after all the schooling and 20 years experience and I get along pretty well, but the other part of the equation is the type of woman that you deal with.

I would think that if you are fluent that definitely allows you a lot more freedom of action and there is no need to deal with the more Gringo Friendly sweeties, who tend to be pros or semi-pros.

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“Good people sleep peaceably in their beds at night only because rough men stand ready to do violence on their behalf.” And we are the guys that keep them in Eggs & Grits