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OK Idiot,

F*CK that BITCH !!!!!!

1) Get your ASS to Costa Rica as fast as possible.

2) Stay at the Sportsman lodge.

3) Drink, Phuck, eat and party your Ass off as much as possible..

4) Repeat as necessary.

Then you will find out you really are a lucky Bastard.

You will return with a smile that will never leave. Knowing that young hot latina's await you.

You will realize how bad Ginga's really are.

Best of luck,

The Nuck

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Throughout the history of mankind there has never been one shred of evidence that supports that life is serious..........
Don't believe everything you think ............

Sorry to hear about your situation. Hold off on the trip to CR...get your personal issues resolved, ensure your Ch*ldren are to be well seen after and figure out custody, alimony, etc. I am sure that you love your wife and this has to be extremely painful, but she created this so now think of yourself and your K*ds when planning the future. If this is going to be a litigous divorce get yourself highly competent counsel but be forwarned that if you plan to fight over each and every posession your lawyer bills you by the hour. Figure out what is important (your sanity, your Ch*ldren, your financial future) and what you can live without, and move on. Once you get a judicial decree (that hopefully gives you what you want) and your head straight, if you still desite then book a vacation to CR.

And like Berk said, if you're so inclined (as I am), stay away from the bottle.

Do you like the pain you are going through? There is no if, but when you are divorced. When a woman cheats on you then it's over. Do not try to get her back, you might not realize this now but you do not want her back. She will put you through more pain because she does not love you. She obviously cares about you but does not nor will she ever love you again. This is a nasty feeling but once you have it in your mind then at least you are on solid emotional ground. Trailorpark hit a home run with his advice. Self improvement is your best friend right now, along with hanging out with your friends as well. Save the trip to CR for when the divorce is over as a present for yourself. This gives you something to look forward to. and oh boy it is great!

You have my deepest sympathy. Keep in mind that you can not trust yourself mentaly for quite some time and always think out everything you are doing.

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Major General Tica Tang

Take your first trip to Costa Rica as soon as you can. You will have a great time and you will be ready to move on. After you experience the chicas here, your dependance on her will be gone. Right now you have only experienced her and having other chicas will change that. CR is the perfect cure for you.

Idiot please change your name -it should be called soon to be" liberated one"

same thing happend to me but my Ch*ld was a baby .its been 9 years and Im almost getting used to not living with her .the good thing is your K*ds are young so it wont impact them as much .they will adjust to the holiday and weekend K*D swap.

It took most of my friends 1 year to recover full emotionally ,financially depends on your case .do the right thing stay cool dont react and she wont let the claws out hopefully ... this site is crawling with cheaters and victims you can get alot of advice here . The trip to CR will be heartwarming but as I posted earlier will raise the Bar forever .yesterdays Filet mignon will look like leftover chinese food

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I don't drink milk often ..but when I do it's dos tetas ..stay Horney my friends

Id pick up a "Spanish in 10 minutes a day", book a flight to CR right away. The experience will open your eyes so that you can realize that there are other options and hopefully carry you through the upcoming divorce. You will feel like you have a pair of aces up your sleeve.

My Friend

Divorce is very difficult no matter what the circumstances. I agree with other posters. Lay off alcohol, excercise, eat well, and be patient.
It will take time to recover!

I do not think a trip to CR is the answer. You need time to get yourself together first and above all, the K*ds are the most important.

Also, do not "date" at all now. You don't need any relationship to compound your problems. Just socialize with friends and do not bring anyone new into your life right now

King Costa

as a attorney who does divorce work,any affairs, has no bearing on the divorce settlement at all if that answers your question.

All I can say is go to Costa Rica before the divorce. F*ck her. Spend money on some pu*sy and go home with the biggest smile on your face that she has ever seen.

I agree with JerseyGringo about your screen name. You are not anything like an idiot. Also, the reason you feel so much pain and anguish is because you were feeling so much, were so emotionally invested. This is a good thing. Please don't lose that ability or get emotionally scarred. You're going to want all that back in the future for someone (I sure hope).
Remember you didn't make a bad choice--she did in stepping around on you.

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"A man accustomed to hear only the echo of his own sentiments, soon bars all the common avenues of delight, and has no part in the general gratification of mankind"--Dr. Johnson
"Amen, brother"-ED

Hey Man,

I'm sure you feel deceived and betrayed.
And your confused and pissed-off...
This is normal.....

You said,

Everyone is different and deal with things in in there own way.

But the consensus is do what is good for you as you are no good for anyone if you are no good for yourself.
So do whatever it is to make yourself "good again"

Side note, Every guy I have ever known always feels great getting laid. Especially with HOT CHICKs.

Being in Costa Rica you will find other great guy's (CRTr's) at the Sportsman's & Dell Rey that you can party with will do you a boatload of good !!!!

Tha Nuck

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Throughout the history of mankind there has never been one shred of evidence that supports that life is serious..........
Don't believe everything you think ............

You need to get angry. Take that anger to the gym and take it out on the weights. In 3 to 6 month you will find a different person resides in your body(so will women).

Get yourself an 8 x 11 glossy photo of your wife and tape it to the back of beautiful young chica and give her a good hate phuck.

I don't know if this will work for you, but it cured me at the time.

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Phuck summer! DROP THE PUCK!!!

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The Slut has a point. A little self rightious indignation does wonders. Seriously. Stop thinking about what she has done to you, and stop feeling sorry for yourself. It's over. Deal with it. Move on. Make the best of life.

It's ok to grieve, but you gotta get back on the horse, or you're still letting her destroy your life. Don't let her do that to you. She's already destroyed your marriage. You have no control over that. You do have control over whether she destroys your life. That's your own choice.

I am divorced, Take care of your K*ds. Always let them know they have a home with you. Even if it is at the beach.

She might still love you. But as we have both heard before. I don't feel that way about you.

Move on. But, don't forget she is the mother of your K*ds. Death will not change that.

Time does heal all wounds.

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Take a walk on the wild side.

They say the best revenge is living well. I believe in that so long as I'm between a few chicas.

Seriously, hit the gym, be well. The rest will fall in place amigo


Cujo

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"Pain is the fuel that fans the flames of my pyre. A battle plan is only as good as the general carrying it out on the field. This is my war son, and I have the biggest bombs and the smallest conscience"...