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Today I went to several public events in gringolandia... I noticed that there were MANY beautiful women there, and that, given the chance, I would shag any of these beauties. Now this is not news. I'm a horndog, and I really would phuk almost anything that was close to attractive.

The big revelation here, isn't that, it's what I thought next...

I didn't want to bother with them. All of them were too much effort to even talk to. I didn't REALLY want anything to do with them.

Yes, sure, I stared at a few asses and tits, but I didn't feel compelled to apologize for the staring, nor did I feel like I was oogling. I was just mildly staring in their direction. I was looking at them like I look at a nice couch, or picture. Not in the least bit aroused, nor in the least bit like I wanted to be with them.

They simply weren't sexy, they were too much work, and they were gringas.

I'm sure if they'd been swedes, or finish, or german, or hell, even english, I'd be motivated. But them being gringas just put me off totally...

Guess I've moved on... It was just weird. Anyone else notice this in themselves?

Yes, I agree with you.

Reality pretty much sucks even on a good day.

Good days end in y.

I have also noticed that in myself.

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The work doesn't bother me if they were worth the headache or whatever it is that most have to offer. Most their mouths do more bitching than creating sweet musical tones or even more satisfying functions....you know ....

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Yea QBF, I have noticed this in my self as well. As I was told on the board when I brought this up, "Welcome to the rest of your life". It is truly amazing the change that takes place in all of us when we visit places CR, Rio, BKK, & Europe. They say that there is a woman for every man in America. Well, the rest of the world can have mine. I am done. 27 years till I can retire and already planning on CR.

Welcome! to mongering alternative reality

I am not sure how long you have been mongering. For me it is about 10 years. I quickly came to the same conclusion after a few trips.

Why I think it happens.

How many STUPID conversations with out a result will you have when talking to a gringa? How many incredibly stupid things will you need to say to get a result

Plus I know I do not want to EVER marry another gringa so i know a longterm relationship is out of the question.


Now having said all this I will go out with gringas at home but I am not even worrying about getting laid. If it happens it happens but I am not driven by my inner horndog.

But my desire to chase woman hard and get laid now sits quietly inside waiting to get on a plane.

Same here. I took up this lifestyle officially 6 years ago. My coworkers will point out a supposed gringa "hottie" from time to time. I cannot even come close to being interested.The reality is for the monger, or for that matter any gringo male, the gringa is completely unnecessary.We have passports and know where happiness lies.And it is not anywhere within 100 miles of a gringa.

Thanks , between you guys and gay guys not stepping up to the plate it leaves more gringas for me.

Happens to me all of the time. The best is when I am at a party and some gringa that is used to having guys fall all over her starts talking to me. After a few minutes, she starts wondering why I'm not on my knees, kissing her ass. She knows I'm not gay, but for some bizarre reason, I'm not responding. Most of the time a gringa will start ramping up the sexual talk and unconciously stick her breast out a little more. Regardless of whether she is interested in me, she wants ME to be interested in HER. When that doesn't work they actually start looking confused. .

I've been mongering since just after my 20th birthday, so that's 16 years. I only noticed the change after my last trip. Usually I'm oogling the girls as soon as I hit the ground after CR (ok, I never stop). But this trip, it was quite marked! I oogled while in CR, at the airport, and then STOPPED!

I keep going back to memories of my 10 on 1, or of all the lovelies I did in CR on my last trip, or hell, even some of the skanky broads that touched me in HDR...

But the gringa does not interest me...

That confused look is priceless. QBF, I feel exactly the same. Gringas are too much work, they dont appreciate the effort. Id say about half of all adult gringas are prostitutes, but the gringa game is to get as much as they can , giving as little as possible. I look at the hot ones but im usually thinking to myself that I could have one hotter and better in bed for 60 to 100 bucks for an hour to all night. I ran into a lady I went to highschool with just the other day at starbucks. She used to be smoking hot, now she 45, plump, divorced, broke. During out conversation I told her about my vacations south of the border. she ask what I did while I was there. I told her I practice spanish, take a dip in the ocean, relax, have sex once or twice a day with beautiful women.

I do not know about you guys but between my travels to TJ and CR, I average about 3-7 days of mongering in a month. That still leaves about 22-28 days without P4P every month. Jack off my take the edge for a few days but I still need some pu*sy. Gringa, Latina, as long as she is mildly cute, she could be on the radar. I agree sometime you are pumping on the bitch and you wish she was a hot tica humping you instead, but you got to do with the resources you got.

Make it sweeter for my next trip.

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RAW I bet that went over well considering she is a gringa . I can't agree more with now she is over 45, plump, divorced & broke (wonder who she wants to fix this all now ?). The sad part is we wanted to bump them at one time & now we run! Gawd the women I use to see these men fall all over & now . Alot can be said about a mongering life style like they never get old, you know where you stand, there is always a better one, more cost effective, you can really do what you want etc....

All that said I still feel if you find the right woman they can be well worth becoming old with but Gringas lets get real .

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Funny this topic comes up. I was out riding my motorcycle the other day. Just kind of letting my mind wander. I love all women. Bar none. I'm like you QBF, if they are remotely attractive, I'd bang em. But I have been gringa free since 1989 and damn proud of it. Do I find them attractive? Hell yes. Some of the most beautiful specimens of the female species are gringas. My definition of a gringa is a white female, born & raised in the USA. I leave out Canada because Canadian chicks ROCK compared to what I consider a gringa.

I just can't get excited to talk with, approach or otherwise entertain the idea of hanging with a gringa. Funny thing is that since I have adapted this attitude the opportunities to do just that seem to be arising more and more often. NOT just with women of my age but those in the early and mid 20's! Even with my advancing age (44) and seemingly ever expanding mid section. (Hey, it's my fault I've turned in to a lazy ass.) But, I just can't find the motivation to persue it. I have yet to figure out why, exactly. Maybe it's that the worst experience I've had in a LTR was with a gringa. I don't know. I've spent the last 20 years trying to figure out why but, I just can't do the gringa thing. No matter how hot or no matter how much they give me attention.

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So much truth and pleasure in reading all these posts. The gringas have done it to themselves. Just started reading a new book "Save the Males". The gringas have brought it all on themselves over the last 30 yrs. with fem-nazi extremism and now maybe they are starting to wonder where they went wrong. For me sorry too late I have already discovered the other 3/4 of the world unlike westernized women!!!!!!!!

Just yesterday dissed a gringa-ized latina living in US for 18 yrs. because already starting off where I have to expend the lion's share of time and energy. I go 50/50 maybe a little more and that only fair.

Had a high school friend who wanted a photo and when I sent her one from CR with a 20 something hottie in Cartago well haven't heard back from her since.

Some gringas cool with it too. Have a very attractive friend who just went to CR with the girls and who knows maybe some Ticos "action" down there for them. I told her about Jaco's seedy area and she was cool with it.