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why are chicas in "the life"?
Poll ended at Tue Jun 24, 2008 11:22 am
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PostPosted: Tue Jun 17, 2008 7:15 pm 
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I make a HUGE distinction between acknowledging that someone made a choice in work and making any kind of moral judgement about them. These girls made a choice to engage in this occupation based on the circumstances of their enviornment and their needs and desires. Thats it. I place no moral value on their decision at all. I'm just not in a position to.

The problem is we come from a culture that puts prostitutes at the bottom of any moral social latter, so when we associate with these girls many guys either consider them low life whores, or idealize them as some sort of Virgin Mary (well maybe not Virgin) who is struggling to help her Ch*ldren.

The simplest solution (for me anyway) was to just get rid of that old world puritan thinking of prostitution as evil and dirty and just acknowledge that it is a job choice. A choice with certain consequences, but a choice nontheless.


Ditto. I'm not talking about a moral/religious judgment.

When I speak of "judgment," it is about who would I trust and rely on and have confidence in the most.

Kind of a slow day at work........ can you tell? :)


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Clearly, these chicas have a choice. It may not be much of a choice, but it is a choice nonetheless. No one holds a gun to their head to force them to work at the HDR or SL. Even if they're being "forced" out of economic necessity. If they feel the "have to" work as prostitutes in order to make enough to feed their Babi*s, then maybe it was because they made a bad choice years earlier when they allowed themselves to get pregnant by a tico who wouldn't (or couldn't) help support that Ch*ld. There are always choices and sometimes those choices narrow because of choices we made earlier, but ultimately our lot in life is largely what we make of it. Yeah, I realize these gals never had a shot at the top-tier college education that I've gotten and which has opened up other doors of opportunity for me, but anyone can work hard and make sacrifices that will make their life better than it would otherwise have been if they choose to do so. How many of these chicas are thinking ahead, that they won't always be as young and pretty and appealing to us gringos and so are putting away every colone they can for later? Hopefully, many are but I also see many fritter away their relatively easy gotten gains on the slots or expensive bar drinks. Again choices.

Does this sound judgmental? Maybe it is a little but maybe not as much as some of you white knights would charge. No one here was really saying that the choice these gals made going to work as prostitutes was a bad one given their present circumstances. Heck, if I had to walk a mile in their pumps I might make the same CHOICE myself. In fact, IMHO, if D2864 mispoke at all, it was because others were attacking him as being unfair to chicas, backing him into a corner, putting him on the defensive and selectively interpreting what he was really trying to say. I understand what you meant, D. If anyone is being really judgmental here it is you guys who feel they have to bend over backwards in terms of sensitivity and unquestioning compassion for these ladies and any other guy who doesn't similarly is just some sort of misogynistic judgmental cad. these gals are human, which mean they have both virtues and faults like anyone else. They have choices and sometimes they make wise ones and sometimes they don't.


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Man I was just thinking of a post like this. Maybe with a new twist.

A typical puta career path:

- Do most stay stovepiped into one area their careers (i.e. only MPs, or only HDR or only hustlers etc...)

- Or do they switch as they gain more experience, money, addictions, debt, drug addictions and/or age?

- And their appearances would constrain them into certain puta industries as well.

The whole study is quite remarkable. :idea:

For example:

Age / Industry

15-18 Local barrio nasty girl
18 Graduate to MPs, strip clubs etc.
19-21 HDR
21-24 Rotate between any of the above
25 HDR or similar more profitable means
30-35 Hustler or high end call out service
35-40 Still hustinling maybe even part of organized crime
to lure, drug and rob unsuspectings
41+ Over the hill, maybe low end MPs only until their long slow sad demise


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I do think I got a mental problem but there are sufficient meds. This is what lack of sex has done to me but more medicine in CR!


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 17, 2008 9:52 pm 
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CR is a very erotically stimulating & sensuously fulfilling fantasy land where sexual, sexy, & sex are still enjoyed by all. Right?

Bob says after three years living in CR he has come to understand a new way of thinking.

"Yesterday is a memory,
Manana is a dream,
Today is reality...

Let's all enjoy it.

pura vida",

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Jester wrote:
Man I was just thinking of a post like this. Maybe with a new twist...


...For example:

Age / Industry

15-18 Local barrio nasty girl
18 Graduate to MPs, strip clubs etc.
19-21 HDR
21-24 Rotate between any of the above
25 HDR or similar more profitable means
30-35 Hustler or high end call out service
35-40 Still hustinling maybe even part of organized crime
to lure, drug and rob unsuspectings
41+ Over the hill, maybe low end MPs only until their long slow sad demise


And the familiar time line we are base lining this analogy upon:

15-18 Teenager having sex for the first time
18 Senior Prom and Senior Trip and Senior Summer
19-21 College or Military
21-24 Masters or first job
25 I do! No I didn't?
30-35 First Ch*ld &/o other life changing experience
35-40 Making good money, have affair(s), 50/50 divorce(1st)
41+ Mid Life Crisis or other reason for life questioning, first trip to CR, soon there after make first plans to move to CR, or visit 10 times a year alll the while revising first plan now at version .pi square, branch out to other common denominator countries, repeat
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PostPosted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 1:02 pm 
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In my experience, C.R. has no Ch*ld support laws,or, they are like C.R. Justice, unenforceable. Many have told that the father(husband) have moved on to a new family. I asked a lady at IDEM who spoke perfect english , she also worked at an American owned company in C.R. about it, she laughted and said no Ch*ld support laws or alimony in CR. Necessity required her to put food on the table for her three K*ds. She was also looking for a gringo to marry as many are.
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PostPosted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 1:09 pm 
Ch*ld support laws are most definetly here and they are enforced.. but only to people with means.. since many of the males that just dont pay are losers and living from job to job..

but if you have financial means.. then they will be enforced. see what happens if you have a Ch*ld here.

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I have heard that support here is not more than $300 per month per offspring (have no experience to back that up).

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Dead beat dads suck, but I have to ask the question. The working girls are pretty strict about using condoms with all their gringo customers. How come they bareback and pop out a K*D with every tico they Phuck?


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From my completely non-scientific survey: They are good Catholic girls and Father tells them, "No sex, no birth control, no abortions!" Hell, two outta three ain't bad!

Many have their offspring when they are first introduced to sex, at 15-16. That is why many of the 20yr old girls have four year olds. Just my humble opinion! :wink:

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Dead beat dads suck, but I have to ask the question. The working girls are pretty strict about using condoms with all their gringo customers. How come they bareback and pop out a K*D with every tico they Phuck?


Because with clients its work and with those ticos its "special" :D :D . Seriously, several times I have had chicas want to switch from a P4P relationship with me to a novio/novia relationship and two things they usually propose is that I don't have to pay anymore and I don't have to use rubbers anymore. I'm cool with the first, but the second is a no-go for me. On more than one ocasion, I have had chicas that I was nailing for free get pissed because I wanted to use a rubber. My bet is that most of the ticos these girls are giving it up to for free are going bareback too.

Maybe they just wanted to get pregnant. Can't beat their logic. I would certainly make a better dad (willing or unwilling) that most of the deadbeats that got them knocked up before.


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The bleeding heart white knights try to excuse the chicas for choosing their line of work because they supposedly "have no choice" because they have Ch*ldren to support with no help from the daddy. That might very well be true that their current choices are severely restricted between having to prostitute themselves for lots of money on the one hand vs. having to work an extremely low end job that barely puts enough food on the table if they can even get that on the other. Given those choices it is not so hard to understand why they choose as they do.

What these guys are overlooking in their drive to be to be compassionate to these ladies they call novias, is that these chicas also had choices earlier in life that put them into the position they currently find themselves in. They knew or should have known how irresponsible tico men can be. They grew up seeing that all around them perhaps with their own dads being a first hand example. We, ourselves, can see it in just one short trip to CR and conversation with any number of these chicas. And it doesn't take any real genius to see what the prospects in CR are kfor an uneducated chica saddled with Babi*s to feed and a novio that walks away. And despite knowing this about tico men, these chicas still allow themselves to get knocked up by these guys through irresponsible birth control practices. That is a choice. As men we all know, it is the women that holds the real power. If they say to their novios, no cookie with out a wrapper, those guys may not like it but what are they going to do? And if the guys don't agree to that, and the chicas haven't already gotten in trouble by them, they should just tell them to take a hike. Granted, some of these chicas may also have been raped at an early age (by which I mean not just statutorily) and really had no choice about any birth control, but I'd be willing to bet that the vast majority of their Babi*s were not the result of any of that. Absent forcible rape, becoming pregnant is the responsibility of BOTH parties not just the deadbeat dad.


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