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Tman, I also completely agree with VB but I have not experienced the phone deal. If that were the reaction I was getting I would not make the call either.

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I just read this post and the first thought that I had was, who gives a shit if she's into me. I could care less, but her ass better be into these next couple of hours I'm about to put her through.


Geez, how many times do I have to say to learn conversational spanish and ALL your instincts, game, knowledge will shine through as they did for you in english.

If you have a weak game in america speaking english to girls as well, then I'm especially talking to those guys when I say learn the language. It does everythig for your confidence, sensibility, and you will be able to know and decipher all the BS when it comes to those girls.

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Good points Cujo.Your going to have fun either way but learning the language will enhance your time in Costa Rica.

While I agree with Pacifica55 that the original premise/conclusion is confusing, this is what I got from re-reading the original post.

If I solicit her contact number, I may appear to be too eager, which would give her the upper hand.

Last trip, a Colombiana with whom I had spent a couple good sessions *knew* that I was into her...and (mis)treated me accordingly. She was sh*tfaced drunk one date, confrontational and controlling on a subsequent night. I cut her loose...quickly.

I agree that once you've had some fun, you can *accept* her contact information...but in order to maintain an appearance of cool and represent yourself as someone other than a sure thing for her, I would never *solicit* her contact info.

Besides, if she's worth doing a second time, chances are that Pac has already done her, dildoed her, and discarded her...and still has her digits.

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It's all situational.. You'll know if you want/ she wants to exchange info. Exchanging info is not for the weak. You have to be immune to rfm's, calling too much, or any of their other bs. You have to control the situation in a firm but nice way. Personally, I let them know up front that I don't have the means to give them anything but what I'm paying at the time. After that being established, if they still call, I've slowly connected with a few and had friendly relationships. Sometimes just simple things like meeting for a drink or coffee. And even though I don't play the game near as much as most of you, I have been here for almost 9 years without ever getting an rfm. Keep it simple with these chicas and it can be a lot of fun....

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This was one of the best laughs I've had since joining CRT. Please tell me that this doesn't really happen!!

First, I completely get it that it is about money in P4P. I like that part of the game, no longtime personal investment on my part.

Having said that, today when I was stroking the young ladies face, she closed her eyes, her head tipped back slightly, and her body became very relaxed. At that moment in time, she was very into what was happening to her body. I was just the vehicle of the moment making it happen. I suppose if I really cared, I could have said she was really into me. The truth is, she was really into herself, and the bodily sensation that she was enjoying. I was just happy as h*ll to make her really into herself, and what was happening to her body at that moment. The rewards are huge if you concentrate more on making her satisfied within herself, and not, "is she into me". Use that ego investment in satisfying her. The rewards will be beyond your wildest dreams.

Next, if you even have to ask this question, IMHO the answer is NO!!!

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That is classic, what's sad is that VB probably sees this all the time and may even attempt to counsel some of these pathetic men. Reminds me of the guy at ZB last month following Naomi around like a puppy dog while she ignored him, probably the guy she married. (is that marriage rumor even true?)

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That is profound VB.

It's natural to feel a bliss or attraction to a girl that floats your boat but what you don't know is whether or not she feels the same, and most likely she does not.

She might appreciate you, assuming there's good money in it for her but I would think that's about all you can expect. That's why you never overpay.

Da*n There goes what's left of my self-esteem