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Probably was embarrassed by the exagerating, drama and contradictory statements. Look at the title, the eyes of evil.... I asked if that wasnt a little over the top and I was answered ..... what else would you call it..... then in one of the parting comments he admits she really wasnt all that bad. and then all the sympathetic troops rally around like always to ENABLE someone who was trying to date a hooker and got played... hmm go figure..... Just waiting for the next tale of woe to pop up. tick tock, tick tock... who out there is dating a hooker and doesnt even know shit is about to happen.... we ll see

A disservice to the CRT Brotherhood.


PURA VIDA!

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well it sounds like thirdworld and cc have the drama part down.

Just a reminder as to why the membership does their best not to flame those that choose to date hookers.

Way back when this forum was in the making:

Frankly, I haven't really seen "flaming" per se in this thread. I think most guys have been critical of the removal of the posts, rather than toward the poster himself.

In fact, for the most part we're long on commisseration around here. There's been lots of "chin up, you'll get over it..." Hardly flaming.

On the other side of the coin is the fact that this scenario gets played out over and over again, even though there is a mountain of caveats here from guys who have already gone through it. Like discussions of tipping, ball-shaving, dress codes and bartenders, the topic of "my prostitute novia has done me wrong" is a perennial topic.

I've corresponded with LADiablo quite a bit, and I assure you that he's a bright guy...but even those of us smart enough not to fall for the traps still seem to manage to step right into the snares.

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EC - you are right. I was explaining why there was no flaming... why the rallying around.

I've seen it where some are in wonderment as to why guys get support in this forum rather than flamed.

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I like hearing the personal stories. All of them are not exactly the same so it is interesting.... better than anything even Hollywood can dream up. What's better than real life?

I agree, and I feel for the guy. But to put up all these posts and threads and have all this discussion to remove because his catharsis is complete, wastes everybody's time and removes the potential to help another guy or even a newcomer avoid these traps.

PS Regarding Novias, I have a thread up there illustrating how easy it is to get wrapped in it no matter how well you "know the game."

PURA VIDA!

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truly no one needs to feel sorry for me.
in my first post i addressed it as possible therapy in the moment.
i liked this girl a lot and was blown away by the situation.
but i never had serious thoughts that she was only for me.
she always wanted me to believe she was solo para mi, but
my nicknames for her were diabla and mentirosa.
i just had no idea she had actually married someone to get to me.
the fact that she was still working was no real surprise.
and thats why i see no reason to hate on her.
she never did anything but take care of me. and it matters not whether anyone finds it believable but money was not exchanging between us nor has it for quite a while.
it would be nice if every one of these stories fit into a neat little package everyone can nod their head to and say "yeah like that", but the truth is every situation is different.
i do not think my story is that unique or remarkable and their are too many similarities in her and the other stories about these girls for me to say "she is different". but it is MY story,
and in retrospect i have no issues with her. she didn't do damage to me. just lied. kind of hard for me to get all upset at someone lying to me at this point in life.
let someone who has been skewered by her post the pain they experienced at her hands.
i'm not that guy. why is that so hard to understand?

LaDiablo,

I, for one, would request that you stop posting more info to this thread. If you are just going to delete in the future at your leisure, we do not need to respond only to have you make us look foolish. I would never flame on the experience you had but it sucks that you feel that you can write things, get responses and then willy-nilly delete them. I have quoted above just in case you decide to erase the post that I am responding to.

Have a Great Day,

I would recommend that anyone responding to a post by LaDiablo quote his post so that your post makes sense.

Like I said guys, look, EVIL in capital letters. Now look at the last post he wrote.

oh, ok guys...heres to hoping you have a similar experience and have judgemental people cast aspersions upon your character with no knowledge of you personally.
ah, but that would never happen because you would never have the nerve to write about it in the first place.
and if you did you coudn't string five words together.
some of you don't even have the balls to correspond instead choosing to write pithy little quotes to justify your stance.
good for you, i could give a Phuck less what you think of me.
stop hating on people already

LaDiablo,

Wow. Your post does not make sense to me and I do not know if you meant it towards me or not. Your threads, IMHO, have been treated for the most parft postively and almost everyone appreciated your writing it because it serves to teach others. Why are you going all negative? I am negative towards your deleting of the threads. That does not need the diatribe above.

Anyway, for me, if I respond to any post that you make, I will quote it. That way, posters will know what I am responding to.

Have a Great Day,

Dave

I have added a new post titled "My Wife Has Got Game"
It contains the below information.

I've sat back and watched everyone rip into LaDiablo. Please cut this guy some slack. He was lied to and evidently hurt when he posted. He needed to vent and writing was his way to do so.

She lied to him, but really played a scam on me. I met Ingrid when she was only 3 months workiing at ZB. She seemed sweet and innocent. Had a session and could tell she had not been in the business for long. She stated she was workiing to save up enough money to start a salon with her mom. That time I spent two weeks with her and really fell for her beauty and personality. During this trip I met her family and relatives. Soon afterwards I kicked her enough money to start her business. I have known other women that got out and have done well for themselves in this manner. I really liked this girl and wanted her to succeed in life.

It was during the initial trip that we went to Coronado to visit her aunt. I fell for the cool climate and mountain views. I had been coming to CR since 2003 and had finally found a place I want to live someday. Ingrid also stated that Coronado was her favorite place and wanted to live there also in the future. Two trips later to CR and I was the owner of half and acre in Coronado. Ingrid and myself spent a day looking at properties in the area, before deciding on the perfect spot to build our future home. Somehow marriage came up and it sounded pretty good. She would live in CR with her family and study Architecture at the University. I would fly down and see her every 3 months or so. Of course, I would flip the bill for school. After all, she was my wife and I wanted her to succeed in life.

We were married on 13 October 2007 in San Jose at the Best Western in Irazu. She looked so beautiful in her white dress. And of course I looked quite handsome myself. I think I had a few beers by then. The wedding turned out great. Approximately 40 people showed up. Everyone had enough to eat and drink. My good friend Russell Martin gave the toast. We are still friends by the way! The next day all the family and myself brought the wedding flowers to the church in Cartago. Several days later we enjoyed a nice honeymoon at Paradisus Conchul Resort. Spent 17 days this time and really hated to leave my wife behind.

She decided to apply for a Tourist Visa, so she could visit me in the States. On Dec 3rd, she call crying and stated she had been turned down. I felt so bad for her. I told her we would apply for the Immigrant Visa in the near future.

I decided to visit Ingird for Christmas and she planned on a trip for us to Nicaragua to vist her grandmother and aunt. We spent 3 days in Granada at the Hotel Colonial. Had a nice time, but felt something was wrong during this trip. I arrived at the San Jose Airport and was immediately met by a relative of Ingrid. They stated Ingrid's heart belonged to another man and that he had left just the day before my arrival. They also stated the only reason that she married me was to get a visa to see him in America. They stated she was a bad seed and had stolen a lot of money from them in the past. Also, on trying to obtain the visa she went to an attorney and tried to get my property switched into her name.

Upon arrival to the states I contacted an attorney in CR and was advised to hire a PI to prove adultry. So, since that time and now I had to act as if everything was okay with me and her. When I was advised the PI had enough evidence, I approached Ladiablo and my wife while they were having dinner at the Sportsman Lodge. I pulled him aside and explained my story. I just wanted him to know what type of person she was and what she was capable of.

I am just glad this nightmare is finally over and I can put it to rest. I was so tired for a couple of months and now its better. I can move on with my life. Thank goodness memories fade with time.........

I have said this before. Certain people have certain issues that predisposes them to do really foolish stuff that flies in the face of good old common sense. The "gulch" is not for everyone. It can be a dangerous place for the lovelorn. Hopefully, folks will read and learn.

Berk.....

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hey rey,
i disagree with the thought that everyone has been "ripping" into me. and i'm doing really well and think the crt brothers have been more than fair and supportive. i admit the first couple of days were a little disorienting but thats it.
i am glad to see you finally post some of your story here, but think it may have been better served in its own thread since this one is dying its slow death. we both know who got hurt here and i hope you move forward with the plans you spoke of. my concern is for you. i will forever appreciate what you did regardless of motivation.
words will not accurately explain my point of reference with you. it was the most unusual circumstance i have ever experienced. i wish you luck