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My only point is that there are noble characteristics of a woman that is willing to sell her ass to provide a better life for their Ch*ldren and that they do not have any other real options besides living in squalor. Some would say that these women are entirely self-centered, materialist and selfish. My point is that for a lot of them, it is a huge sacrifice that they are making for their Ch*ldren.
I have to agree with this. Many selling themselves are not classless women that I have met but are flat up against it. Are there other alternatives sure but not real good ones. I don't think it is fair for us to judge them from our shoes & all our options we all have. We are not in their shoes!
The example Timbones is using are men that hustle. They do have more options than the women do there. The men can dump the women & K*ds to go out & hustle much easier then a woman that loves her Ch*ld. I have seen some women that are divorced from good Ticos that do help them with supporting the little ones which obviously helps a lot. The Ticas I have seen do ok for themselves where also hustlers & had their own business. Believe me they work their ass off at it to just keep up a decent life style. Many Ticos simply have to live together with extended family to exist & they are even married to a decent Tico. They have to pool their money to do this.
If a Tica marries a Tico that doesn't help if they split up (more the norm there IMHO) & they are not business minded they are in deep trouble to say the least. Put yourself in these ticas positions where they have a Ch*ld & NO help at all & no money to start a business. It would be very, very difficult. I do have respect for Ticas that make tough choices & survive with it all. Imagine having to deal with what we see down there. The ugly ones better have some brains or it is a long life!
Sad to say but this is exactly why P4P is worth it for me because if you can truly communicate with them it is easy to cull out the different types of cases & find very normal types to have a great time with. They are smart enough & good looking enough to be somewhat selective in the men they rather be with. This gives a man a lot of room to work some nice deals out with.
There are always exceptions to the norm but if a Tica works for someone else she just isn't going to ever have much. They have to have their own business & this is very hard for them to do. This is what brings what I consider some real quality players out to the gulch. If it was easy for them to do other wise we would never see many of these out & about.
One that knows this culture well should realize that women are basically left out of many circles. Many have been brought up to please their man & not raised to be independent like Gringas. Like anything everything has its good & bad points. I like the way these women try to keep their man happy above all else otherwise they would be just like so many Gringas but it is hard to watch men abuse their privileges with this. I know I am guilty of a little of this myself but what I feel is not in an ugly way.
I still don't see the need to date a Puta since one doesn't have to look far to find something better. Why put yourself thru this? Making some cool deals without any responsibility I can totally understand.