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The deal is.....I don't want to leave the place until I want to leave the place: Does this mean I don't talk with the lady until I KNOW I am ready to go?

I guess I simply have to do as one suggested above and play MY game. What's that? I want to get back to my hotel room; chit chat or share a drink be in liquor or cola; shower perhaps....slowly get things going and just let things keep on going from there. I don't want to have "...ask permission...." for certain "acts".....I just want to do them.....(Remember, for me I have purchased the illusion of a girlfriend/relationship). However, I also do not want anyone hollering "MOLEST!" and next I know POLICIA is on me! Just looking out for number one and that's why I am posting here. Thanks for all the 2¢!!

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Just the Facts: When the money is in town, like a winter weekend night, the top tier girls don't make a lap before they are gone. Lament the fact that they can get $100 all you want, but you can't get a steak for burger prices in a sellers market. No long lament is going to change that.

The majority of DR/KL girls will go less than cien, some a lot less. On any given night, I wouldn't phuck 70% of the DR trade for free. A lot of the guys are like me, so that means we are all looking for the best of the 30% that remain. Work your best deal, but don't be surprised when she blows you off.

El Ciego,

Thanks, yes that helps with the pointers. My Spanish is passable and I found that very helpful during my first trip in late November. More than once it was noted to me by the lady that I was "...muy simpatico...". However, I simply am not going to go the "cien" route at all costs....even if it means a stunner. Well....cien for perhaps "toda la noche"....but I'm pretty budget minded. I recognize I DO have this problem about overly focusing on the dinero....but that's me be I in the USA, Costa Rica, U.K., or wherever. It's dumb, I know....I'm "working on it....".



You state (below) that you're a morning guy...so why demand TLN? Being a day guy, you'll probably get better opening offers at the del Rey as it is. I don't think eighty for a couple/few hours would be all that hard to negotiate, particularly if some kind of other activity were included (eating, sipping, gaming, shopping for something *you* want for yourself, etc.).


Steven1 continues:

What I found most inticing while sitting at the Blue Marlin bar was the overt willingness of the ladies approaching me to touch ....nothing "bawdy"...just the simple touch. I expect it's a "Latin thing". I

Yes, it is a Latina thing. Costa Rican culture is very affectionate in general. Men freely embrace, people call strangers of the opposite sex "mi amor" or "corazon," the two-cheek buss between friends is standard procedure. It's one of the things I most enjoy about interacting with tico friends.


also note I do have this issue about being in bars and paying for booze when I have better stuff in my own my stock in my room. Just not going to pay for Scotch at a bar like that. And yet, whenever I am at a bar, I must imbibe. Go figure. I found the Cuervo Gold to be the most "cost effective" when I was there.

If you really want to sip cheap, try a guaro and Squirt or Fresca. Also, nothing wrong with bottled water between rounds.

Remember that the Costa Rican pace of life is slower (a fact that can be maddening to gringos awaiting a restaurant bill). Your one cocktail gives you squatting rights for at least an hour, particularly if you've tipped the bartender a reasonable gratuity.
Steven1, hereafter to be called Little Stevie 1-der....naw...never mind....
At issue for me is that I'm a "day guy"....I want to knock one off first thing in the morning...this staying out until 1, 2 and 3am is simply not my idea of a good time. I'm an old guy, after all. I enjoy it, too. However, being the morning guy does make for a challenge. Any suggestions as to where to go other than New Fantasy or some other MP?

Girls begin showing up at the Sportsmen's Lodge at around noon, the last I heard. They once were coming in right at breakfast, but I believe the house rules have changed a bit. Nice girls, tranquilo atmosphere for sipping/eating/chatting and seeking ladies.

Don't overlook the MP's. If you're a V.I.P. member, check out RBC100's "Tico Bar and MP List," at the top of the "Bars, Nightclubs and Massage Parlors" section of the forum.


I've been thru the phase of seeing how many "hits" I can have in a day. Been there; done that. Now, it's all about quality and this illusion of "realness". Natural lubricant, not the jellies. Is it standard operating procedure for the ladies of the Del Rey and such to seemingly enjoy what's going down? I understand the dinero helps that along....


It's funny, but I think I've encountered more honest sexual joy from the ladies in C.R. than even with most non-pro encounters I've had here in the States. Lubricant? They prefer the water-based liquid types...but after some initial stimulation, don't be surprised to see her titties blush and her vagina begin self-lubricating. Of course, YMWV depending on your looks, game, sexual skills, health, etc. If you're a good guy who cares about what she's feeling a bit, you'll probably find a convincing GFE.

Just IMHO.

I spent some 4nights in San Jose the last trip and had two experiences: One at New Fantasy and the other at Muses. I decided today if I purchase the flight for the February 11, 2008 ten day trip which I have set up JUST to "monger" (the first trip was for property viewing up north and central). What to do....what to do....

Thanks for the comments and keep 'em coming guys.....

Ok...I agree on, say, a $70 deal from the Del Rey. Does that mean that as SOON as the (my) first climax is complete, the lady gets up, dresses, and leaves? Is it expected that I provide addtl. cab fare (I'll probably be at the Castillo)? Yes, this is typical unless you have negotiated otherwise. I had one little sweetie who seemed to be in a hurry to leave after the event, granted we were together in my room for nearly two hours. I introduced her to a couple guys and one of them asked me how she was. While I still had my arm around her, I told him she was great but left too soon after the finish. He took her that night and had a great time. A few nights later I took her again and had to finally ask if she would like to stay or go.

What about going to Del Rey or Sportsman a bit early and having a lady come with me to the Castillo and the Gardens to take advantage of their daily happy hour 2 for 1 drink specials from 5pm to 7pm; buy dinner there and then retreat to the hotel room? All good. Most of the afternoon girls show up around 3:00pm and seem happy to sit and BS with guys. One word of advice, when you decide you are going to take her, let her know and work out any details so she is not sitting there thinking she may be wasting time she could use working someone who is "serious". Most of the afternoon girls will go for considerably less than cien. I start at $60 and bump another $20 for culito or CIM, but that is just me.

Thanks for the kind words, El Ciego. I am already a VIP member and fully intend to take full advantage of the discounts. I shall study the map, but I'm a bit in the dark with maps given a "spatial reasoning deficit" which means I can't tell North from South unless the sun is shining!
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Find a wingman who knows the terrain. Study the map if for no other reason than to learn distances between places. Use the discounts!
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So many curious questions I have; like: Ok...I agree on, say, a $70 deal from the Del Rey. Does that mean that as SOON as the (my) first climax is complete, the lady gets up, dresses, and leaves? Is it expected that I provide addtl. cab fare (I'll probably be at the Castillo)?


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Depends on the girl. Say she's a Ciego "10," that is, a 7.5 with a wonderful attitude and a willingness to have fun and enjoy time spent. Maybe she'll want to stick around for a cuddle, a chat, a drink, a dance, her favorite telenovella or a second go. Some girls will want to split immediately, especially during HDR Prime Working Time (evenings before 1:00 a.m.).

Propina? Maybe... I don't consider cab fare (1,000 colones/$2.06 to be a tip...it's a gentlemanly courtesy.
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What about going to Del Rey or Sportsman a bit early and having a lady come with me to the Castillo and the Gardens to take advantage of their daily happy hour 2 for 1 drink specials from 5pm to 7pm; buy dinner there and then retreat to the hotel room?

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Why not? Hookers have to eat, too...and some of them enjoy a "real" (quote-unquote) date as part of the deal. Talk with her about it before leaving the HDR or SL...or Monkey Bar, or New York Bar or Key Largo....

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I'm sorry these questions seem so basic to those that live on this board, but the process is quite different than Europe and Amsterdam!

thanks for any and all help.

Steven1

The best seat in the house is by an entrance, BM bar being the best. You can see every one check in, if something strikes your fancy, jump on it, do not hesitate, if she is top tier she will not last long.
I missed two this past trip just turning my head and talking to my amigo, they were gone before 30 seconds had passed.