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There is a Colombiana that I met at Del Rey I have been hanging out with lately. I don’t really call her my novia, but in fact she probably treats me better than most girlfriends I have had. The main thing we have is just great chemistry and we have a lot of fun together. I really enjoy hanging out with her and she seems to enjoy me. I paid her for sex once and then I told her I would not pay her any more, that I would rather be a friend than her client. I haven’t paid her since. She comes over late sometimes and spends the night or we will hang out in the afternoons. I've spent the night at her place a couple times. Sometimes we have sex, most often we do not. She gives to me what is otherwise lacking in the monger lifestyle and I think I give her the same. It is nice.

The nice part is that I am free to pretty much bang anyone I want. Our only ground rules is that I cannot pull another chica out of the Rey in front of her and I can’t stand around and watch her when she is working (which I don’t care to do anyway). If I see her at the Rey, I give her a kiss on the cheek, say hello and go about my business.

She would be a great girl friend if not for her line of work. I have had few women treat me as well as she treats me. I am very happy with the arrangement.

The tico novio...who the phuck is this guy??

We’ve all heard that a majority of the young ladies we find available for fun & games in our favorite little banana republic have husbands or boyfriends. And the majority of these probably know and accept what their girlfriends/wives do or a living. I’m kinda curious to know a little more about these guys and what kind of mind-set they have that permits accepting the fact that their women are having sex with strangers many times over every day. And further, that maybe, just maybe, there is something to be learned from them.

In our culture, sexual activity outside of a relationship is usually the death knell for the arrangement. Sure there are the swingers, and I even have a good friend in the US who has been married for 17 years to a stripper/escort and the marriage has been a success. But obviously, monogamy and fidelity is the expectation in the overwhelming majority of men and women who engage in a boyfriend/girlfriend or husband/wife arrangement.

In my brief immersion into Costa Rican culture I am finding that monogamy and fidelity, while still desirable, are not absolute requisites for lasting relationships. Men and women alike will always find themselves sexually aroused on a regular basis, through their daily routines, and here in Costa Rica it seems, when that sex actually happens, it’s understood that it’s a part of normal life. Sure the other party might get pissed off, throw a fit, but life gets back to normal pretty quickly. It's not a cause for divorce and financial ruin like here in the good ole USA.

Case in point. I was in a local bar in one of the outer barrios of Heredia the other night. I was introduced to a woman at the bar. A few minutes later the person who introduced us whispered in my ear that the husband of the woman I was introduced to was here (in the same establishment) with another woman. I found this kinda strange. The woman obviously knew her husband was a few tables away, but she drank, danced, and wasn’t throwing a fit. Didn’t here of any consequences many days later. Pura vida. Definitely a different world here….but my question is…can we learn something?

Could you accept your novia going to work at Zona Blue, Idem or the DR/KL and banging our sorry asses every night? Sure the money's great. There will always be a few idiots that will send her Western Union too. Or would you prefer she had trabajo onesto and work in a POPS ice cream store for 10 bucks a day?

And of course these girls have feelings for their novios just like any girl…and you know that the Del Rey girls need to learn how to separate their emotions from the sex they have with us just like physicians need to set aside their feeling for their dying patients…so what’s the big deal if your girlfriend works at the Rey? As long as they have enough energy to take your leche when they get home.

Well, many chicos are OK with this deal. And I can’t believe they are all culo – boludo lazy ass alcoholics who mooch off their women… Who are these guys?

PHX

some funny shit is we think our country is very advanced
and CR have to follow when in reality our advancement is in technology
not in human relationship.

Bang Bang
The mindset here is totally different from the States. My first novia here was from a very prominent and wealthy family in CR. She did not divorce her, even richer, husband until after she found out about his 3rd novia, and even then the deciding factor was not "3 novias" but that 2 of them were living in nicer, much larger casas and driving newer, more expensive cars than what she and her K*ds had.

I was thinking the same thing. Thanks!

I don't care if my girlfriend works. Can I watch thru a little hole in the wall ?

A good movie that.........anything other than money.

She came over last night after she got finished working. The first thing she asked me was, "Did you have a woman over tonight?"

I replied, "Yes I did, how was work?" She said "Fine"

Then she asked me if I had taken a shower, I said "yes".

That was the end of the discussion and she crawled in bed.

Can anyone tell me, does it get better than that?