N2Tech
Sorry to hear all this stress.

Dude chill. Go with the flow. Leave the group, stay with the group. Have a good time. Think for yourself.

The dynamics of your group are totally conflicting.

and dysfunctional
Always a good idea to have room(s) at ground zero (HDR

) for the virgin trip

. As said in Apocolyps Now, "dont leave the boat". Sounds like the ZB flat for a first time trip is like looking for mangos in the jungle. (No dis to ZB, Eddie, NYNY, or the Koolaid Company)
On the other hand, you might suggest a fishing trip to the lake at Volcan Pavas. Best to fish from the bank. If you go take an oxygen mask for you and your best bud, only.
By the way, how did you get picked to be the social/travel advisor for this trip

You don't seem like the Julie Love Boat type based on your posts
Bottom line, find a hot chick, get laid, and relax. Let everyone else relax and do their own thing too. Your OP Planning is respected and no doubt apprecated in other, shall we say venues

. Perhaps in CR it is best to let the dice roll and see what comes up. Hopefully it is your D*ck again and again. Remeber the reason for the season.
As for the trannies, "if a man wants to munch on some hair, he knows where he can find it..." Charlie Sheen
