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PostPosted: Sat Nov 24, 2007 9:16 am 
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Kccostarica wrote:
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Generalizations and blanket statements are acceptable.


Some Generalization might have a level of validity, some more than others

But when it comes to the sacrafices that many of these woman make for their Ch*ldren there is a high level of variance among these women and the generalization are certainly not applicable.

While it might be "generally true" that it is always about that money (I have found a least one exception to this generalization, the chick just loves sex and money is a secondary benifit), the motivations behind what they want the money for varies widely, it is complex and is specific to each and every individual. In this regard there are many, many women that are deserving of a high level of respect, others are just in it for materialist reasons.

It this regard, generalizations just do not apply.


I could not AGREE more!that's right... I am agreeing with Kcc... please make a note for the record. :lol:

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PostPosted: Sat Nov 24, 2007 10:38 am 
I won't hold my breath for the next time.......... :wink:

It would be pretty boring around here if everyone agreed on everything.


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Intersting points...well done Berk and KC! Nice to see some agreement in the midst of disagreement. Lot of good info and views being expressed and that is always a good thing IMHO.

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Yes Berk and Kcc make a great couple but c'mon Prostoner how about an update on your love-life, have you gotten over her with any hot new prospects in your cama? :twisted:

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C'mon Prostoner how about an update on your love-life, any hot new prospects in your cama? :twisted:


Lay off of Prostoner. you just want the perverted details! :lol: :P :lol:

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No way I'm just trying to provide emotional support and brotherly CRT guidance to our friend :twisted: maybe he should try dating a bartender instead I hear they are very mature, responsible and would never cheat or pull any crap like a working girl. :lol:

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Yes Berk and Kcc make a great couple but c'mon Prostoner how about an update on your love-life, have you gotten over her with any hot new prospects in your cama? :twisted:


I realize that Berk recently came out of the closet, but come on, lets not get carried away. .......... :shock:


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Some guys live in dreamland on this board. It doesn't take the collective experience of many over time to see that. :)

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Again, I agree Berk, but we still have hope for you. :lol: 8)


I thought Costa Rica was a dreamland. If its not, please don't burst my bubble, I am not hurting anyone and if I want to live in a fantasy world that is my business, not yours .............. :lol:


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Yes Berk and Kcc make a great couple but c'mon Prostoner how about an update on your love-life, have you gotten over her with any hot new prospects in your cama? :twisted:

Read my post on the last two nights at Le Grillon. Look closely enough and you'll figure it out...or just PM me.

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Sorry my friend but I believe you've missed my point.

I highlighted/quoted the prior poster's "I find it monumentally ironic and hypocritical for any monger to evaluate any chica for a long-term relationship and decide that her former hooker status is somehow more relevant that his mongering."

THAT is the point I was referring to, NOT whether the"varietal" male monger was "better" than a male non-monger.


Oh, I understood that completely. I just thought it was hilarious that you tried to rationalize that the cheaters were somehow better relationship material than the single mongers. Hilarious! :lol:


Sorry P55 but I (still) don't see where I said or implied that.

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Gotta chime in cause, after all, I did start this madhouse of a thread. You both have points but gotta weigh in on the Pac55 side that making blanket statements just won't cut it with these girls.
There are soooo many different reasons and soooo many different kinds of girls that are doing 'the deed' now days it is impossible to write such a simple explanation as 'being lazy' or only wanting clothes or cell phones.
You gotta understand, once a girl gets used to the life she has when she makes double the average Tica salary, it's VERY tough for them to go back. Instead of saving money, it seems they just build up more bills to spend that money on.
Is it being lazy?? NO...working DR is hard work believe it or not. I mean would you want to screw you?? Not being harsh but think about it.
Is it for the K*ds?? Sometimes because they have gotten used to a certain lifestyle so now that is a norm for them and the only way a lot of them have to keep that upper-middle class Tica lifestyle is to continue to work.
I've found the reasons are multiple, change rapidly and rarely make a whole lot of sence. But if we look at this from their standpoint, gotta give them some credit.
For example, how many guys are working in Iraq?? It's all about the better money they can earn for their families. It's honest work (as is hooking in CR) and they can make more in a few months than most of their piers can in the states in years. Does that make them less of a person?? Less of a good provider??
No..these guys will lay their lives on the line to make a better future (or present) for their families. Much the same as the girls here. Should we be 'insulted' they do this for a living instead of something else?? I don't think so. So are the chicas lazy...crave all the goods the world has to offer and just do this to make themselves happy?
No...it makes them willing to do whatever it takes to make the cash they want their families to have. Don't see any difference in our beloved chicas. They do what they gotta do just like the rest of us.
In my time here, that is the one thing that really stands out. They are just like us with similar motivations. Just gotta try and see it from their viewpoint.
Just my two cents...not even sure it makes sence in the drunk state I'm in right now after a night with the boys at at CR strip club
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Sorry dude, the rationalizations, false norming and other psycho-babble contained in your post don't wash. Simply put; that dog don’t hunt.

Equating hooking in CR to guys working for the various contract firms in Iraq is down right insulting to those that choose to do that dangerous job. Equating an amoral activity like hooking to a dangerous, yet highly lucrative and honorable profession is simply wrong.

I really don't try to understand hookers, not do I try to understand strippers in the United States. The latter is a more analogous comparison than the Iraq contract worker example that you seem to want us to buy into.

I really don’t have to try and understand their motivations for becoming hookers. They provide a valuable service and I thank them for doing so. I would just a soon leave it at that.


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I know this is an older thread and it has been a a few months since this went down but after reading it I really wanted to first and foremost say. ProStoner I sincerly hope you are feeling better. It's clich'e but time does indeed heal all wounds. Secondly I support you and always will because you are a guy and guys ALWAYS seem to get the short end of the stick in shit like this. I am a newbie and have never even set foot in CR so take what I say with a grain of salt. I know the prevailing opinion on this board is that all these girls are heartless and decietful and that may indeed be true. If it is true I am sure it is because of their profession. In the end these girls are still human being and as such are just a seceptible to human emotion as any other person. So this is why I think they do the things they do. It is for their protection to be as unattached and as unemotional about clients as possible. If they were not then there would be more of the suicide that was mentioned earlier in the thread. It sound like to me that the self preservation mode kicked in for her. She realized that this was getting serious and that she was soon to be living with a gringo and just maybe she had feelings for you. Perhaps that is why on "the day she was to move in" this went down. Perhaps it was her way of protecting herself from falling in love with you. I am certainly NOT defending her actions just discussing them and trying to understand the motivation. If she was after money she could have hooked you for way way more by actually moving in with you and then getting pregnant. Or even talking you into marrying her. I don't think it is much of a stretch. I may not be a gulch expert but I know a couple things about human phsycology. I am glad you got out without losing your shirt and only a single chunk of your heart. The thing I think we must all remember is that for every 1 decent guy out there there are probably 5 maybe 10 that have just as much desire to screw these girls over in some form or fashion. Exact same thing can be said from the chica stand point. In the end what you have is an atmospere of mistrust on both sides. If she had no feelings or emotion in the matter then she would not get angry about it simply laugh. It is the one where feelings do exist that people (girls and guys both) get angry when it goes south. The point I am trying to make is that SJ breeds an atmosphere of mistrust and I can guarantee that no lasting relationship is possible without trust. You didn't trust her she didn't trust you. She felt you would break her heart (how many times do you guys think that the chicas have consoled an amiga because a gringo promised to get her out and then fell through?) I am sure it happens alot. Same as with the gringos and this thread. Again I am sorry that you had to go through this and my heart goes out to you bro. But a piece of me is sorry for her as well because I think she lost a great guy who she could have been happy with. Try not to become too jaded guys and remember: To procreate is instinct to love is divine. It is what seperates us from the animals.

I wish you peace and happiness ProStoner.

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