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Just curious ... Is it the brainwashing we get all of our lives about prostitutes being trash that leads some to say they are damaged goods? Here in the states if a guy goes out looking to meet a woman he usually goes to a bar/club. What makes these girls any different? They want the same things and they also get those things ... Free drinks , food , gifts , etc ... These whores have sex with plenty of people. Don't K*D yourself into thinking otherwise. The only differnce I see is that with a chica in CR , I hand most of the money to HER and in the states most of it is handed to employees of wherever I had to take her first in order to "maybe" get laid later.

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Well said. My strong opinion also.

I lived in Milan for 2 years, Munich for 2, been behind the Iron Curtain in the 70's.......some of these girls are NOT uneducated and are more "wordly" than some of the guy's I ran into down there.

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I think these broad over generalizations in this thread are just stupid. #1 a lot of the guys that show up at the Del Rey are complete morons. Many of the women are intelligent and well educated.

Of course the opposite is true of many in both groups.

There are many fine women that are stuck in a bad situation. Some of these women are just trash.

I would say that for obvious reasons, relationships between mongers and putas are probably more challenged than most other relationships. This has much (or more) to do with the guys as it does with the women.

I take exception to the notion that every time one of these relationships fails; it is because "she was a puta". It is NEVER suggested on this board that it is because the guy has never in his life ever been successful in a relationship.

I will be the first to admit that I am relationship challenged and I know damn well the vast majority of you guys reading this are in the same boat as me! The problem for the vast majority of these relationships is our own unrealistic expectations.

What is especially odd to me is all the mongers that are so hung up on monogamy. Monogamy is just not as big a deal in most other places in the world as it is in the US. This is especially true of Costa Rica! Then to top it all off, these guys get involved in women that sell their asses for a living and then have the nerve to blame the women when they fail to live up to their unrealistic expectations.

I have some GREAT relationships with some of these women. I don't expect monogamy, I am not monogamous. I know these women sell their ass and I don’t have a problem with it. I enjoy the freedom of the situation. I just enjoy the time that I spend with them and I don't take it any further than that. Over the long term, who knows what might develop? I would not rule out hooking up permanently with one of them, but I am sure not rushing into anything either.

...and after awhile those tits start to resemble fried eggs hangin' on a nail!

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I can answer that.

American men have been emasculated. We are the most femine men in the whole damn world.

Name another country in the world where the men are the ones worried about "relationships"? Answer: Nowhere!

American men have forgotten how to be men. Thanks the women’s movement and the phucked up politically correct crap that has come out of an overtly "sexist" movement. I ask you, how is feminism any different than racism? We have bought into the idea that women deserve to have a dominant role in our society and the feminist movement has done an excellent job of tilting all the rules in favor of women. The outcome is that in our society, men are expected to be like women emotionally, and they run circles around us in that arena. We are idiots for buying into it.

Ineresting discussion,
Somebody mentioned would Prostoner's novia try holding his clothes for ransom with a latino novio- well odds are no, either it's a test to see what you're made of or they only pull this childish stuff on guys they don't respect and consider weak and dumb enough to fall for it. (No offense Prostoner sure you are a nice guy, but maybe too nice if you know what I mean.)

I know a guy that married a DelRey girl. We all tried to talk him out of it but he was desperate, going thru some mid-life crisis or something and wanted to marry. She said she did too and didn't like working, but they always say the right things if they are smart, right? It took almost a year to get visa and they had a baby and are in the states. After watching I still doubt it will work for several reasons but not the ones I originally thought- that she was a lying, immature, selfish hooker only after his money etc...that may still be true however now I believe if it doesn't last it will be HIS fault... Because he is weak, lets her rule the roost and tolerates way too much drama and childish behavior. Women simply do not respect guys like that and we told him from the start. Making a hooker into a housewife probably can succesfully be done if the man is strong enough to not tolerate any of her nonsense and be the leader. Changing her bad habits and drama-queen behavior depends on the man. My friend failed miserably at this and now basically has 2 immature dependents instead of a family with a good wife and it his his own fault for not having the backbone to set rules and let her know what's acceptable and what's not. That doesn't mean being a jerk but simply being firm and in charge, women need, admire and respect that in a man.

Inow think if she didn't really want out of the old life then why would she marry, move to the US and have a baby? I hear that quite often DelRey girls are marrying gringos they met there.

YES!!!!!!!!!

This is so damn common among American men. The sad thing it is what has come to be expected out of men in the USA.

American men need to reclaim their identity!

The ideal for the American man used to be John Wayne. American men were manly men. Kick ass and ask questions later. Crying was left up to women. Men were strong and they were respected.

Now the ideal is the metro sexual and ball shaving is considered an art form. Sorry Florida, but spare me!!!!!

Isn't having a baby what gets them, most of the time, in that line of work?
IMHO, having a baby doesn't mean anything at all to them, just oops, another stupid mistake!

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Wow, it is difficult to put into words my reaction to this statement without being rude. Honestly, this statement says a good deal more about you than it does about these women.

I think it is pretty safe to say that the vast majority of these women put a much higher value on the lives of their Ch*ldren than what you are articulating. Costa Rica is a country that has very strong Catholic values (even if they do not practice) and there is a very high priority placed on Ch*ldren and family. From what I have observed these women are very proud of their Ch*ldren and make the sacrafices that they make because the fathers are deadbeats. In their minds the problem is not the Ch*ldren, but the fathers. Fortunately their outlook is a good deal more civilized and human than the one that is articulated above.