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This is not about Cristal. Some of you are sick of her, and I am getting there. But I did notice something happening on that series of trip reports, and a number of earlier ones. There seems to be a definite trend for a monger to be in one of the two camps. There are the GFE guys, and the LAL guys. The GFE guys are into the girlfriend experience, and the LAL guys just want to "Love-em And Leave-em." Nothing wrong with either side, but I began developing a theory I wanted to trot out here. If I am wrong, I am sure I will be corrected.
What is a GFE guy?
A GFE guy is more into the "experience." He wants the illusion of a girl friend. He is into the more romantic aspects of the encounter. He likes DFK, and DATY (for a longer time). He prefers two hours. One hour is just not enough, and 30 minutes is over in a heart beat. He is more likely to bring gifts for the chicas. He is more willing to get personal and talk to her first. If a girl wins his heart, he is more likely to see them again later, take them shopping, or take them to dinner. He is more likely to take her number, and even have a little black book with lots of chica numbers and e-mails. He is more likely to stay in touch after he returns. He is more willing to discuss his feelings. He likes to get into the girls head. He finds out more info about their family, and is more likely to even meet them. He expresses concern for their poverty. He is generally seen as a good guy, and a sensitive guy. I am a GFE guy (although I don't know about that last sentence). A GFE guys trip report tends to be a bit longer, and include more detail NOT involving sex, although intimate details of sexual encounters are usually included. They are more likely to get to know the chicas and try to figure out what makes them tick.
What is an LAL guy?
He prefers to love em, and leave em. Once the deed is done, he is not into cuddling much. He wants to pay them to leave. He is less likely to do them a second time. Hey, this is a conquest. Why capture the hill twice? Their trip reports are more about sex, and less about emotional bonding. They will do DFK and DATY, but not for long. They are hard charging guys, usually sharing their encounters over a beer. They might even be called macho men, but that is not meant as a derogatory term. They are more likely to refer to the chica as a whore, or worse. They see them as sex providers, little more. Generally, they have had some negative experiences with girls in the past. They are less trusting of chicas and their motives. They usually don't bother with their phone numbers or e-mails, because they have no interest in calling them. They are more likely to see every comment from a chica as a lie. They pride themselves on not buying into their stories. They do NOT like to talk about their own emotions. In fact, just reading about it here probably makes some LAL guys have sweaty palms.
There is nothing wrong with either method. Both groups want hot young latina pu*sy, so we share something in common, and find ourselves here sharing a message board. It does seem to me that sometimes the LAL guys get frustrated when they read trip reports and posts by GFE guys. I saw one just the other day. An LAL guy said "lets stop all this serious talk and just go back to having fun." He did not understand that for a GFE guy, all this introspection and emotion IS fun. But it obviously made him uncomfortable.
I have been picking up on this for awhile, but it wasn't until some guys got furious with me over the Cristal saga that I realized what was probably going on. Some of you LAL guys can't even comprehend doing it the way I did. It gets you frustrated to think that I did all that. Again...this is not about Cristal. I have seen this before, and have had GFE guys tell me they would never file a trip report, for fear of getting flamed by the LAL guys. They did not say LAL, that is MY term. But I finally understood what they meant.
I would hope that both sides would respect the other. I would suggest to an LAL guy, if you read a GFE trip report, just move on. It will probably have way too much emotion in it, and you won't like it. But that does not mean the GFE guy is wrong. I admit I was wrong in some of my tactics, and I appreciated the advice, but the name calling went overboard. I have thick skin (just ask Cristal), but most GFE guys are sensitive to criticism. I would ask the LAL guys to cut us GFE guys a break.
An LAL guy will never understand a GFE guys true motivation. It is foreign to him. A GFE guy will never turn into an LAL guy. But we both share a common goal. To score as much as we can, and that goal is the bond that keeps us all together here, in one happy but dysfunctional family. I would appreciate sincere comments, knowing full well that this entire discussion makes SOME LAL guys uncomfortable. I have avoided coming up with other analogies to this theory in real life...but maybe you can think of some?
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) This is why the unwritten rule of not doing a chica more than 3 times is a good idea to me.
Glide, good to see you back in old form. this is the kind of post of yours I used to enjoy reading. Introspective and insightful. I'm starting to forgive and forget the last dozen diatribal trip reports and actually look forward to more future posts such as this. I've always felt that your best talent was serving as kind of a moral compass for the board. 
