www.CostaRicaTicas.com

Something like that. Let's ask Florida. He knows several of them!

Florida???

Berk....

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Heck, Florida is out celebrating right now I'd bet. Alicia was (and will probably be again) one of his favs...
Amazing thing about the girl, I KNOW for a fact she was at the beach with another guy and yet she still won't admit it. And things are NEVER her fault. Guess that's another Latina lesson to learn.
And just for the record, I've had my eyes WIDE open the entire time. But after my two months with her during school and over the last month, I NEVER saw anything to make me suspicious. As a matter of fact, the only gringo that I know who called her was Florida.
Everything she ever told me had checked out. Even the one time she needed extra money cause she got evicted from her old house. I didn't buy it until she ask me to come help her move!
So I guess he point is, no matter how closely you watch, no matter how careful you are, you can still be fooled.

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"P"... let me ask you this. If your "eyes were wide open" from the very beginning why in the world would you date a hooker and try to make a novia out of her? That's a legit question considering anyone would be hard pressed to find on this board, publically and I'll bet privately, any vet of the SJO/DR scene that would recommend such an endeavour. You may have "played" elsewhere, but am I correct in saying that your first trip to SJO was in April of this year? That was 6 months ago amigo. Within a month you were hooked. You are not the first to do this and you won't be the last.

SJO/Hotel DR is an overwhelming experience for the first timer. We have all been there. I remember my first time. I was so overwhelmed I screwed the ugliest thing in the building cause she yanked on my chain first within 30 minutes of arriving. Ask Lee how fea she is. I confessed and pointed her out to him one trip. I had a boner that could cut diamonds because I found the scene to be stimulating beyond belief. Now I leave the uglies to Paco, LatinoHeat and Florida. They're happy to have anyone talk to them!

I never fell into the trap that you found yourself in, but I came damn close. I'm sure many of us have. I realized, before I fell overboard, that it's all a game and always about the money. That's what woke me up. I have been wide eyed and bushy tailed since then. I woke up on trip #3. I haven't slept since.

This experience now gives you a big voice to warn others about the dangers/pitfalls of dating and seeking a "love" relationship with a working chica. We all make mistakes. I still do. Every trip is a learning experience.

Berk....

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Mr Stoner-
I would like to wish you, as many others have, the best of luck in your healing process. I would also like to ask you, at the risk of seeming insensitive, what size clothes do you wear? My wardrobe has been looking a little shabby lately, and if, perchance we were the same size, I wouldn't mind giving your ex the necessary $40 to update my look. Mind you, I am not looking for something out of GQ, just something to freshen up my attire.

If it's anything like the clothes I've seen him in, you don't want them...

Pro, take that $40 and buy a beer at IDEM... I would have said a beer and a session, but it doesn't even come close anymore...

There is a lot of good advice in this thread.

May I offer up one suggestion.

Indulge you fantasies. Fall in love. Meet her family, play her her K*ds. Call her a Puta, Call her a Novia or Call her a Mistress. Do whatever the hell you want to do .......

Just DO NOT SEND MONEY!!!!!

(review of rule #2: do not expect monogamy, do not be monogamous)

If you can do just those 2 things,

everything else is fair game and you won't get hurt.

...

QBF, you buy the drinks for ProStoner and I'll take care of his session at IDEM...
I just want some photography help of which he is an expert...
Photo lesson for free session, what a deal...

Berk - Yes, my first trip to SJ was April. I wasn't looking for a novia AT ALL and was well versed on the 'scene' from this board and my previous eight trips to Amsterdam. However, when I met Alicia and spent my last five days with her, it made me think about more.
I wasn't really hooked on Alicia until I came back for two months of Spanish school and spent all my time on that trip with her. I was expecting something bad and was ready. But in that two months, nothing but great experiences. Then three weeks away and was back and spent another month with her. So in total, I spent over three and a half months with her without a problem or suspicion, and I was looking for 'bad signs'.
THEN she goes out and pulls a trick behind my back the day before we move in together. I knew all the advice, all the experiences and everything else but she was one very special girl. I think she really did want out but just couldn't make the transition.

Diablo - Don't think you'd want them. Only reason I'm considering it is because my best pair of pants and best shirt are among those clothes. Otherwise, I wouldn't even consider giving her a dime.

KC - I NEVER sent money. After meeting Alicia, I went home for a month and never sent a dime. After the two months of Spanish school, went home for three weeks and didn't send a dime. She worked during that time and I just dealt with it cause at that point, I wasn't ready to say "Lets see just each other". However, after another month, I was in too deep. Think your rules are about perfect...I'll try to follow them in the future.

Tony - I'll take you up on that offer in a heartbeat!!!!!!!

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Pro,

It seems to me, that after a decent amount of time of being legitimately pissed off about the whole thing, you might want to take a shot at playing the player......

Who knows, it might be a fun .......... It will certainly be good for your psyche.

After all you have been through, at the very least you should get the satisfaction of tagging that fine ass one more time, maybe two more times.

Whenever possible, it is always better to go out on top …….

In theory it sounds like a good idea, but I have seen that tactic blow up in several guys faces, especially when they still had feelings for the chica. Sure, it starts out as a revenge Phuck, but after being in that tight silky poosie they remember all of the reasons why they fell for her, and start to forget/minimalize why they broke up.

Next thing you know the guy is back together with his "novia". The guy's most common response is "It was all a big misunderstanding."

I've NEVER fallen in that trap... (more than 3 or 4 times).

Great point.

You are right, for those that are weak, there is some risk. It really gets back to my #2 rule: Keep monogamy out of it!!! If you are operating in the gulch with illusions of finding a monogamous relationship then you are at risk no matter what you do.

I would say that you would want to work her back into a rotation of women and then you run a lot less risk of letting your expectations phuck you up.

Pay her to do you and a friend at the same time...

then have your friend blow his load in her mouth...

That will get her completely out of your system... WHILE getting one las phuk.

That is a great way to get her out of your mind... My best friend was in a relationship with a beautiful stripper, not a hooker, and wanted to end it... So he arranges for us to go out to dinner, have mucho drinks then we give her 2 dicks every way possible... We executed the plan to perfection and a good time was had by all... He left her with a facial to remember...

It's a girl thing- and probably a guy thing too although we wouldn't know- to not accept blame and try to find something you did or didn't do to create the problem. American girls do it, all girls do it.

If you have any rapport left and you can keep it from being ugly I would try to hook up with her again if she still turns you on. I know you're hurt but if you can do it, do it. I wasn't reading closely but it sounds like some of the advice you were getting... Keep it friendly if you can.

Off the top of my head there's not a single girl I broke up with that I did not wish I could have done a few more times, regardless of the break up circumstances. In fact, stop blaming her and stop being adversarial if for no other reason but to get back in the saddle for a while. If it's a bad idea, my apologies.