Orange wrote:
El Ciego wrote:
Let's change the scenario a bit. You meet a hot woman at the local Great Clips where you get your hair cut. You date, it gets hot, it looks permanent. She still goes to work cutting hair, right? But she doesn't lie to you if she wants to work. You'll never get, "Sorry honey, I blew you off because I had family problems" when she gets into the Focus and drives to the strip mall. She feels no need to lie to you.
Do you seriously believe that's an appropriate analogy?
"Look maybe your method of [cutting hair] differs from mine, but touchin' his [hair], and [letting a man stick his dick] in her holyiest of holyies, ain't the same ballpark, ain't the same league, ain't even the same fuckin' sport."Why not?
We accept that prostitution is what these girls do for a living.
I suggest that it may be our Judeo-Christian upbringing that prompts us to refer to vaginas as "holiest of holies."
The whore divorces herself from her feelings. She has to, otherwise she couldn't have a "normal" relationship for love's sake, right?
She can, as most women can really love...but not with clients. Her private life is I believe, her private life, and it can never cross with her job for the sake of protecting her real emotions. Life is life, work is work.
When it's real love, perhaps her vagina does indeed become her holiest of holies. It is the vessel of Ch*ld-bearing and the source of pleasure for her, too.
But work's a different story.
It's manual labor combined with the jobs of actress and den mother, psychologist and sometimes, acrobat. Fact is, they (by choice) usually feel nothing for us that could possibly endure, beyond fondness if we treat them well.
I really don't see prostitution as being any different from other "body services," including massage and yes, hairstyling. The only difference is condition of undress and which part eventually gets shortened. So yes, to answer your question, I do believe that it is an appropriate analogy.
And I think it's healthier for us to think of it that way, rather than delude ourselves with all this novia B.S.
Ciego.....
with you explaination. I have DR Colombian hooker amigas. Two plus years now. Great friends and good women in matters from the heart. I was at their place everyday except one for the past week. We don't get nakked so there's no bullshit. We have had many conversations about this very subject. What you wrote is exactly as though you took dictation with them speaking.
Berk.....
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! The betrayal is something most of us have had to deal with at some point & I expect this from even the best ones that have never worked P4P. Even though these are bitter pills to swallow it doesn't make me a bitter person. That serves no real purpose except to make your life harder than it has to be.
