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I must admit....I sent 100. once, and I met her off the bus, across from the NYbar, had a special thing going, till I talked to her mother one nite phucked up, and started talkin bout prostitutes....Man, I phucked up, but in the end i probably saved alot of rfms!!

Never. This may sound harsh, but I consider every gringo who sends money my enemy, as someone who has lived here for 8 years and have seen the women become too spoiled over that time. Not just working chicas. Every chica down here knows she can find some gringo if she feels like not working for a while or just living a better lifestyle than what her job will afford. Believe me, I know what I'm talking about. I see it from the chicas side. They all have stories and are great performers at working it.

Sent a some $ but got it back. A friend I have known for years. I guess a loan though I didnt expect to see a dime. She ask as a loan and I laughed. Got every bit back. We have absolutely no sexual history. Just really good friends. I have spoiled her (i guess) buy giving her an Ipod, pefume, a lot of misc. stuff and I am going to get her a lap top. This is more of a give and take. We have gone out many times to dinner, drinking, movies and she has payed (at my protest) but it evens itself out. I have hooked up with several of her friends though so I have gotten benifits. She not a working girl though I know nothing of what she did before I knew her.
Would I send money to a working girl? No, a tip is the last $ she gets. I cant get emotional 1 hour at a time.
I do have to agree with Third World. Girls, working or not know they can get their hooks into a gringo and bump up the lifestyle they lead. Some come to expect it. Sad.... even the small town girls are getting harder to tame in the $ department.

Alright....I have been looking at this post for a while now....Since the lights came on at last call.... but I just got to say this, especially if you have seen my other posts.

Thirdworld...sorry that I am your enemy...I know you said that this may sound harsh...I also respect that you have been there for 8 years as I have only been visiting consistently for 5...but maybe we should never meet up. I guess you can consider me as bad as phucking al-Qaida....but the way I see it, all I did was meet a girl, fell head over heels for her and ultimately, pay for my girlfriend to go to college. Didn't seem that bad of an idea at the time. Still doesn't to this day.... (Didn't mean to make any enemys???)

She held a job making a whopping 20 - 40,000 colones a week yet I enabled her to go to school while taking care of her K*ds. (Enemy???) She now speaks almost perfect english, her K*ds speak english (un pequeno) and now she is actually learning computers over at collegio bostonio (whatever it is called) (Enemy????).

Even though we just broke up, I have no problem looking in the mirror every morning saying I helped someone go to school and learn. I carry a balance on my phucking credit cards and am still happy I did it. I guarantee she wouldn't have done it without me. Call me used and abused, but I went down there for over a year, and while making a difference, made love to the best lookin chica in Costa Rica with no regrets.

Guess what, I know I never will but if for some way I met another like her, I would put my mongering on hold and do it all over again.

Until next time, remember that beauty is only a lightswitch away.
Another good one is "Never phuck anyone uglier than your wife or girlfriend"

respectfully
KLA

Keylargoandy It all makes sense now I bet to thirdworld anyway . Thirdworld is probably on of the best friends you could have if you "can hear him"???? Most of us I feel all think it is great to help someone who is helping themself better their life. You have to feel good if you kniw you really made a difference but my guess is she would have found another guy to help her if you had not.

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Immaterial. Which one won't?

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Do not send Money

It's the same principle as tourists who feed the crocodiles and the monkeys on the beach.. They become dependent on it and think that is how life is. Don't mess with the wildlife in it's natural habitat. It is how it is for a reason.

Part of this is just living out life. I would hate to think I lived but never helped anyone, would this even be living ? The trick to me is being very selective in sizing things up fairly for all involved. There is a big difference in sharing, helping & being used.

I just wonder about some of my past sharing-helping deals how they really view it now (not that it really maters since it was worth it at that time )? Do they ever think about how you helped or are they just pissed because you wouldn't give more? Are they quick to forget you while looking for a guy that will give more? As long as they stay appreciative & like wise with me it doesn't seem so bad. I know we feel good about ourselves for what we did which is probably most important. The problem I would have if I knew I was played is I would just be disappointed in myself for not being wiser .

We take our chances no mater what but it pays to keep both eyes open ALL THE TIME & I don't believe in anyone stretching their finances for one knowing how most things play out but that is just me. Everyone should spend their money how ever it makes them happy. Happiness is most important. I just see so many guys crying over their beer about being played.

I still have to agree with the guys that say never send money since you are just to far away to keep an eye on what really is going on.

Thirdworld has a good point we should try to be thoughtful & not take away their survival instincts turning them into fat, lazy, demanding gringas no less . I see so many men that can't wait to escape the good old USA to get away from the gringas only to turn around & start turning these foreign women on to the same tricks that phuck up the women where they just left ?? Go figure I guess creatures of OLD habits ?

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Here's a thought. Be truly altruistic. Help out someone who you have no desire to Phuck. My maid for instance works her ass off, with a full time cleaning job and jobs on the side. I would have no desire to see her naked, but would love to help her out a bit when I am in a better position. There are a lot of deserving people that could use a helping hand, but not because you are under the spell of pu*sy.

Eventually the "S" will wear off my forehead. For now however I am not embarased, ashamed, or anything else about sending her $$.
I have seen the way she lives and know her family. They are good people and deserve the extra that I can send.

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First, let me qualify myself by saying I have never sent money.

That said, I don't see anything wrong with working out a special arrangement with a non-pro. If the girl is working a regular job and you are getting regular action, what the hell why not help out a little if you can afford it?

If you are giving money to a pro, and you are not recieving fair value in exchange than you are a sucker.

Respectfully, I do not send money. While I am new to the CR scene, I have done my fair share of travelling. And mongering. And I will never send any of these girls money. I do not care if they are a pro. Or a non-pro. I go to CR (my new vacation getaway) because it is convenient, inexpensive, and the law permits several of my favorite vices (women/gambling). I always have to travel with a wingman (or several) because I do not speak Spanish. It works out fine- I really do not know what I would talk about with these chicas anyhow. I have little to say to the ******* here in the U.S. It's not because I am not personable or am rude...it's just kind of awkward to me.
I tip for good service. But then I am gone. Can't do TLNs (not trusting enough) with p4p types. I am not interested in sending anybody to college. Or paying for cellphones. Or helping with rent. If I was, I would have Ch*ldren of my own. Paid for my last girlfriend's (gringa) boob job here in Florida. No regrets- she needed one and at the time I was fond of her. I thought she might be a "long term investment." Obviously I was very mistaken but fortunate to have realized it when I did.
It does not offend me if you do send money (obviously some are very opposed). I just wish you well and hope that you don't get burned. As often is quoted on this board...YMMV....

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