Amigo,
As I am just approaching the first anniversary of my mongering life (May 6, 2006) I am certainly in the "newer member" category so I'm disqualifyng myself from voting in the poll.
However, I am not surprised at your comment:
One thing I was a bit surprised at is though the players have changed a lot over the years, much about the scene (or at least our impressions of it) hasn't changed all that much between then and now.
In my limited 1 year experience I have seen no difference in the scene. Yet when I strolled into the Del Rey at midnight 6 May 2006 for the very first time, I felt so ALIVE. I was in a truly and thorougly foreign environment and all my senses were at full attention and it was such a rush. When I sat at the rummy table and some gorda with a cara hermosa played the rub the pene game with me - it was such a unique and different (and intensely pleasurable) experience that it gouged out a deep groove in my memory. I didn't session with that girl that night, but picked up another and at 4am at the Balmoral I had my first BBBJCIM in Costa Rica, and both these memories are very vivid and fuerte and I expect that I will wax nostalgic about them for a long time.
As I pursued these experiences across 12 more trips, the newness of the scene wore off, but I became more efficient at finding my pleasures and identifying what worked for me. Now I can waltz into town, know precisely how to float my boat, and do it, and yet since I am familiar with the scene, I don't experience the same intensity. I'm quite confident and content with the status quo, at the moment, but I suspect that I won't have those "nostalgia" feelings over the current trips and over time I may even forget about them, as gratifying as they are.
I think that eventually, one gets so used to a certain routine, that you start to go through the motions with less and less consciousness and feel almost like your sleepwalking through it. At this point, as the saying goes, familiarity breeds contempt, and you will no longer be able to get your rocks off like the good old days. Like building up a resistance to a drug.
(As in "ZB...not feeling it")
And then perhaps a paradigm shift is needed.
Pattaya, DR, Medellin, Rio, Prague, a novia o un otra cosa.....no se
So I agee the scene doesn't change much. We do. We as indviduals are in a constant state of "becoming", changing every moment. It's up to each of us to subjectively find new and challenging elements of this mongering thing (la cosa nostra) in order to keep it fresh, feel alive and continue to enjoy the high of the ride.
PHX
_________________ Why settle for just one woman when you can enjoy them all?
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