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I strongly advise you take the trip by yourself. Enjoy the chicas and all they have to offer. You will go home with a different perspective about marriage. Then you can make a desicion whether you want to stay married. The fact that you even consider taking her with you means she still got her gringa claws in you. You only live once and if you don't go by yourself, you are missing out on a life changing experience. I used to think that gringas are the only choice, but now i know better because of my trips to SJO

I say take the wife. Take her to the waterfall gardens, the hot springs, and Zona Blue. Get her into some 3-ways. Bring vibrators, gallons of lube, and Pamela!!!

-PA1984

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Sound to me like the strings are still being pulled by the wife. SHe will respect...and WANT you more...if you just tell her you are going...and when you get back "we can discuss reconciliation"...MAYBE. You'll figure out if you miss her or not...and vice versa. From your brief descriptions, it sounds like a relationship destined for the dung heap. Why postpone the inevitable if thats where it stands? For sure dont ruin a good trip to Costa Rica. Plus, these Latinas might be able to teach you a few things about what women expect out of a MAN...

Been there, done that...

Tman

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Yes, those American women can be pretty phuqueing demanding. I am soooooo over that crap. I am assuming you have ruled out the option of pulling up your trousers and telling the bitch to take a hike. Because you know, bringing a woman to Costa Rica is like bringing sand to the beach. If you are dragging along a demanding American wife, well it’s more like taking crap to the beach.

I have come to the conclusion that American women are one hell of a lot more trouble than their worth anyway. With a fresh perspective, you may decide the same thing.

Have you considered the, “hey I really need this trip to clear my head and decide what I want”. Nothing wrong with leaving the demanding wench waiting on pins and needles for a couple weeks while you are out phuqueing your brains out. Maybe she won’t be as much of a pain in the ass when you return. Then again, that is pure fantasy.

You know one option is to bring her down here and then ditch her in a hotel for a couple weeks. Just leave her her ass. Tell her you got hit on the head and had amnesia and you didn’t know who you were. Hell, if you need me to, I come down and hit you over the head myself, maybe it will knock some sense into you. I’ll even check you into the hospital afterwards, thats what kind of guy I am. Always looking out for my brothers.

If you dont get this fixed before you leave you can confess to your X on the airport that you have a daugher in Costa Rica you just got to know about couple of weeks ago. Take a "Chica" with you for a fixed fee for all the trip. Instruct the chicha not to kiss you or touch you in front of the X. You can then take small daytrips with the "daugher" to build up the relation. Tell your wife that you really feel you have to do it and she might give you "sympatisepoints" for it as weel.

Upside if you select this:

The X might turn around allready at the airport(Remember crocodile tears)

Ifs she dont...

Mucho sexo and will have a reason in the future to go alone on CR trips..

Yes, those American women can be pretty phuqueing demanding. I am soooooo over that crap. I am assuming you have ruled out the option of pulling up your trousers and telling the bitch to take a hike. Because you know, bringing a woman to Costa Rica is like bringing sand to the beach. If you are dragging along a demanding American wife, well it’s more like taking crap to the beach.

I have come to the conclusion that American women are one hell of a lot more trouble than their worth anyway. With a fresh perspective, you may decide the same thing.

Have you considered the, “hey I really need this trip to clear my head and decide what I want”. Nothing wrong with leaving the demanding wench waiting on pins and needles for a couple weeks while you are out phuqueing your brains out. Maybe she won’t be as much of a pain in the ass when you return. Then again, that is pure fantasy.

You know one option is to bring her down here and then ditch her in a hotel for a couple weeks. Just leave her her ass. Tell her you got hit on the head and had amnesia and you didn’t know who you were. Hell, if you need me to, I will come down and hit you over the head myself, maybe it will knock some sense into you. I’ll even check you into the hospital afterwards, thats what kind of guy I am. Always looking out for my brothers.

You really need to listen to this man!!!!

American women are very talented at brow beating the manhood out of a guy. It sounds to me that you have allwed that to happen to you. I've been there, I know what its like.

Time to reclaim what is YOURS brother!!!!

who the phuck is wearing the pants in this relationship be a man tell her you are going to CR solo that you are enjoying your seperation that you may get back with her 50 years from now

I agree with Green Giant if you think you can really deal with the relationship problems with all the distractions (Tropical Paradise) you're wasting money.

She'll do anything you want if you will reconcile with her . But for now she DEMANDS that you phuck up your solo trip to CR and take her along. Man if you take her,I REALLY feel sorry for you. Tell her that you still need some space to sort things out,and that you will talk about it AFTER you return from your 3 weeks alone. If she can't deal with that,then she certainly can't deal with the other bullshit she is promising you.

I see so much of my self in this post.

Being a man today is much different than being a man just a generation ago (or two if you are young). I gave up of much of my manhood, trying to save something, that I had given away freely. If I would have actually become a man and reclaimed my balls, there would have been nothing to save. I would have been in control, and she would have respected me for taking that control. The feminist gringas have taught the American woman to take men's balls. They don't want them, or know what to do with them, once I chose to give them up, and they are holding the power that they don't really want.

When I first met the ex, I could have cared less about a relationship. It was more like the old saying, "Women are like buses, there will be another one in 15 minutes." It drove her crazy. She wanted me bad. Fast forward ten years, married, with two Ch*ldren. I had chosen to give up my balls, that she wanted, and American society had taught me was her right. Then she didn't know what to do with after she got them. She lost respect for me, and I for myself. If anyone wonders about what the American male is perceived as, just look at commercials. Men are goofs, and women know it all. Years ago they didn't have a series "Mother Knows Best."

If you want your wife back, IMHO you need to first reclaim your balls with her. Do not take her to CR. Tell her that you are going, and will discuss other options about your relationship upon your return. She will have more respect for you than if you knuckle under and take her, which is what I read in your post is the MO for your relationship (which could actually not be true). IMHO, if you haven't been able to work things out at home, why would being away be any different. IMJ, it would just delay the outcome. From what you have written, I am reading that she is in control of your relationship. She doesn't want that, nor neither should you. I'm not taking about being mean and nasty. Just firm in the resolve that you are a man, and in control of the relationship. Women want strong men, not the wimp that I had become.

I hope that this is not taken as flaming anyone. It is more a story about my failure to reclaim my balls as a man until it was too late. I now have them back, and will never give them up again. It doesnt work!!! It does not give me great feelings to post my failure as a man. I would much rather post about what a stud I am. If it helps one man then it was worth bearing my soul, about my failure.

I belong to a man's group and see this problem with many of the men in our group. I have also seen men reclaim themselves as men, and the reaction to them by their women. It not only saves marriages, but strengthens them. My best friend actually enjoys going home at night, and wants to spend time with his wife now. What a blessing it has been for he, his family, and his now wonderful relationship.

It is through shared information that I can look at what is working in my life, and what isn't. If you are having troubles in your relationship, IMHO the first place to look is inward. If I hadn't given up my balls, I would have had a much better relationship that would be strong today.

Good luck to all in whatever choices you make in your life. Be the captain of your ship!!

Health & happiness

Santas Bro

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In my earlier reply, I tried to be funny, suggesting that the Mrs. could be fed to crocodiles or venomous snakes. The humor was apparently missed anyway... so I'll try a serious answer.

Don't postpone the trip.
Don't take the wife with you.
Reclaim your balls and masculinity.
Demand her respect for your needs. So far, all I'm reading about here is her needs. If you're gonna love her my friend, you better damn well love yourself first.
Do not delay the trip.
Do not feel guilt during the trip. Wallow in the easy sex, the cheap and good rum, the food, the language...all of it. Then return home and assess your marriage.

You need a time out, friend. Leave her to stew in her own imagination while you roll in the arms of a twenty-something.

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The older I get, the more I think the key to a great marriage is the ability to lie to your wife.

Go to Costa Rica, have a great time, and show her photos!!!

-PA1984

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Man o man , I have written several times about men today forgetting what it means to be a man. You are seperated but "she DEMANDS" to be taken on the trip. Bullshit. You are the man, you are seperated , Phuck what she DEMANDS.

Now that thats off my chest , reclaim your balls, take back your pants from her , go to Costa Rica & have a great time . If after you return you decide that life with her is what you want Go for it.

If you give in now You have aknowledged that you are subserviant & she indeed rules the roost, which is what I suspect you are trying to escape from. .

Good luck.

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Double post, Sorry , I guess i got a little carried away.

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