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I could not stop laughing when I read this thread. Ticas are so predictable.
My Tica / Panamanian mixed working girl "ex-girlfriend"/ "Novia" from last year used to always email or leave phone messages for me like the one mentioned in the thread. For some reason my novias son was always near death with the flu and very often he had relapses of the same illness and multiple episodes of the same results? He got better very quickly.
Oh! She would become deathly ill when he was not? Work was always slow. No gringos papi. Thres cien chicas trabajando n "Del Ray" anoche papi!
Escuela por el N*no papi? What happened to the Public Schools system in CR and Public Health in CR paid for with money not used on an Army or any form of Military?

I r a kolege graju it. "mami"!

I have heard them all! Give me one problem that a Tica has not mentioned or used and I will give up whoremongering!

No! Wait!

I will whoremonger less!

No!

I will whoremonger with less!

I will whoemonger?

Just curious... How often do you guys think this topic or a variation of it comes up on the board..... MONEY is what this whole subject matter is about....

Thanks to all for your comments, and I accept that drink! Some of you
tend to believe her, some tend to disbelieve, and some say it
does not make any difference if her story is true or not. All agree
that as mongers we can't "save" the chica whether or not her story is
true.

I like to get to know the chicas a little, but I am in it for the sex, not
companionship. The best way I can help the chica is to keep my end
of the bargain: to treat her with friendly respect when she is with me,
and to pay her the fee (often with a propina and a smile).

Still, I am curious about these young women's lives. What are the
real choices that they face? Many of you know how they live on a
day-to-day basis much better than I will ever know.

I think the odds of her having told the truth are 60%. I was trying
to figure out what her motive could be for lying, and I came up
with two possibilities. First, maybe she was just practicing her story
on me, to see if I would buy it, so that she could perfect it and use
it for personal gain on a future sucker. Second, maybe her story
was an excuse for not getting into the sex act as much as most chicas
do. And let's not forget that some people are just
psychopaths who lie for the sake of lying. These possible motives
raise the odds of lying to about 40% in my mind.

Still, given that she had nothing to gain from me by making up
a story, and given that her story stuck together pretty well, I'd
give her the benefit of the doubt, at 60%. But, don't worry, I'm not going
to send her a check. I can't even remember her name. I just wish her
well.

Vanessa of Zona Blue gave me a very good ride on my last morning
in San Jose. She told me her plans for retiring in a couple years
and buying two taxis. She has it all planned out: how much her profit
will be on a monthly basis. She has non-drugged eyes that
can look at you clearly in the morning, and she looks as healthy
as a woman can be. She sends her K*ds to a good school, and she
claims to have a good home. I like the idea that part of what I pay will go
into these future taxis. She and I have an agreement, and I keep
my end of the deal. I wish her the best, and I hope she wishes me the
best also.

What I am saying is that our monger dollars have the potential
to raise some pretty young girls out of poverty, one source of which
could be a dead husband. And it is my sincere
wish that the dollars do that. But, do some chicas go to the back of
the Del Rey and blow all their money on slot machines, and do other
chicas blow it all up their noses? Yes, of course. My viewpoint is that
I am willing to pay for good sex, and it is up to the chica as to how she is
going to spend the money I give her.

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I remember the line in "Dumb and Dumber" where Jim Carrey asks Lauren Holly if there is a chance that she could fall for a guy like me. Her reply was not likely, maybe one in a million. Jim's reply was fantastic, "at least I have a chance". That my friend is the chance that we have of getting a tica who isnt interested in money. Which is an improvement over the chances of us meeting someone in the States.

Toledo I agree completely. Some people go down and build houses to help out the poverish, others send food. I think my infusion of money into the local economy helps everyone out in CR. I am providing aid to a third world country, do you think the IRS will let me write it off? I hope so I owe them enough as it is.

THERE IS A CHANCE...best line in the move dumb and dumber..

11 days till the next voyage but who is counting the days

Its funny Ive had these talks with girls all over the world, and after working through the BS ( in some places it doesnt take long before you start getting truth ), they all have the same answer.

Do these girls want an easy ride into the future? Sure, but really who wouldnt? if you were given the opportunity to marry into a large sum of money ( in your eyes ) why not? Just to have sex? Sounds even better!

But for the better half of them, it comes down to opportunity. As average as we may be in our own eyes, and to the eyes of those around us back home, we actually have the ability to make a big difference in these girls lives. Are they using us in a sense? Yeah. At the same time their is some love involved in alot of cases. Like us they become somewhat attached to the dream of possibility. What if's and all that stuff.

All of these girls do what they do to better themselves, and we partake to better ourselves. Its a 2 way deal. We get what we want, they get what they want and its only natural for people to try and get the upperhand. When some dumb gringo starts throwing around money, why not suck some extra out of him? When some DR chica wants to give you some free sessions, why not take them? Their are no rules gentlemen!

Its all bullshit. You mean to tell me that she has two K*ds, no husband and hangs out at Key Largo (a world famous brothel) where she phucks complete strangers for $70???

..... to top it off you are only the second gringo she has ever phucked and the third guy she has ever had sex with, in her entire life?

Come on dude!!!!

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I also should add that about half of these girls DO have a husband. Of the other half... about 90% have a boyfriend. I even met one, who confided in me, that she is married to a Tranny tico.

If you get to know them long enough, they'll just break-down and tell you their real stories.

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My view on is that I can't expect these girls to use our donations to make a better life for themselves long term. If I wasn't a horny guy I could certainly put my spare cash to far better use for the sake of improving the world. I suppose I just do what I do because I can, and don't want to live my life fighting my natural male genetic desires and impulses.

True enough, a small percentage of the smarter girls can and do use the money to their genuine long-term advantage and build a better life. But most over time just stay lazy, have a babi or three who in 18 more years, if they are female and look good, will just continue the cycle to support the family and more babis with more easy money from relatively financially advantaged males like you and I. When this is the case, actually when I run into any woman of any profession who has K*D after K*D just because she "loves babis", this situation troubles me as much as anything as I do feel humankind's biggest long-term issue is over-population and continued population growth, where what is needed in the world now, given pollution and natural resource depletion, is population stabilization and even slow reduction over a long period of time. But that's getting off topic...

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I bet that the remaining 10% have a girlfriend!
Guys, in Latinamerica is very hard to find a woman who doesn't have somebody.

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OK, you guys are successfully breaking down my 60% confidence
level that she was telling the truth. I do want you to know that, at
the time she told me that she had only been with two men in the past,
I told her twice I did not believe her. What made me want to believe
her was that she was not using her sad story to get anything out
of me: no request for propina, no offering of phone number or
email address, no expectation that I would see her the next day
before my plane took off. In addition, she truly seemed unaware
of some basic sex maneuvers. HOWEVER, she is a very
attractive, fun-loving woman, so how could she possibly turn down
every chico who made a pass?

I think I need to do some research on whether these chicas have
boyfriends/husbands or not. With rare exceptions, they deny having
esposos o novios, and they say they can't stand chicos. However,
they readily admit to divorcios y ninos. Many describe their home
situations in detail. I have tended to believe them, but you guys who
have known them over time would know better.

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Toledo Guy:

You words come across as very genuine. I would imagine that you are a very nice man. I would assume that she saw that in you also, which seems to be a detriment when dealing with the "lady's of the evening".

Have you ever heard the term "slow play"? IMHO the smarter "lady's of the evening" use this tatic. While it takes longer to extract, there is more money to be made over the long term, because "she wanted me for me, not my money." Is this true in your case, hell if I know. I would use extreme caution in any phase of my life where others that have gone before me speak of a 99% failure rate.

A book that I often read states, "If I don't go within, I go without." When I am in a quandary about a situation, It is best that I go within myself. What is the feeling and what am I missing that my ego desires? The ego is a very strong force in the male species. My ego wants me to reamin in the safe shadows (not necessarily a good place) that it has created in my life. While it may not be a good place for me, my ego has created a vision of what it wants for me so well, that while I am there I feel truly safe and strong.There is no exterior source, whether it be a lady, money, prestige, that can change that feeling for me. I must do it myself. In the short term, I may cover the void with women, money, alcohol, drugs, or other sources, but it will never be changed by others or objects. True change can only come from within.

The "feeling" that you have about this lady is an actual physical manifestation. When you feel "that" feeling, it is best to go within oneself and identify the feeling. Where is it in my body? When was the first time I felt that feeling? Who was there? Where was I? What were the results? The feelings that I have today are my egos compilation of its very early experiences. For me, and most men, it seems the ego starts building the shadows between the 5-10 year old range, usually as a protection from an external source. We weren't big enough physically to protect ourselves, so our ego created a very safe space for us internally. As we age this is not necessarily a good space to be in, but since it's protected me so well all these years, why change it. When something happens today, my ego automatically reverts to the safety of the shadow it created many years ago. Hell, it worked before so why not now. Your shadows (ego) may actually be blocking you from that which you wish to attain. A question that I must ask myself is, "What is the feeling behind the feeling?" To find the answer, I must be willing to dig deep.

Thanks for your post. In writing this, I have gone within and found a feeling that needed investigation.

Just some rambings from a fat, old man. Feel free to call me B.S., Shithead (sorry Circus), or anything else. I own it all.

Off the the Nissan LA Open today for some fun and frivolity. As much as seeing the golf, what a trip it is to see the "beautiful people" of LALA land strut their stuff.

Health & happiness.

Santas Bro

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