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On January 16 I placed a trip report (Advice, Please”), talking about how, after several “encounters” in the gulch, I met Jeny at Idem and was completely blown away. I spent the day with her on my last day in town and it was wonderful. I was completely smitten.

I’m married; it’s an OK marriage and the K*ds are grown. I’ve been fantasizing about how to keep in touch with Jeny and so forth. I received about twenty responses to my request for advice, all negative – all helpful. I’ve been doing all I can to try to forget her. Now they made Jeny the Tica of the Month! I just saw the photos and was blown away again. I’m in misery (almost!).

Any thoughts? Any info on Jeny?

Can't believe the advice was all negative. Too bad you're married she's looking for the gringo of her dreams and will no doubt find one soon with that "personal ad" on the crt homepage. Place your bets!
https://costaricaticas.com/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=15371

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Living well is the best revenge
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MwUtj_YnNoY

I have no info on Jeny. I do have a little advice.

You should enjoy her company while visiting, but unless you plan to move to San Jose, you need to forget about anything other than renting her company. It should be obvious why, but fantasy often triumphs over reason.

What do you expect from her? Undying loyalty? Celibacy when you aren't around? Or would you be happy if she carved out a day or a few hours a day for you when you visit? Unless you are willing to abandon your life in the USA for a CHANCE (and it's only a slim chance at best) to be her only man, you're just daydreaming. Is daydreaming harmful? I think it can be. I fell in love that way twice, let my imagination run away with me. I paid the price afterwards when things went sour, and I spent months and months nursing broken hearts (yes, I know, broken hearts are for assholes).

If you leave your wife for a third world prostitute, you won't just lose your wife but your Ch*ldren will probably never forgive you. Are you willing to risk that for a 1 in 1000 chance with a girl you barely know?

And if you think you can carry on some kind of long distance romance with a third world prostitute, well, you can, as long as you don't mind sending money and getting nothing in return except your fantasy. If that sounds like a good deal to you... (place punch line here).

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"The only normal people are those you don't know very well." Joe Ancis

i'm pretty sure I could get over her real quick thinking there is probably at least 50 CRT members in San Jose right now getting ready to bang her. Not that you aren't that special, but maybe she might find somebody else this weekend.
Turn that frown upside down, things will get better!
Squidface

Have to say I've been to CR three times now and am no expert but it's only a fantasy. She will be banging others when you are not there so cut your losses. Keep your K*ds respect in tact because they will find out.

First question: do you speak Spanish? do you know what she is telling you?

Second question: do you know if she farts in bed? or if she uses tampons or pads? does she belch?

You don't know her beyond the gulch do you?

My dos dolares

Work on your marriage or get out but you are wasting your time and $$$$$ chasing una whore. Your wife will probably rake you dry when she finds out so why chase her? Unless you want to live dangerously and lose your wallet and your health. If thats the case good luck. People learn the hard way. It's only a fantasy.

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SRM:

I'm sure that you believed the posts were all negative, but in reality were they just not what your heart wanted to hear?

IMHO maybe a little "soul searching" is needed to find out how things are working in your life right now. Also, do you believe that someone other than yourself has the ability to change you, and make things "better"?. Some one much wiser than I worte, "When I do not go within, I go without!"

One of the wonders of life is that when I am not thinking the highest thought that serves who I choose to be, I can immediately change that thought and the results are instantaneous. You are only one thought away from changing your life for how you wish it to be. Are you ready?

Just some ramblings of a fat old man.

Health & happiness.

Santas Bro

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It's not the size of the wand that put the rabbit in the hat, it's the magic in it!!!

They were not negative.

They were reality....

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Miguel..........

I talked this past week to a source VERY close to the situation between you and Jenny. I know this is not what you want to hear, but IT IS ALL A FANTASY amigo. I promise you.

It is ALWAYS ABOUT THE MONEY. These girls could win award after award for their acting ability. Step back and take a deep breath. If you were thinking with a clear head you wouldn't be so wound up on this chica.

Berk...... just back from another tour of duty.

Jenny isn't her real name.


They don't use their real names so how real can it be.

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NFlorida wrote in November



Funny you never mentioned two additional trips to the land of STD's, HIV, Dengue fever, Hepatitis until now. 3 trips in 3 months to a place with all these problems. Must hold some other attraction. Sure your in depth trip reports will enlighten us as to the attraction.

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Alex Levine

Are you stalking me still? This isn't my thread, dude, so why are you hijacking it?

I won't answer. Don't want to hijack it. You could have PM'd me asking me why I returned. I returned with my wingmen who partake. After my 1st voyage I don't.


Have some manners. Gracias.

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Nothing new in this thread that wasn't said in the old one, (except NFlorida has apparently made 2 more fantasy trips to study STDs and jungle-borne illnesses of CR instead of finishing up that much anticipated trip report of his. -sorry couldn't resist )

So allow me to be the first to post a positive response for Sr Miguel:

Go to her you fool, Cupid hath shot his love dart into you and your dear Jeny, don't deny her any longer. We know you have made her picture your wallpaper on that computer of yours which you stare at while listening to a loop of Tommy Tutone's 867-5309. Besides how often doeth true love actually come along in our meaningless pathetic lives? It is rare my friend, and your time is short to save your young lass from the crowd of horny CRT debauchers on the way to defile her in all sorts of sinful, lubricated ways.
Kick that bitch wife to the curb, show up at bar Idem with a dozen red roses in one hand and a ring in the other to whisk her away to the life she yearns, one of perpetual happiness, security, english lessons and hot sex with her dream gringo. This is the stuff dreams, movies and romance novels are made of - and YOU have the chance to make it your reality. To hell with the naysayers, logic, common sense, the wife & K*ds, along with your miserable, tortured, Jeny-less existence as it is.- There is always some madness in love. But there is also always some reason in madness. (Nietzsche)

Jenny, Jenny, who can I turn to?
You give me something I can hold on to...
Jenny, Jenny, you're the girl for me.
You don't know me but you make me so happy.(Tommy Tutone)

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Living well is the best revenge
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MwUtj_YnNoY

Here are a couple more appropriate sayings:

There is no such thing as a free lunch.

If somethings looks too good to be true, chances are it isn't true

Dude, the chances of the girl not playing you are slim and none and slim just left town. I am not saying she is not a nice girl, but she sure ain't a good girl.

Anyway, we are all free to pursue happiness.

Sorry...spent a nice hour with her. Banged as hard as I could....enjoyed her moaning whether fake or real. One thing for sure....I enjoyed that tight piece.....