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I know that many of us here are hardcore seasoned mongers who aren't supposed to develop feelings of any type for working girls, but still I wonder if sometimes deep down we're not so immune to emotional attachments (however fleeting and temporary) & pangs of jealousy as we might think. Comments are welcome...

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I only feel "conflicted" if she is back to work less than an hour after i am done with her (like to think I did a little bit of damage). After that alls fair in love and mongering

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no problem with me either.What the eyes don't see, the heart doesn't feel.We are living in a fantasy world, aren't we?
Squidface

Interesting Poll GR. I actually make a point of staying away from any of my buddies favoritas even if they say they do not mind. There are always enough different girls to go around.


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Six months in the land of milk and honeys

Im a strong believer in the buddy rule. If a friend has sessioned with her, you must have clearance in order to partake with said girl.

I never really found it much of a problem in CR to be honest, but in Asia I find the GFE to be much more in your face and sometimes you get attached to them in a way. You see alot of guys, myself included who often keep a girl for 3 or more days, and theirs only so much "sex talk" you can do before you have to talk about other stuff. I donno, sometimes it just turns into something and you hate to see them walking back to the hotel with another guy the next day.

Generally speaking though, I have no problem as long as Ive gone as far as Id like with her. If I take a girl out for a night or two, actually spend some money on her, and she randomally goes with some guy, then Im going to be a little bothered.

In the end you have to remember its their job, and although you have the opportunity to perhaps win them over and perhaps pursue something with them, its all fair game until that happens

BUDDY RULE : MAN LAW

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I prefer not to know.

I would be interested if you had a choice F and it said, "I'll be honest, I sure as hell don't like it and if I like her then I can't stand to see it, but it's fantasyland and P4P so anything goes and I'll forget about it in 3 minutes unless I find something new and fresh soon. I won't even make a face about it and I'll wish her luck, but it bothers me a bit.

I would have taken that choice. This happened to me in Rio and CR a few times, I just don't have the appetite to keep them for more than a day, but I'm happy to play nice and buy drinks, but I can't expect them to work elsewhere. I agree about LOS though, the girls there totally take obsession and possession when they are with you to the Nth degree, it could be a bit harder there, but it's not like they are Rio talent or rare by any means.

If it was a friend of mine, I would expect clearance, which I would have to give 95% of the time, and I would only offer the same to anyone I know. If it was a stranger, that's just part of the game in my opinion.

Interesting - with all the talk about a "buddy rule" you would think more would vote Option C, or a combo of B & C. Actually doesn't make much sense when you really think about it - after all, wouldn't you rather have your favorita sessioning with someone you like and know not to be a psycho than some Joe "Mystery Monger"? But I understand the sentiment - RN chided me for months about expressly forbidding him from hitting Roxana back in the day.

Hey - looks like Rolltide finally chimed in with that "E" vote....

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When I was down there last year a fellow member helped me out in this situation. I met a very nice girl down there and I wanted to be with this other girl and he said if I had no problem with him being with her...he would take her. I do not blame him, she was a very nice fun woman. I would not get mad anyway...isn't that why we are down there in the first place?

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If she is working she is not your real girlfriend even if she lets you hit it for free now if she is not working that's a different story. To many guys take it out of context if she is working her work is to get phucked shock: and make money. If the guys don't like it then send her your check ever week via western union and she will probably still screw around when you are not in town. better yet just marry her and problem sloved you don't have to worry about her working. I have had guys before at MP get up set if a chica goes with a certain guy I just can't figure out why :

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Living Life To the Fullest {Pura Vida}

I think about it like this. we have the same goal. She is there to work, as in get at many guys as she can. And I'm there to get as many girls as I can. I have my fun and she does her job. If there is any friendship between us, then that all it is. She doesn't own me and I am not going to pay the price to own her. SO HAVE AT HER FELLAS.

Its like a Phuck buddy, you get a piece now and again but there is no commitment.

What bothers me is after you have sampled the goodies,the next day you are making your rounds and you run into each other. Many times they get attached or just hungry for more $,they are all over you.This sends out the wrong signals for new prospects, I just want to get rid of them and continue the hunt for new conquests. I try to be polite but sometimes you just have to leave them standing there.

Woof.....woof..........enjoy!

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I might have chose D IF the chica and I were "close" in a pseudo-GFFE fantasy sort of way (meaning we see each regularly and spend a fair amount of time outside the bedroom having fun and acting like a novio and novia) AND the guy were a close friend AND he didn't so much as at least ask me if I minded BUT only for about 30 seconds until I regain my common sense and remind myself that it is all just a job for her (including me). Knowing logically what the relationship is doesn't necessarily change your gut level reaction. If the chica is just another lay to me, I wouldn't even give it a second's thought, but with a favorita it can feel a little different under certain circumstances. The reason it might bother me if it were a friend is not at all because I felt she was somehow "cheating" on me but because of the whole "man law" thing. There are so many chicas out there why does a real friend have to move in on the one chica that you're playing out the novia fantasy with and help spoil the illusion. If she goes with some stranger it is easier to maintain that illusion that she is just doing THAT for work but with ME it is "something a little more". Of course I realize that is all completely ridiculous and if she is going to go with someone else anyway, why not let it be a guy you know to be a decent guy plus why not let especially a friend get in on a good provider. Still its always appreciated if a friend at least asks if I mind first. Invariably, even if I might hesitate for a second or two, I'll always wind up saying "sure, why not".

Now if you really want to know what might bug me more. Its not so much her going with other guys. That is only to be expected. I just hate to see them get a better rate than me.

Yeap - that of all things is a true mofo...and definitely worth getting pissed off over.

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