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Im coming up on a week here in CR and have a few more nights at SL. I do have an Asian Gringa at home who is admittedly a "6".

How do i go back to having sex with this woman after being spoiled by the fantasy like beauty and undescribable sessioning for 10 days.

I guess rule number 1, is The little Blue Pill. Thanks for any advice in advance.

Use the little blue pill, close your eyes, click your heels twice and imagine your back in OZ.

Visualization is key here. See the tica in your mind. Say something romantic to your Asian gringa like, "Don't say a word. I want to feel you breathe..." Unless of course she speaks fluent Spanish and can convincingly moan "Ay, Papi!" Listen to Latin music while boinking the gringa, but offer no explanations.

I find myself in the same situation.

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Pura Vulva! Wandering through the dark, I am El Ciego.

The solution seems simple to me. If you are unhappy/unsatisfied with your 6, why are you with her? Why not dump her and get a 9.

Keep in mind, if this girl is with you, it's probably because she wants to be. Of all the girls you were with in CR, I'd be willing to bet that not one would be with you if you weren't paying them to be. Something to think about.

Orange, you and I both know that whether with gringa or professional Latina Lover...payment is part of the deal. The currency may be different between the two (i.e. he pays gringa S.O. with time, patience, attention, fixing the sink, buying gifts, whatever). Which is why gringa wants in part to be with him.

You're also ignoring the fact that there may be numerous reasons aside from sex for maintaining a relationship.

I look at it this way, and I've said it before: My wife and I signed a contract, part of which was to provide sex on demand for each other. If she chooses not to honor her side of the contract, I feel justified in hiring subcontractors. I have no desire to discard my marriage, because it serves my life well in other regards...but as I still want and need sex, I hire the job done. For me, this is a better option on a variety of levels than finding a "normal" lover outside the marrital dyad, which I feel would be wrong.

To Smooth, please don't rely on Viagra to replace real emotion. If you love your Stateside S.O. at all, you owe her more than a phony boner. If you're really this messed up about your relationship after ten days in Costa Rica, there are problems that you and your gringa should probaby get counseling for. Again, if you don't really love your gringa S.O., that's another matter. But taking blue pills will only temporarily postpone the inevitable confrontation you'll have to have with your own feelings. All joking aside, I strongly suggest you check your head upon your return to the U.S.

Just my dos colones. YMMV and alll that.

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Pura Vulva! Wandering through the dark, I am El Ciego.

Thanks for that El Ciego. Its completely true. While my novia at home doesnt have Maxim caliber looks she also blows aways the chicas in different areas. She's totally reliable, digs me for who i am, is a great cook, pays for meals, can talk about my work, etc.

I have also tried to let her go, but she just gives me my space and then is available when i'm ready. She MUST have ideas to some degree what im up to down here and has never put one rule on me or even tried to dig for information. Maybe now you see why its a bit more complex.

Last night at the DR was about as good as ive ever seen it. And I had some eye candy back at the SL that was downright mind numbing. And the 21 year old i had yesterday was so cute and the ultimate GFE, its making it all the more challenging. Things are never black and white in the end.

Mistersmoothnyc,
I think after you're back home about 2 weeks the memories of your trip will find their true place and you'll begin to accept what you've got at home for what it is.

One in the hand beats two in Central America, at least on a day-to-day basis.

Wit

Orange;
If we could all get 9's in the states, there would be no need to visit Costa Rica every couple of months.. No?
LVSteve

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LV, you nailed it!
Whats better than a "9"? A "6" that will Phu*ck ya.
kenj8

If she is a 6 and you aren't happy with her, turn her upside down. A 9 is always better than a 6, but together they are both good!