Romulus,
What you said is very accurate & has been much like this for me also. There is one thing that I find SUPER IMPORTANT in having a great time that we do control. Many can be hardened pros period & nothing can penetrate these hardened hearts. You can look for the softer ones. It takes a little practice to find the flowers but they are there. I never seem to run out of them on a month or longer stay.
Not being rushed or hurried by time allows things to flow smoother too me. I see some men with very bad approaches to some hookers. I see them talking to a softer one only to see them make her harder IMHO. They ask what she wants & she softly says CIEN. The guy laughs in her face & ridicules her, looking down his nose. This is not the majority of us but I do see this often enough. Some guys have that attitude they are all a bunch of stupid whores & I don't have to be real civil because I am paying

. After these women get treated like this repeatedly it is hard for them but many have a softer side if you can find their button that triggers it if you know what I mean.
Even if this is true & some are stupid putas laughter & softness in your actions will only help your situation. You can tell when they see what they like & many will counter with less if you just play it out some in a nice way. I have seen guys say if I had the $$ I would pay it for you with an innocent type of smile & many will say how much you have Papi

. The Latin countries are truly fun loving societies & being nice but in control seems to work well. I am not insinuating that you are not nice etc & sure you are nothing but cool but just stating what seems to get me what I want & need. I can't stand pros

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Maybe I am just lucky & know the right people but I never get tired of the new talent I find. They are not hardened pros the way I see it. I don't know how they could give me any more of themselves since what they do is like a honeymoon night too me. I believe time & what we do is extremely important to finding what you like & how you like it. I fine 90 plus percent I go with will kiss passionately but only 5% or so will swallow but 40% or more CIM. Sometimes the little seamen swim out to meet their tongue (seeps inadvertently I promise) some get mad about it even thow it wasn't the mother load. Oh well shit happens

. Most laugh it off how ever it comes out if they are kept in a good mood.
We have much more effect on Latinas with mood & mind control than with the gringas I believe. After all most young Latinas have very unsophisticated childd like minds. It really pays to know the language & the cultural differences to get the most out of it. YMMV as always.