Zippy wrote:
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I suppose the only reason to stay in touch is if you are looking for a dinner, opera, theater or beach companion. Otherwise, not much point, but lots of risk, at least of wasted time. However, I am sure some would do it just for the ego stroking.
I tell you guys VB has got this stuff down
! I have found in paddling my little canoe down the different forks in the stream & exploring the different possibilities ended up with me paddling as fast as I could to get back to my point of origin
just by MYSELF throwing the chicas back in the river where I found them
.
Returning back to a chica after much time has passed that sees so many men & trying to recapture some BS you have created in your wild imagination is NUTS! I know as I have tried this
. Why oh why do men start barking up the wrong tree. Think about what you are saying by taking them to dinner & theater etc. You know what it tells me is you can’t find a real date
?? If the later is true then I understand doing this
(well I over dramatized this to make my point
). I guess I don’t understand this part about men. I have never paid by the hour or meter anyway to take someone out on the town so I wasn’t lonely??? I don’t mind cutting through the chase for the sexual release by paying for this directly but the rest why not find a real date? To each his own always.
The biggest problem I see with paying to drag putas around with us as a real date is this. It all starts out innocent enough only to find out you start to unrealistically rationalize that this women is just as human as the rest. Well she is physically but she has made a different decision mentally to sell herself direct for $$. So obvious she has that far away $$ stare to her eyes. This type of action starts to break down the stone wall you need to be able to maintain between the 2 parties as anything else is TOTAL INSANITY at best.
Most Gulch Chicas (Gulchitas) are totally unreliable compared to regular responsible Latinas, Big Surprise right
! So why fight this disappointment issue by trying to arrange a paid date of all things?? If you want company for dinner & do not have time to find a normal friend go out & find one early working P4P gals
. This is far more reliable than the other frustrations you will inevitably find. These women see far too many men & are totally distorted mentally about a real life.
I bet if you did a survey on staying in contact 90% or more regret it or pay some price that is not worth it in the end so why try & beat these odds. Most men I feel including myself have kept up some communication at some time out of our own insecurity of the need of wanting to be wanted. They will tell you what you want to hear if that makes you feel better but be ready to pay for it. This is just too embarrassing for me to deal with. Something to do with my stubborn pride. So sometimes it PAYS to be stubborn.
Well, Zip, if it's that easy to pick out chicas that want to go t the opera or theater, or that are not a HUGE risk taking to the beach for several days, please advise the technique! These are the activities you cannot do with any 'ole little thing you find at the BM, unless I have missed something, and VB has been holding out on me big time. (I doubt it, because he bought the drink.)
It took calling Elana on a
subsequent trip, and the day before, to set up the dinner date evening. Please explain how you do that without previous contact, and without the previous day's notice (requiring a phone number). In fact, when Elana told me she no longer had email, I was surprised. But now I see that for responsible contact, phone is best. It allows you to schedule a date, and to call if you are running late. Email is only really good for flirting and RFMs, which ultimately have no value.
Hey, I started this thread to highlight and agree with your advice, but as in most things, it's the exception that makes the rule. True, if you don't care to have a local show you the town, that's up to you. And if you can risk taking any little thing for a few days to the beach, that's up to you, too. As for "paying for it," let me just say that I seem to get enough social time gratis. Usually with a reasonable P4P end to the evening, or to start in the afternoon, the ticas will be more than happy go along for the ride, paricuarly if they get to call the shots for location. But I know for sure, YMMV!!!!
Another CRT member tried to copy my "courtesan" action, and got price-walked big time. If you approach it like haggling for a deal on buying a new set of tires, you have screwed only yourself. If you treat them right, and with respect (presuming you have picked one who deserves it), you buy one tire, and they will throw in the other three for free.
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