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PostPosted: Sun Oct 01, 2006 7:19 pm 
Good idea PacoLoco and more likely true Zippy and thanks for the funny spin on things Easy.

Shyone - a huge number of women make it in CR without hooking... most of them make it without hooking... something like 99.8 or so percent of them make it without hooking so one doesn't have to hook to make it in CR.

Why do guys think that a girl must hook to make it in CR? Oh, I know why, they ARE NOT thinking outside of the Gulch. There are a million or so women making it one way or another without hooking. Next time anyone is sitting in the news cafe watching all the women, attractive and unattractive, think about how each and every one of them make it without hooking. You'll quickly realize that hooking isn't necessary to make it in CR.

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First off...I have NO idea what Easy is talking about.In fact I'm not even sure I know who he is.I got a headache trying to follow all his numbers. I guess this is what happens to some guys when they retire.Hey Easy,find a hobby LIKE PHUCKING and stop counting MY ladies.I have been married twice and those are the only ones I will admit to. (and they weren't very good) 2 you hear me ONLY 2. The rest is hearsay.

D2864 I'm still not sure what you are advocating. I agree with you that it is helpful to a chica that "wants to" get out of the business has outlets for help. However she can turn to family and friends for support.The problem with the do-gooders from the States is that they invariably overstep their bounds. Their attitude is that they are going to help whether you want it or not,because their FUNDING depends on numbers. I can understand why some here have called you a hypocrite since you seem to believe what you say,but you also continue to exacerbate the problem by banging chicas and paying them. By giving them money you make it harder for them to quit. (or do you first ask them if they would prefer not to be doing this)You also make no reference to providing any funding or assistance to these do-gooder groups. If you really believe what you are saying,then you might consider changing your actions.


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I think the factors that most are questioning here is why governments should be involved in these activities or "rescuing" people AT ALL. If they are going to rescue people from the business of sex services...they should also provide funding and agencies to rescue the rest of us who are in jobs we hate, yet have to do it because we see no other option or way out. If we view prostitution as a different moral or ethical issue, then we definitely should not be participating in the service. Based on these premises, Pres Bush should be sending funds to rescue all working victims...Sr citizens working minimum wage jobs at McDonalds because their pension was stolen by the company they worked for 30 years...or that social security is not covering even their minimal overhead in expensive USA. They also should be rescuing all college graduates who spent buku bucks for a degree but now cannot find a lucrative job in their chosen profession. The examples go on and on. Sure, some of these girls are victims...just like sweat shop labor in the Far east. But the reality is...take those sweat shop jobs away...and those people are starving.

Sad realities of the world if you really think about it...and I dont think our government can or should rescue EVERYBODY. It's unrealistic. Rescuing starts at home, in the neighborhood, and at more local levels of support and change. The "Great Society" sponsored by BIG government is a failed model in my viewpoint...

Final point...governements have no morality. In most cases they pass morality laws to keep THEMSELVES in check...OR...to protect tax revenue enterprises. Why do you think they have or take the time to crusade against prostitution and online gaming? Its not about morality...it is about REVENUES they cant gain.

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The problem here is that in the US people want to classify everybody who is down on their luck as a "victim".

Tman is right. There are plenty of us who hate our jobs but HAVE TO DO them or we won't be able to pay the rent or car lease. I don't consider any of us victims. That's life. Now, if somebody forced me to work here, that's a different story.


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I can understand why some here have called you a hypocrite since you seem to believe what you say,but you also continue to exacerbate the problem by banging chicas and paying them. By giving them money you make it harder for them to quit. (or do you first ask them if they would prefer not to be doing this)You also make no reference to providing any funding or assistance to these do-gooder groups. If you really believe what you are saying,then you might consider changing your actions.

I am not out to save the world. I know that if I stopped banging hookers today, it won't have any effect. So by "giving them money" or by not "giving them money" - it won't make a bit of difference. I don't want to assist any do-gooder group - I just have no objection to others that give or if our gov't gives to them or if our gov't gives through another organization or that these organizations even exist. I don't understand why I have to change my actions just because I don't mind a do-gooder group using whatever means they like to rescue a chica who "wants" to make a change, but can't do it on her own (maybe her family and friends are just as disfunctional).


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I think the factors that most are questioning here is why governments should be involved in these activities or "rescuing" people AT ALL.... .... Pres Bush should be sending funds to rescue....

I don't think our gov't is directly involved. If anyone read about the organizations involved (through the links I provided), it seems to me that the International Organization for Migration (IOM) has a lot of member States so they are receiving donations from more than just the USA. Once the IOM has funds, it is the IOM's decision to fund whatever effort they feel is worthy. In the case of CR, a small portion (really small) of the funds are going to Fundación Rahab which provides temporary and permanent housing, education and job training to women who leave prostitution. Our gov't is not directly involved from what I gather. Also, this isn't about Bush in the least. The IOM receives funds from the USA no matter who is in office so let's not make this a dem or repub issue. Besides, an effort like this will be supported by the dems as well, because this is the party that wants to empower women. The repubs would be involved from the moral aspects. Both sides would find reason to support the Fundación Rahab, but I still don't believe our gov't is directly involved.

If anyone spent just a little bit a time researching the IOM, I think they would understand that it is the IOM (a 55 year old organization) that decides where and how the money is distributed. Sure they can be influenced by member States, but like I said before, CR is just one of many countries that are focused on human trafficking. Human trafficking is just another word for prostituting basically and this isn't a secret. In Latin America, real human trafficking largely does not exist (I agree with you guys), but in other parts of the world it really is a huge problem. One day a girl is an innocent 18 year old screwing only her BF and the next day she is forced to phuck 10 men a day!!!! I think the IMO, the United States, and other members States of the IMO want to take proactive steps to keep Latin America as pure as possible. It is better to fund this effort early than wait for it to be a major problem.

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D2864...I dont think many of us would argue against offering help to women who want out of the profession or need help to protect them from abusers or "traffickers". None of us want that.

I think the point most of us are trying to make is that politics and governments should not be involved in this. This is a local, regional or even national issue to be dealt with. With all the ways my tax dollars have been divided and squandered in my opinion by easy spend politicians whose ledger balance is basically bankrupt...I just think that is not a place for government money or influence. The vortex is inversed...and I dont think they will succeed in controlling anything. One of the few federal concepts I have believed in since the Clinton administration is "It takes a village". The concept that addiction and other issues are best addressed within families and in the "village", not in some international forum of "do gooders" who probably have addicts in their own families of one type or another...or have deviations of their own to contend with. These organizations waste more money than they spend on the "band aid" they apply to the situation.

Sorry if I sound negetive, sarcastic, or insensitive...but I think our country is in a constitutional crisis right now on role of govt and use of our money... and the combo of controlling prostitution and gambling on a global scale has got me broiling right now.

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Keep your hair on guys, this still is more to do with human trafficking thus women who are FORCED into prostitution than women who choose to be a prostitute. I am proud of my government and the religious right when they step up to help the weak. Keep in mind, those that are being forced aren't getting rich, they hand their money over to their master.
I agree, however the problem is do the rabid dogs who are pushing this initiative really understand the distinction between real human trafficking, pimping, und***ge prostitution on the one hand and women from poor backgrounds but of legal age who voluntarily seek out this work because it provides them a living they could never match in their economies back home. If they really wanted to do something about this "problem" they should do more to improve the economies of the countries these girls come from. At lesat we're doing more on an individual basis about that than all these do-gooders are. BTW, the same could be said about going after coca growers. If you want to wipe it out do something about the demand back in the US and also show them something more profitable to grow.
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Yea think Ole Chávez has something there
I'm no fan of Chavez, but it is this sort of thing, the US forcing its will down the unwilling throats of poor countries that give his complaints such traction in many of those countires. The US tried the same thing in Brazil not long ago (placing unreasonable conditions and restrictions on some aid e.g. criminalizing prostitution not allowing funding for condoms, healthcare etc.) and Brazil told them where they could stick their aid. It would be nice if CR had some balls too and wasn't such a lap dog.
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Prostitution is legal in CR and the religious right clowns in the US should stick to their own affairs. I think very very very few women here are forced into prostitution. ... Typical example of the USA sticking their nose into other countries affairs while they "liberate" other countries killing innocent people and freely torturing people. Some moral high ground the US has, what a joke.
Amen Brother!
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To change their sinful ways of prostetution. I know many will not agree with me but it is not just the religious right lets take a look at the liberal gringa! These are the ones that organize and put the pressure on World Organizations to help the poor countrys break away from their sinful ways!
First of all, for the feminazis its to break others away from their EXPLOITIVE ways. The religious right are the only ones concerned with SINFUL ways. Secondly, while I agree the feminazis and leftists may be supportive of what our government is doing, albeit for much different reasons, it is not those world organizations or even European countries where they hold more influence that is behind this campaign. It is the US gov't, which is currently administered by the "RIGHT" wing, that is making these moves and the last time I checked the N.O.W. wasn't exactly high on Bush's invitation list at the Whitehouse. You should also notice that all the NGO's mentioned in these campaigns have been ones with religious overtones e.g. WorldVison, Rahab etc. If those women's rights groups had as much sway as you suggest than you wouldn't still see a US ban on the distribution of contraceptives and abortion counseling in developing countries.
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I agree with you in part, Pidd...the fortunate thing is that liberal feministas are not a singular block, and there's a wide variety of opinion in those circles regarding prostitution. Take Camille Paglia, for example, pro porn, pro prostitution, etc. Additionally, liberal womens' groups have been instrumental in getting healthcare for working girls in the US and in 3rd world countries, helping to setup unions for strippers and s*x workers, providing contraception, information outreach.

It's been said that the outreach of these women's orgs has had an impact in lowering brith rates in 3rd world countries, and that's a good thing - and in direct contrasts to Bush's right-wing policies (i.e. drop funding if a 3rd world organization even mention the possibility of an abortion). So before anyone goes painting a single black swoossh of hated gringa-feministas, one has to see that they are doing some good work out there. But granted, there are some who will just dismiss p4p as partiarchal exploitation or some other nonsense.
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Is there even one person out of the thousands of people on this board who has, at any time in any place, met a prostitute who was a victim of human trafficking?


They won't tell you if they are and you won't know it. They are scared beyond the level of scared that you've even encountered.

Obviously, you've not watched any of the documentaries on the subject. They'll make you sick to your stomach if there is even an once of compassion within you.

This isn't about taking anyone's CHOICE away. It is about reaching out to help those that want help, but don't know where to turn. An organization wants to help with no strings attached. I just don't see anything wrong with that. Sure, some mongers talk of helping, but is it ever with no strings attached? Anyone know any mongers that wants to take a girl off the street, send her to school, get her counseling and then turn her loose to find a partner her own age?

Oh, and it isn't the conservatives that want to EMPOWER women, it is the LIBBERS not the religious right.

I'm still amazed anyone would condemn what this group is trying to do.... help humans in need even if they only help ONE girl the effort is worth it to them.
You almost had me here. I won't deny that there is widespread human trafficking in the world. Some of it may occur right under our noses without our being aware of it. But I don't think you can believe all the propaganda that passes for news on either side of the political aisle. We've all seen reports on prostitution in CR that we know from direct experience to be untrue or at least heavily distorted. I think there are very few if any women in the BM who are there against their will. They may be there because they don't have any better economic options but does that mean we should take it away from them. I think where the real human trafficking exists is largely underground. In the US, its in little houses tucked away in immigrant communities serving those same communities (e.g. mexican migrant farm labor camps or asian communities on the west coast and in major cities elsewhere in the US). In Asia, Eastern Europe and the MiddleEast, you have young women who are duped into signing on for au pair, "waitressing" or other forms of employment and stuck in the countries they end up. In CR, the nicas, dominicanas and colombianas go back and forth freely to and from their home countries. If they were here against their will why would they come back? In the BM, they all work as independents. They set their own prices and choose who they will or won't go with. In the MP's it is less clearcut whether they are being exploited, but again no one is forcing them to work there and many do leave. The real exploitation occurs on a much lower level than most of us ever experience. Young girls who have been forced to live on the street to escape the sexual abuse they experienced at home, winding up involved in drugs and perhaps petty crime to survive and ultimately prostitution. They enter a vicious cycle that hardly rewards them very well and is extremely hard to break out off. Those who don't die from AIDS or get killed eventually wind up as middleaged hags in some $5 whorehouse if they're able to make any living at all. Certainly they wind up with little to show for it. If Rahab were just focusing on those women, even if it came at the price of ramming some religion down their throats, I'd definitely agree that those women would be better off. The problem is that I'm not so sure that is where they draw the line. Certainly the agencies and other NGO's they're working with seem just as focused if not more so on the more visible end of the market that caters to those disgusting, exploitive and perverted gringos. You can see that when their idea of cracking down is immigration sweeps INSIDE places like the BM or the BB, while those on the street or in countless and hidden little MP's that cater to locals go unpursued.
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"US will launch effort against Pacific Coast prostitution" is the first line of the article.How did we get to the saving of the whole world here? The article specificly targets Jaco because some businesses and investors think it will hurt them financially. I'm sure we could find a few chicas who are forced into prostitution, (I've persoanally never had an inkling of being with one) but if the percentages were above 1% I would be very surprised. If these do-gooders really want to help these chicas then instead of inducing them to leave the business,they should teach themthe value of the money they earn. A chica's successful hooking longgevity isn't too long. If they could help these chicas to stop 1.using drugs 2.stop drinking so much and 3. stop pissing away their money on gambling. The smart ones use this as an opportunity to live a better life by spending a few years doing it and saving their money.
Amen Brother! I might add if you really want to do something about prostitution in CR then get them early. Deal with the all to pervasive incest and sexual abuse. Go after the deadbeat tico dad's who knock these girls up LONG before we ever get to them and then take off, forcing them into a position where they have to come up with some way to provide for themselves and their Ch*ldren.
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It seems to me that what D2864 has posted is being taken some what out of context at least to me anyway. I do not see what is wrong with having help available for women that feel abused but on the same hand don't go tell them they are abused if they don't see it this way. Let them decide on their own to seek the help just let them know it is another option.We have this in the states for battered women that have been abused. We know it happens to more than just a few what's wrong with helping with an alternative option.
Amen Brother! But that is an important distinction. If you do a search you will find where I expressed an interest in Rahab's work a long time ago. And I still am. However, it concerns where they draw the line. Do they proselytise or do they just help women that come to them? Unfortunately, I think they've tainted themselves with their association with this wider overreaching and misdirected initiative.


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PostPosted: Mon Oct 02, 2006 8:23 pm 
Great! At least we now have some thoughtful responses to this than just a few negative words bouncing back and forth.

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D2864...I dont think many of us would argue against offering help to women who want out of the profession or need help to protect them from abusers or "traffickers". None of us want that.

In Prolijo style - Amen Brother! So the only difference between you and I is that I don't mind gov't involvement.

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D2864 posted that something like 99.8% or so of Costa Rican women make it without hooking. He seems very sure of his statistics.

As I recall the story, Winston Churchill once asked a woman if she would have sex with a man for 50,000 pounds, and she said "of course". Then he offered her 100 pounds to have sex with him, and she said "What do you take me for, a prostitute?" Churchill answered "We have already established what you are. Now we are only trying to determine the price."

If hookers in Costa Rica are defined as only those women who have sex for money on a daily basis, then the percent is not high (but surely much more than 0.2%). However, if hookers are defined as women who would have sex with one man, one time, if they were offered a large sum of money (such as $1,000 or $10,000), then the hooker rate would likely be over 50%. Or in the States, how many women, who would normally not have sex with a particular man, would share a bed with the same guy if he offered her a trip to Las Vegas or an all expense two week cruise?

All of the above are prostitutes!

And they surely are not "victims".


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Horndog: Believe me the last thing I need on this forum is a “Holier than Thou” message from another monger!

I could not agree more... :oops:
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we have our bankrupt US government giving taxpayers money to fight prostitution in Jaco. How sick can it get? Jeesh...

Bankrupt US government... Like Chavez said "The Devil Himself"...:twisted::evil::twisted:

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D2864 posted that something like 99.8% or so of Costa Rican women make it without hooking. He seems very sure of his statistics.


Hmmmmmmmmmmm
A Do-Gooder that's a MONGER...
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I don't see anything wrong with the religious part. …..I'm not a do-gooder for the most part….




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"The U.S. State Department is bankrolling an effort to attack prostitution in Costa Rica's Pacific coast.

Appropriately, the kickoff will be Friday in Jacó, which is considered a major center for prostitution."

This enterprise is not about helping defenseless women. It is about
stamping out sin. As others on this thread have pointed out, if
this Bible-spouting foundation really cared about the women, they
would address the root problems of poverty.

What these people are doing is attacking my lifestyle and attacking the
means by which many women have been able to get out of poverty
and buy nice little houses with gardens.

We should not underestimate the power of the Puritans. As was
pointed out, they ruined Puerto Rico as a destination. They have
dampened the business in the Dominican Republic lately. It is
entirely possible that Costa Rica could be next.

All of us know that there is very little coercion in Costa Rica. The
human trafficking and the pimp system thrive only where prostitution
is illegal, as in the United States. The Bible-thumping enthusiasts don't
eliminate prostitution; they just make it dirty, abusive to all involved,
and underground with connections to drugs.

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This enterprise is not about helping defenseless women. It is about
stamping out sin. As others on this thread have pointed out, if
this Bible-spouting foundation really cared about the women, they
would address the root problems of poverty.

Stamping out Poverty..&..Ridding the world of SIN!!!!..... :?

Maybe the United States present administration could get a Disgraced Republican congressman to run its Costa Rican Branch of Hypocrisy....Just think…the United States Number One Hypocrite in charge of turning Prostitutes around in CR……..:shock::shock::shock:


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On a related note...the US Congress has just passed a bill 'outlawing'/'restricting' online gambling in the USA. However, there may be ways around the restrictions.

http://sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?f ... LH0TV1.DTL

I don't gamble online or offline, so no skin off my back, but I'm sure some of you do, and it's yet another example of government intrusion. A short quip from the article:
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The new bill, a concerted effort by conservative Republicans, prompted some of the biggest gambling Web sites to announce plans to shutter their U.S. operations after the legislation is enacted.


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Igualmente wrote:
Maybe the United States present administration could get a Disgraced Republican congressman to run its Costa Rican Branch of Hypocrisy....Just think…the United States Number One Hypocrite in charge of turning Prostitutes around in CR

If this guy Foley is a veteran congressman, how did he vote in the
Clinton impeachment process? Anyone know?

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Toledoguy wrote:
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We should not underestimate the power of the Puritans. As was
pointed out, they ruined Puerto Rico as a destination. They have
dampened the business in the Dominican Republic lately. It is
entirely possible that Costa Rica could be next.

All of us know that there is very little coercion in Costa Rica. The
human trafficking and the pimp system thrive only where prostitution
is illegal, as in the United States. The Bible-thumping enthusiasts don't
eliminate prostitution; they just make it dirty, abusive to all involved,
and underground with connections to drugs.


Unfortunatly I don't think people are really seeing the picture!
Its not just the Bible-thumping enthusiasts trying to eliminate prostitution.
Like I posted before you need to focus the concentration on liberal Gringas that are trying to promote around the world. The controling gringas of faith based organizations as well as cumbia hippie groups are really the problem. This will not go away that simple because Costa Rica is in their sights!

I want to go on record that in ten years or less there will be new laws in place for mongering in Costa Rica because of the pressures of the U.S. gingas.

If you want to see how fast a law can be in place look at the bookies and how the U.S. affected their biz!


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