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Tman,
Thanks for that gentle slap back to reality. While I'll admit I've gotten a little too close to "working" girls a time or two, I think I'm finally able to see past the illusion. While they've never "done me wrong" or otherwise taken advantage of me I know it's not the best situation for me.

I just need to keep reminding myself that when and if the time comes to settle down (again) I make a clear-headed and wise decision. I guess I'm just a hopeless romantic.

Wit

Look, the game is the game. No romanticizing it.. It's like the Buffet song, I think the name is Down to the Banana Republic. One of the verses goes: Learn a word of Spanish or two. You know you can't trust them, they know they can't trust you." Always gonna have problems when you get too personal.

i agree completely, its a good song also

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The Wizard

"Women and cats will do as they please, and men and dogs should relax and get used to the idea." - Robert A. Heinlein


Doesnt look like Costa Rica for a while. Got offer 2 years in Singapore. Now what is a good hotel in Thailand. (New Weekend home).

I agree with the sentiment that too much shallow bumpin' and grindin' can wear thin. (Tell that to the guys in Nebraska and Indiana.) For me that's where the danger starts, because then I start talking and listening to girls. And when a civilian girl starts paying attention, I see what that is, too, having been married twice. And the notion of something meaningful in the longterm sense is rough if you're not a permanent resident.

Best sex for me was the first 5 years of both marriages, the first few months of some relationships, and the first few times with some extraordinary working girls who were exhibitionist types.

T - I hear ya on the "Have a real relationship, and fool around on the side," "Balance" thing. Words of a true monger, right there, dude. You gotta luv that shit, bro, and I don't disagree. One man's "balance" is another woman's "nightmare reincarnate." (lol).

Ah, shit, there's no easy answer. Today the girl that inspired this thread proclaimed to me she's not a liar, prays to god she'll find her way out of the profession, hasn't "worked" in a long time, and really is going to see her mother for three days. She actually came to my apartment this morning so I could walk her to the bus and see she was boarding and called tonight from her mothers. This is the same major league'r who puts her finger over her lips (to me) when her guy from New York calls, who's giving her about R5000/month and setting up a fiance visa which she has no intention of going through with. I've thrown a single $R50 bill at her 3 or 4 times in the last week and she's slept over twice and cares what I think. This is one twisted, phuckin' world, but I admit, I'm loving the whole scene.

Oh. and I told her I went to L'uomo yesterday. Her response was smooth, and she was curious if the girls were "bonita." Uh..let me think about that for a nano-second..." I said sometimes, not always, but last night, sim.

Then I walked her to the bus.

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"Don't never trust a woman, till she's dead and deep....One day she'll say she loves you, next day she'll throw you on the street."

"...and if men didn't have this unquenchable desire to have sex with women, then they wouldn't have anything to do with women at all. I certainly wouldn't..."

Gosh I love L'uomo. I hope the stable is good.

Yes this is how it has worked for most guys I know of in the states.There are damn good reasons expressions like the 7 year itch exists but most people in the States start scratching much sooner than this
Hope you don't mind if I translate this to the truth. She is saying she is sore & tired right now & needs a break before she returns to repeat the whole cycle. I do feel for them that this is the best outlet to make a living even though they would survive doing something else. Most of us would do the same in their little shoes I bet. Poverty is never fun ! I agree Jazz it is a twisted mess out there & always will be but fortunate for us it is more fun sometimes than for others. I do wish all humans Peace & happiness with orgasmic joy thrown in !

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"Run silent, run deep"
Spunk glazed Chicas are the building blocks of the universe!

This is a great line...


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The Wizard, I went to screw her sister(s), but they where in Jaco. I screwed her BF because I had enough of the sh*t. She hauled ass to the DR for Xmas,and was pissy because I refuse to send WU for an airplane ticket back to CR. There I was in SJ.... all alone...sort-a.. Let me just say it was Damn Gooooooood...That when I realized that I did not need to put all my eggs in basket. I still like having my Spratt around, but I find being solo is also nice. Like taking my early morning walks to ZB, It keeps me in great shape, Her to....



I feel that to many newbie's( Including myself) read more into these relationships then is really there. I like this line below, it sort sums up the whole Mongering Scene for me as I'm about to head out for SJ in the morning. I plan on taking it easy, no rush on nothing, even P*ssy. I find that when she realizes that I'm not overly horny, she tends to turn on more. If I want a quicky, that's just what I get, for the same price... :shock::shock:

"Women and cats will do as they please, and men and dogs should relax and get used to the idea."
Ig...

Ig..tell me I'm mistaken about this!

dapanz1

Do I really have to post on this thread? Anyone who has been on this board for more than a few weeks knows EXACTLY how I feel. I LOVE being in an intimate,highly personal relationship with a chica here in CR.In fact I love it so much that I have a relationship with several at a time. If one is good,then 2 is twice as good and so on..and so on. My problem living here is that I see the chicas at the DR so much that I see ALL THEIR WARTS while I am looking for some NEW fun for an evening. I have become even pickier than I used to be. (and I was always picky) But the thrill of looking for that new one is still fun. If that feeling ends, then I will have to rethink my mongering. I believe that we should treat the chicas as well as they treat us. This means that we are very nice while in their company,and could care less while we are away from them. (until they call) We ARE their mealticket.They know it..we know it..so all the other bullshit is just that...BULLSHIT. Don't fall in love with a hooker. Being married to an ex-hooker is not that different from being married to a current hooker.(with rare exception) You are their mealticket and it just costs a lot to change that.

Well, I guess I'll tell you and you decide. She decides she wants to go home for Xmas and wants me to WU her the $$ for the ticket. I stupidly said I’ll pay half for a RT ticket, thinking that I get a P*ssy Discount in January for all my efforts. So I send the WU and wait for her to call me. How wrong I was, she buys a one way ticket, and now wants me to send more WU to buy another ticket…
F*ck That!!!
To make a long story short, I arrive in San Jose on the 6th of January solo for the first time in about 8 months and ended up hanging with all the other Dom. Spratt’s in the HDR. Several C-C’s & 7’s later things started to get out of control. All those warm bodies, my poor d*ck was turning to stone. Her BF sized on this opportunity (Literally right there @ the BJ tables) and one thing leads to another and before I know it where off to the suite in the Prez. Hell, I'm solo and am enjoying myself, so this goes on for the next five days.

It starts every morning with an early morning walk Feasting @ ZB’s for breakfast and then back for some sleep, only to rise to having BF calling me for desert every night, my only regret now that I look back on it that I should have cut a toda la noche deal with her BF.

Well it did not take to shakes of a rat ass before that phone was ringing with mi Spratt on the other end acting like my ex-wife. I told her that she knew was coming to SJ in January and she still went home for Xmas. Now let me state that for sure, I get a real head trip out of being with her, and most of the time I stick with her, but enough is enough..
When she finally called back after some real nasty words for me and was finally calm enough to talk me, I told her that she left me high and dry in SJ with a city full of Beautiful women who all have only one thing on there minds($$$) and that is it not better to spend my money with her BF instead of some drunken Tica that I picked up in the HDR.

She agreed it was better to help out her BF by giving her the $$$
and has never spoken about since. All I did was show her that as long as a relationship is based on $$, then I will always have the upper hand in this relationship. It goes back to the post about being the Sugar Daddy without any Sugar….. It ain’t happening @ least not in a long time.

Tomorrow, I plan on screwing my Spratt all afternoon, then it’s on to Flamingo for some snorkeling, and she heading there with me, before I showed my ass, She would have dragged me off to Jaco to hang with all of her friends. F*ck That, I’m going snorkeling…

Ig...

I think he means "Best Friend" for BF....

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Best Freind is right....Sh*t Happens...

I think that this sums up the situation best as it defines the contrast between the make believe world of the Del Ray and the real world of going out with a regular chica. Nuff said.

Thanks for clearing this up cause BUTT Fphuck is what I thought he meant but then again this is how my mind works .. I think it is an absolute short term blast to get involved on the surface with a working girl. If they try to maneuver themselves into trying to make something real out of it you have to laugh & let them know this could never be because you can not change the destiny they have chosen for them self.

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Spunk glazed Chicas are the building blocks of the universe!

Yeah, for a minute I thought Ig was doing the boyfriend. My bad. LOL

dapanz1