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So we are clear I have the upmost respect for any working girl... but...

There is nothing that drives me up the wall faster on this board than to read... "my novia" this and "my novia" that. The reason is simple. Girlfriend/novia carries with it the concept of mutual love, respect and affection. If one exchanges money for sex it's a business transaction void of love and affection. The working chicas are some of the best actresses in the world. They are not taking their panties off for you because you're some big stud that they can't wait to do. They are doing it cause you are PAYING them. If you believe otherwise you are being played as a fool and living life as a sucker.

Wake up and smell the coffee. You may have an amiga at best. Absent of that all you have is a business transaction. It's all make-believe. Use some common sense.

With that being said..... I look forward to my next "business" trip.

Berk......

But my novia is special and waiting patiently for my return.

And there's nothing that rankles my ass quite as badly as a guy who continually pisses on my fantasy.

What's your bottom line issue here? Trying to save the monger world with your "common sense?" F*ck you and the whore you'll ride out on.

Let me guess... if you had offspring, you'd also be the kind of daddy who shatters youthful fantasies of Santa Claus and the Easter Bunny? "Sorry Johnny... the only thing you'll get for that lost tooth is a bloody socket for a day or so, then a new tooth?"

Yeah, we call 'em "novias," because calling them c*nts would be ungentlemanly.

BTW...this entire thread belongs in "Smack Talk," not in "General Information." Get with the program, will you?

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Look Paco...... let's face it. You're different. Being able to pass as Brad Pitt's double is an advantage.

Berk.....

Totally agree Berk. I tend to call them regulars when I see one frequently.

I only date honest, faithful hookers. Oh that reminds me I have to run by Western Union today to keep her honest and faithful, thanks Berk.

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Damn!


Me too, thanks for reminding me.

dapanz1

I too have found it crazy that so many gringos call these girls ( novias) hilarious really, as we are all too old to believe in fantasy or santa claus.

But whatever turns your crank.

I always tell them " if you pay them for services rendered they are not your novia, they are your employee".

Calling them my regular or in my rotation is a far more realistic outlook.

Sorry my friend, but it ALWAYS comes down to money! And I'm not only talking about the chicas. It happens to all of us, every day, everywhere, with every woman we spend time with. And if you think that my statement is "make believe", then you need to exercise a little more common sense. It's never "black & white". There's a lot of gray areas that go along with this topic.

Whether guys refer to the chica's as:
mi favorita, or mi mujer regular, or mi señora, or mi amante, or mi novia, or mi muchacha imaginaria, or mi amiga or mi mistress, or mi estrella del porno (porn star), or mi gatito del sexo (sex kitten) or miss right-for-now..... what's the phucking difference ????

And when I buy my wife or girlfriend some jewelry, or take her to dinner, or take her away for a weekend, the underlying reason is always (ultimately) for SEX! Does this mean that it's business in your book, and void of all love and affection???

Or, how about a one of our "regular" chicas, who you've known for a long time? You take her to dinner, have some drinks, do a little dancing, and then she gives you lovin' for gratis. Is this considered "void of all love or affection" in your book? Is this another "business transaction"? After all, I did have to pay for dinner and drinks, with the hopes of getting some sex afterwards. Phuck that. I'll call her whatever I choose to call her, regardless if it chaps someone's ass!

Berk,
IMHO, who gives a sh*t what guys prefer to call their favorite chicas. It's all a fantasy anyways. Why would something like this "drive you up a wall" ??? Remember, no matter where you are, or who you're with, IT'S ALWAYS ABOUT PAYING $$$ FOR SEX. This is the way it's always been, and will always be, long after we're ALL gone. Why let it bother you?

Besides..... my NOVIA told me that I was the only one!!!! Actually, I guess I should probably re-phrase that so it doesn't drive you up the wall. Here goes:
The young, beautiful, sensual, Latin-American woman that I met, and spent some time with, whom I later gave some money to, because she rocked my phucking world 7 ways from Sunday, told me that I was the only one. How's that? Better?

Just let it go. Some of us still believe in Santa Claus and the Easter Bunny. It's all fantasy, and it's OUR fantasy.

Respectfully,
Mucho Gusto

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Berk I couldn't agree more but I guess to each his own or what ever makes a man happy . When I hear a man talking about he his waiting for his novia to show in HDR it makes me want to throw up if he really believes it is true . Who doesn't like a hot no hassle lay for a few bucks for some R&R but my god lets be honest with our selves. The guys that can't sort this stuff out always end up hurt & used & repeat the same mistakes from what I have seen. I just don't believe it is even wise to start joking about one of these HDR specials being a novia especially after a few alcoholic beverages since you might start believing your own shit . Hey it's their life but when they cry in their beer about it I get away from these guys like they have the plague!

I just feel sad about these types of men that they do not have much of a life to end up dating hookers but phucking them in a respectful type of non abusive way makes perfect sense to me. Obvious we will have some more affinity for one hooker over another & we may clique with on over another do to many factors (after all they are just as human as us) but really this should change nothing in the over all basic equation of $=sex or sex=$. They are what they are & we are too .

Like I have said before all this is a kind of poison in its own way but this is one poison I have really enjoyed & so far I don't know of anyone I have hurt by this. I just take my antidote on the way home & have lived in harmony for several decades like this. Being able to draw a distinct line in the sand on reality & fantasy has made all the difference in the two worlds.

Pacoloco's

There are ALWAYS EXCEPTIONS to the rules!
Peace & Happiness to all.

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Mucho Gusto wrote:



I agree with MG. Although I don't call them novias to some it is part of the fantasy and it all come down to the customer is always right.

Have you ever heard the term you pay for it one way or another. I actually appreciate the honesty of the transaction between the girls and myself. Like any other "business arrangement" there are unscrupulous individuals on both sides of the transaction, but the transaction its self is honest. I am paying for this. I want to be treated this way or that way (sometimes both) and I will compensate you with this. I wish I could have started most of my relationships in the states that way.

I mean can you imagine:

Me: Susan I find you attractive and would be interested in dating.

Susan: That would be acceptable to me what are your terms.

Me: What do you offer for Diner and a movie on Fridays and Dinking and Dancing Saturday.

Susan: Friday after the first date kiss on the cheek only after serious amount of teasing earlier. Saturday I will pretend to get drunk as a cover to save face and Phuck your brains out in the in the parking lot of the bar. Is this acceptable?

Me: Here's a hundred bucks enjoy the movie and diner I'll pick you up Saturday.

Susan: I'm sorry attendance on Friday is mandatory.

Kind of takes the romance out of it don't it.


Xman

All I can say is I enjoy this "business transaction" with the SJO chicas

Sure, I know. Which one though ?

For me, it's all about the fantasy.......It's my magic carpet ride to Disneyland and OZ. When it's over.....it's back to reality......until the next time.

I'm still workng on my trip report for my maiden voyage but I'm with Berk on this one. I have never seen so many love sick pups living in a fantasy world while the chicas laugh

As for M-men.. it's a fantasy to think their novia is their gf. They seem 2 like to live in a fantasy world

For M Men its understandaeble. Sometimes they need that fantasy

- B

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