Pacifica55 wrote:
Sorry, but I have enough sense to know that the majority of obese people overeat and that is the "condition" that keeps them portly. I don't need a scientific analysis of their stools samples...


brilliant.
i just want to address my comment. yes i used the word humiliation but in truth it is a subtle one. its not like people are going to be publicly flogged but make no mistake. if you are obese everyone notices. and why is it acceptable for you to be that size with no repercussions?
i know three very large people who are close to me. one is my stepdaughter and i love her dearly and have tried everything possible to encourage her. including purchasing gym memberships near her school, having an eliptical in my home and not bringing garbage in to my home to eat.
another is my office manager, who i care for deeply, have encouraged and provided an eliptical in my office and offered memberships etc. when she has spoke of getting fit.
the other is my nephew who is over 400 and really a lost cause in mind and body.
the one thing all have in common is that they EAT LARGE QUANTITIES OF GARBAGE ON A DAILY BASIS. that and they choose not to exercise because they are uncomfortable and it is easier to have a food party and forget about it.
people who just want to make excuses for these people astound me. in the same way a drunk must be addressed as such and shown tough love so should an obese person. i'm irish so does that mean my genetics have predisposed me to being a drunk so i should be tolerated in public drunkeness? of course not.
if i borrowed too much money from my house and spent it on putas should the rest of the taxpayers help me pay it back even though they lived within their means? congress thinks so.
but that would require people to have personal responsibility and who believes in that anymore? easier to make excuses.