I am back in the States for a day and had a quiet flight to reflect on stuff.
When I return tomorrow I will see about getting her a job, and what it takes to get her into school.
Remember, please this is a GFE.
My longest lasting one did not make 30 days.
So I have no blinders on here.
I ditched one because she said no when I was in the mood.
So don't credit me with being too soft hearted.
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="King Costa"]
You sound like the typical rescuer we have described.
Initially I rejected that statement as total BS.
My self image is warrior/alpha male.
On reflection, you are right.
All my life I have helped others,
THAT HELP THEMSELF!
I know what an ENABLER is, and will not go there.
I have never sent money, and never will.
So I assure you that you don't have to worry on that account.
It is ironic: I come to CR to be carnal and lusty,
not cerebral and insightful.
As a mental game, I will deposit $100 in a account for every
day she is with me. I will deduct all her expenses, and see
what remains.
By that method she has a lot saved.
If she screws up she leaves with nothing.
If she does right, she will walk away with a serious stake to
get started in life.
She doesn't know any of this, so it will be interesting.