Smelvis wrote:
I was always with the guy's who always tried to pick up the check and I also did. Now being retired I think I prefer to have separate checks with the exception of maybe two buds who will always be safe and pay their share.
But I did have a ex friend who fit the drill damn he would work so hard to get out of a bill, or if it was his turn he would take us to taco bell where his wife managed so we ate for free. real tight wad, I ended the friendship or so called as I tend to give to many chances after I bought a radial arm saw from him and before I picked it up he resold it to someone else blamed it on his son and said he didn't have the money, I finally told him to F***K off.
Hey Dave

Love it! What an asshole - he borrowed the saw, claimed his son sold it and then refused to come up with either a replacement or the money - he would be off my Christmas card list
Your "friend" sounds like
A SHNORER Group I traveled with for years - some were fairly heavy drinkers; I am not - anytime we would all go out to dinner, they would have 3 - 5 drinks each, but would want to just split the bill - me, if knew that my portion had to be bigger simply by virtue of the fact I had 5 rum and cokes, well I'd be first w/ offering more money (one of the reasons I like separate checks; however when you have a group of 6 or 8 its not practical) - asked him about it and he said, "What, its no big deal for us all to split the bill - the drinks are not that expensive....."
True story; never mind about basic fairness (and yes, he had plenty of money).
I think there are many in CR especially residents, on a fixed income - these are not the guys I (or others I presume) are refering to in this thread. Its the guys who have it - even if you are frugal by nature, there are times you have to reach deep for other activities besides scratching your balls
