Green Giant wrote:
Even if you loose the tickets, I wouldn't come with your gringa until the situation is resolved. Waste of money. Sounds like a typical gringa trick to leverage a trip for her. If you are separated, you should be able to go where you want. Discussing reconciliation is not a good reason to go to CR. Clear the air with her first or come by yourself. If the reconciliation is successful, go and celebrate, if it is unsuccessful go and celebrate.
I agree with Green Giant. It DOES sound like a way for her to leverage a trip for her. She wouldn't go alone, and she wouldn't go on her own dime, but if you are paying and accompanying her, that's a different story. She can talk about a reconciliation with you anywhere and anytime, right? She has your number, right?
If she did some research, she just doesn't want you to have a good time. Women don't leave something for nothing. When they leave you, it is only after they have set up the next sugar daddy/love of their life/rebound boyfriend. She is not sure if she is done with you....she just doesn't want you to have a good time, or have some time where you can get out of her "hurt locker" and clear your head. Either way, you might realize you don't need her before she has sucked all the life or money out of you.
Get out of this gringa's mine field. Go on the trip alone. But make nice, and before you go, tell her, "Darling, you might not realize it, but I love you. I know you love me. But we need some time apart to realize how much we feel for each other. I want to be myself with you, but I want to be my smart self... I need some time in a different place, a chance to clear my head, put the arguments away...and when I come back, maybe you'll see THAT guy you fell in love with."
Of course, seeing THAT guy is the last thing she wants to see. THAT guy was happy.